Nciphise uxinzelelo lwentsapho ngokulungiswa
Ukufakazela ukufa komntu omthandayo akunakuze kube lula, kodwa ukulungelelanisa imizuzu yakhe yokugqibela kuya kunciphisa kakhulu uxinzelelo olubangelwa "ntoni ngoku?" imibuzo emva kokuba othandekayo wakho adlula. Nangona kunemisebenzi embalwa kufuneka uzalise kwiiveki okanye emva kweenyanga emva kokufa, uya kufuna kwakhona ukulungelelwa kwiiyure ezimbalwa zokuqala emva kokudlula.
Qhagamshelana noGunyaziwe
Shayela amapolisa ukuba umntu owamthandayo ufile ekhaya - uya kufuneka ukuba uthathe inxaxheba kwamapolisa ukuqinisekisa ukuba umhloli wezobugqirha uyamemezela ngokusemthethweni ukufa. Ukuba ilungu lakho losapho lafa ekhaya kodwa lafumana ulondolozo lwama-hospice, qhagamshelana ne-ejensi yokubhedlele. Ukuba wafa kwindawo yokukhathalela, njengesibhedlele, ikhaya labahlengikazi, okanye i-hospice, ke abasebenzi bezempilo baya kunika isimemezelo esisemthethweni sokufa.
Ukuba sele udibanise nekhaya lokungcwaba, qwa lasela kwangaphambili ukuba uya kufuneka ukuba wazise amapolisa, ikhaya lomngcwabo, okanye zombini. Kwezinye iimeko, ikhaya lomngcwabo liya kubakho kwiimviwo zomthetho ezijikelezayo ekufeni kwintsapho.
Lungiselela uMnikelo Womzimba
Ukuba umhlobo wakho wasweleka ekhaya kwaye uyazi ukuba unqwenela ukunikela ngamalungu okanye izicubu zakhe , kufuneka uhlole ilayisenisi yakhe yokuqhuba, uya kuthi, okanye uqhubeke nomyalelo . Ixesha liyinto engundoqo kuba amathambo anikezelweyo kufuneka ahlangane ngokukhawuleza emva kokufa.
Ngokufanelekileyo, umntu ovela kwintsapho uza kwenza amalungiselelo amalungiselelo omzimba okanye umnikelo ngaphambi kokuba afe, ukunciphisa umngcipheko wokuthi izicubu aziyi kuphinda zibe ngumnikelo ngenxa yexesha phakathi kokufa kunye nomnikelo.
Qhagamshelana neKhaya loMngcwabo
Ukuba wena nomfakho wakho othandekayo akazange ukhethe umngcwabo okanye umxhasi wexesha lokuhamba ngaphambi kwexesha, kuya kufuneka ukhethe kwaye uqhagamshelane nomnye.
Iintsapho zihlala zikhetha ikhaya lendawo yokungcwaba okanye iqumrhu elalisetyenziselwa intsapho, ngaphandle kokuba enye indlela engeyona yendabuko yokufunwa komzimba ifanelekileyo, njengokutshiswa ngokuthe ngqo, ukucwatywa ngokuthe ngqo, umnikelo womzimba, umngcwabo wendlu, njl njl.
Yazisa Abantu abalulekileyo
Ngoxa ulinde ukufika komthetho okanye abasebenzi basekhaya lokungcwaba, qalisa ukudibanisa namanye amalungu osapho lwakho olusenyongweni, kunye nezihlobo ezihlobo kunye nabahlobo, ukuba ubaxelele ngokufa. Ngexa uyenza njalo, kwaye apho kufanelekile, kufuneka ubacele uncedo lokuqhagamshelana nabanye.
Musa ukulibala abantu abafana nomqeshi wakho omthandayo okanye obalulekileyo kodwa malungu angamalungu entsapho.
Qalisa Umthi wefowuni
Akufuneki ukuba uxelele wonke umntu malunga nokufa ukuba awuyi kuziva. Kunoko, cela amalungu osapho lwakho olusondeleyo, izalamane eziphambili, kunye nabahlobo ukuncedisa ukuba usasaze ilizwi kwabanye. Buza ukuba baqhagamshelane nabantu abathile, nangona kunjalo, kwaye, ukuba kuyimfuneko, banikele ngolwazi loqhagamshelwano kubo. Ukukunceda ukugcina umkhondo, ubuyekeze ibhuku ledilesi okanye oonxibelelwano kwifowuni yakho kwaye wenze uluhlu ukuqinisekisa ukuba ungamnaki umntu.
Yilungiselele iNkonzo yoLondolozo
Ukuba umthandayo unemfuyo, qinisekisa ukuba bayanyamekela de kubekho ilungiselelo elide.
Abantwana banzima kakhulu. Umgcini wezomthetho osindayo ugcina ulondolozo lwabantwana, kwaye ukuba akukho mgcini kwaye akukho nalungiselelo ekuthandeni ukugcinwa kwexesha elifutshane, isebe lenhlalakahle yoluntu lingenelela. Nangona kunjalo, imibuzo yokugcinwa komntwana, kunjalo, umntwana uya kuba nosizi ngendlela eyahlukileyo kwaye uya kufuna inkxaso kunye nenkathalo.
Ungalibali ukuzinyamekela, nawe-intlungu yakho inokuchaphazela ukukwazi kwakho ukunyamekela iimfuyo zakho okanye abantwana bakho, ngoko cinga ukucela uncedo lwexeshana xa ufuna.
Fumana amaxwebhu abalulekileyo
Ukuqokelela amaxwebhu abalulekileyo oyakufuna ukukunceda ukuhamba ngeentsuku kunye neveki ezizayo.
Ukuba ayengekafumaneki, kufuneka ufune ukufunwa komntu oshonile, ulungele umyalelo wokunakekelwa kwempilo, ummeli-nkonzo okanye unokwenza umyalelo wokukhusela, iKhadi loKhuseleko loLuntu, amaphepha okukhutshwa komkhosi (ngokuqhelekileyo ifom yeDD-214, eyaziwa ngokuba "ISatifikethi sokuKhululwa okanye ukuKhutshwa kwiSebenzi elisebenzayo"), igunya lokunikezelwa ngumbutho / izicubu, isivumelwano somshuwalense womshuwalense kunye nenkontileka yomngcwabo.