Nangona esetyenziswa ngokungafaniyo namhlanje, ayenjalo into efanayo
Namhlanje, abantu ngokuqhelekileyo basebenzisa amagama kunye nokuvakatyezwa ngokungahambisani nokubhekiselele kwingxenye "yenkonzo yomngcwabo wendabuko " apho amalungu osapho esaphila, abahlobo kunye nabathandekayo bahlangana phambi kofikile ukuba bahlawule, baze banikezele thuzelo kunye nenkxaso kwiintsapho ezisondeleyo kunye nomnye. Ukusetyenziswa okutshintshanayo kubaluleke kakhulu eMelika naseKhanada.
Ngokuqhelekileyo ubambe umhla ngaphambi komngcwabo kunye / okanye ukubethelwa, okanye ngaloo mini, le nxalenye yemisebenzi yomngcwabo yanamhlanje iqhutyelwa kwikhaya lokungcwaba, emangcwabeni, kwibandla okanye kwezinye iindawo zokunqula, okanye enye indawo ekhethiweyo, xa kulungiselelwa inkonzo.
Ngona kunjalo, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuhlanganiswa kwamalungu omndeni osasalayo, abahlobo kunye nabathandekayo ebusweni bomntu ofileyo - ohlala elala kwindawo evulekile okanye evaliweyo - ukutyelelwa (nangona kungathiwa ukujonga ).
Kuphi Uvuko?
Ngokwesiko, ukuvuswa kwaqhutyelwa kumakhaya amalungu entsapho ahlalayo, okanye esinye isihlobo esiseduze, emva kokufa komntu othandekayo, ngexesha apho intsapho iya kuhlala ilindile isidumbu size sithandazele umphefumlo wakhe de kube yintsapho yokungcwatywa kwakhe.
Kuyo yonke ikhefu, izalamane, abahlobo, abamelwane, abasebenza nabo kunye nabanye abayazi umfi kunye kunye / okanye intsapho iya kutyelela indlu ngezona zizathu ezifanayo esizihambelayo namhlanje: ukuhlawula imbeko kumntu ofileyo kunye nokunikezela intuthuzelo kunye inkxaso kwiintsapho ezisondeleyo kunye nomnye.
Kwakungeyona into eqhelekileyo (ngenxa ye-24/7 imvelo yokuvusa) ukuba iindwendwe zenzeke ngokuzithandela ukuba "zihlale" kunye nomfi ngexesha lobusuku bobusuku ukuze amalungu entsapho ahlale elele.
Ukuvakatyezwa Kweziphi Ukuhluka Kokuvuka
Umxholo wokutyelela, njengoko uchazwe ngasentla, ulungelelanisekile kwaye uphakamise ukuphakama nokugqwesa kwabaqashi, abaxhasi kunye nabagcini bomngcwabo kwimikhosi yanamhlanje yokungcwaba / okungcwaba - okt, abantu abazinikele ekunakekeleni abafileyo nasekujongeni yonke imiba yomngcwabo wabo. kunye / okanye ukuvalelwa-okuqala ukubamba ngasekupheleni kwe-1800s.
Ngaphandle kolunye uhlangothi, baninzi kakhulu kwaye baqala ukuqala ukukhula kobuKristu. AmaCelt kunye nama-Anglos-Saxons aqhubekile, okanye i-vigil, kubafileyo - mhlawumbi ngenxa yeenkolelo ezininzi eziphathelele ukufa nokuzibulala, kunye nokwesaba ukuba "imimoya emibi" inokuthi ithathe ifa lomzimba, owawukho ngelo xesha. (Iingcamango ezidumileyo zokuthi abasindileyo bavuke ukuze baqiniseke ukuba umntu ufile kwaye 'akayi kuvuka' ngaphambi / emva kokungcwaba mhlawumbi iyintle.)
Kungakhathaliseki, kwaye ngelixa uvuselela ingqiqo yendabuko isenzeka kwihlabathi jikelele, abaninzi abantu baya kuqonda ukuba uthetha ntoni xa ubhekisela ekutyeleleni njengokuvuswa kunye nokunye.