Ukucwangcisa umngcwabo , isikhumbuzo, kunye / okanye ukuncedwa kwenkonzo akusoloko kulula, kodwa umsebenzi uhlala ungenakunqandwa. Le ngqungquthela inikeza iimpazamo ezintathu eziqhelekileyo zokungcwaba omele uziphephe ukwenza, nokuba ulungiselele inkonzo okanye umntu othandayo okanye emva kokufa.
Iphutha 1: Ukungaqwalaselisi Ababoneleli Bamngcwabo
Ngokwenzululwazi ekhishwe yi-automotive-resource Edmunds ngo-2014, abantu abathengisa isithuthi esitsha batyelela abathengisi beemoto ezimbini kwaye baqhubela i-test-drives, ngokulinganayo.
Ukongeza, i-89% yabathathi-phendululwazi babonise ukuba "bathanda ukulungelelaniswa ngokupheleleyo kunye nophando oluninzi ngangokunokwenzeka" ngaphambi kokuhamba kumthengisi.
Ngokwahlukileyo, ipesenti yabathengi abanamava okucima umngcwabo (89%) babonise ukuba batyelela okanye bafowunela ikhaya elilodwa lomngcwabo ngexesha le nkqubo, ngovavanyo olwenziwa ngo-Meyi 2015 nguMbutho weeNgcaciso zoMngcwabo kaZwelonke (NFDA) ovavanya umngcwabo. -ukuthandwa kwabathengi kunye nokuziphatha. Ngokutsho kwe-NFDA yocwaningo lwangoku, izizathu ezine eziphambili eziphendulayo ezikhethiweyo kwikhaya lokungcwaba zibandakanya amava angaphambili kwi-firm; Besazi umlawuli womngcwabo; indawo; kunye nedumela layo.
Nangona kunzima ukuphikisana nenkonzo yangaphambili yangaphambili okanye ubudlelwane bomntu, ezi zimbini uphando zibonisa ukuba abathengi babonakala ngokubaluleka ngakumbi ekuphandeni iinketho zabo ezikhoyo xa bethenga imoto entsha kunokuba bayenze ekufumaneni umboneleli ofanelekileyo ofanelekileyo wokujongana nokufa othandekayo.
(Ukulungelelanisa, abantu abambalwa banyanzelekile ukuba bathenge imoto entsha kwiintsuku ezi-2 ukuya kwezi-7, njengokuba kunjalo ngokukhetha ummngcwabo emva kokufa komntu othandekayo.)
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba, xa kunokwenzeka, ukuthatha ixesha lokuqhathanisa umngcwabo kunye / okanye abaxhasi bemali endaweni yakho unokukugcina imali kunye / okanye kukunceda ukuba ufumane "ikhaya elihle" lokungcwaba, amathuna, ukucima okanye ukugubhazela .
Iindleko ezibandakanyekayo ngeenkonzo zokuphela kokuphila ziyahlukahluka ngokuxhomekeke kumniki-mveliso kwiimveliso / iinkonzo ezifanayo, ngoko ungacingi ukuba wonke umntu kwindawo yakho uhlawula imali efanayo. Okubaluleke ngakumbi, ukufumana umboneleli onokukunceda ucwangcise inkonzo enenjongo, ngokwanelisayo ngokwayo ebonisa kwaye ihlonipha ubomi obuhlukile bomntu oshonile, ngelixa ekuncedeni kunye nabanye belilela kunye / okanye nibhiyozele ubomi bakhe, imiba engakumbi ngokwexabiso uya kufumana.
Ikhonkco 2: Awuyi kubuza imibuzo
Intlungu ebangelwa kukufa komntu esimthandayo kunokuvakalelwa ngamaxesha amaninzi. Ukuxhamla kwintlanzi ebonakalayo engapheliyo yokudabuka kunye nentlungu, iiyure, iintsuku kunye neeveki emva kokulahleka kudla ngokugqithisa njengoko abafelweyo bafumana kunzima ukugxininisa kwenye into engeyiyo intlungu.
Ngelishwa, abantu abaninzi kufuneka bacwangcise iinkonzo zomngcwabo kunye / okanye ukunyanzelisa intando ngexesha elithile ngolu hlobo lwengqondo, olunokubandakanya ukwenza izinto ezininzi kunye nezigqibo. Ngokuqondakalayo, intlungu ingafakela ukwazi / isigwebo sakho ngeli xesha kwaye inokukugcina ekuhloliseni zonke iinketho ozifumanayo. Ngako oko, kungakhathaliseki ukuba uceba umngcwabo kwangaphambili, okanye emva kokufa, kufuneka ucele nayiphi na umbuzo onayo malunga nenkonzo yakho kunye nokukhetha okusemandleni akho kwaye phambi kokuba usayine into.
Umlungiseleli omhle, nokuba umngcwabo, umangcwaba, umdumba, okanye umbhiyozeli, kufuneka aphendule yonke imibuzo yakho ngokuzithandela kwaye angaze azive ugijime njengoko wenza amalungiselelo akho, okanye ekuqhubela phambili kwindawo ethile yokungcwaba okanye ufuna. Ngokufanelekileyo, uya kuthatha ixesha lokuqala ukuqonda uhlobo lwenkonzo (e) oyifunayo kwaye ngokukhawuleza ukuphakamisa iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zemveliso kunye nenkonzo ekhoyo ukukunceda ulungiselele inkonzo enentsingiselo.
Ukuba akunjalo, ngoko kufuneka uvakashele omnye umniki-nkonzo ukuba unokucwangcisa inkonzo ngaphambi kwakho okanye umntu omthandayo.
Ukuba ulungiselela umngcwabo kunye / okanye ukuvalelwa emva kokufa komntu othandekayo, kusemgangathweni kwaye kuyamkeleka ukuba kubuze umntu othembayo ukuba uya kwintlanganiso yomngcwabo kunye nawe ukuba ucinga ukuba awukhethi wedwa okanye ufuna ukuva enye imbono exabisekileyo ngaphambi kokuba uzinike into ethile.
Ikhonkwane 3: Inkxaso emva koMngcwabo
Kukho indala endala- Umngcwabo awuyiyo imini ebomini, kubomi bonke ngosuku- kunye nabani na olahlekelwe ngumhlobo osondeleyo, okanye waya kumngcwabo okanye kwinkonzo yokunyanzela ukuxhasa kunye nokuthuthuzela umntu oye waqonda ngokubanzi intsingiselo yaloo nto. Ngelishwa, abantu abaninzi bacinga ngokugqithiseleyo ukuba umngcwabo okanye inkonzo yesikhumbuzo, kunye / okanye ukungcwatywa okanye ukutshiswa, kubonisa ukuba "isiphelo" ekupheleni kwexesha xa kuvumelekile ukuziva buhlungu ngokufa komntu ofileyo. ( Ukuvalwa ngethuba elibi lisoloko lisetyenziswe kule meko.)
Inyaniso kukuba intlungu ihlala kwaye ayisapheli ngokukhawuleza emva kokungcwaba. Abo basondeleyo kumntu owafa ngokungaqhelekanga bafumana "ukuvalwa" ngokukhawuleza nje xa i-mechanics yokunyamekela izidumbu kunye nokwenza iminqweno, imihango, imikhosi kunye nezithethe ezifunwayo. Kwabaninzi, iinqununu ezininzi ezenzayo xa ehlela umngcwabo kunye / okanye ukugqibela kwisimo esisweleyo (oko kukuthi, emva kokufa komntu ongazange amalungiselele umngcwabo); ubukho bamaninzi amanqanaba omtshato, abancedisayo kunye nabahlobo beenkonzo; kunye nesimo esilungeleyo sale miba / imicimbi inokulibazisa / ukuphazamisa isikhalazo kwiempendulo zakhe zentlungu.
Makhe ubuze umhlolokazi okanye umhlolokazi, umzekelo, ukuba kunzima kangakanani ukubuyela ekhaya okokuqala emva kokungcwaba ekhaya apho wahlanganyela nalo mlingane okanye iqabane lakhe; Zama ukucinga indlela umama okanye uyise wayeseva ngayo ekuqaleni kokungena egumbini elingenamntu, elingaphandle lokulala emva kokubeka unyana okanye intombi ukuphumla; okanye indlela evakalelwa ngayo "igumbi lomntwana" utshintsho olulandelayo emva kokutshatyalaliswa okanye ukuzala. Abantu abaninzi abajamelene nokufa komntu othandekayo banokuphulukana nokulahlekelwa kwakhona kwaye / okanye ngakumbi emva kokungcwaba okanye ukuvalelwa.
Ingongoma apha kukuba "umngcwabo omuhle" awuyiyo nje into ephelile xa uhlawula umrhumo. Ngokufanelekileyo, umngcwabo okhethiweyo kunye / okanye umxhasi we-interment kufanele anikeze izibonelelo, ulwazi kunye nezinye iinkonzo "zokunakekelwa" ezivuma ukuphikelela kwentlungu yakho kwiiveki kunye neenyanga ezilandelayo kwinkonzo, kwaye kwanokubonelela ngamathuba anenjongo ekukunceda ukuhlangabezana ukufa emva koko. Abanikezeli abaninzi, umzekelo, bamema amalungu omndeni asebenze kwizithuba ezikhethekileyo ngexesha leeholide ezizayo, ezifana neKrisimesi, uSuku lweSikhumbuzo, Ukubonga, njl njl. Ngokuba la maxesha angabonakala nzima kunzima. Abanye banikela ngoncedo olusesikweni okanye uqeqesho olulandelayo okanye lunokukunceda ufumane iqela lokuxhaswa yintlungu endaweni yakho ukuba unqwenela. Sekunjalo, i-curate ngaphezulu "yeelayibrari yokubolekisa" yeencwadi kunye neevidiyo ezingabakhoka, ukuba unqwenela, ezinokubangela ukuba uncede.
Yenza umsebenzi wakho wasekhaya
Njengoko kuphawuliwe ngasentla, ukuba ukufa komntu wakho kumthandayo kwenzeke ngokukhawuleza, kungalindelekanga okanye kungekho naluphi na ucwangciso lokugqibela lokuphila kwangaphambili, ke ukuhlolisisa imingcwabo yakho kunye nomncedisi-mboleko uya kuba nzima ngenxa yokukhawuleza kweemeko. Ngoko ke, akufanele uqikelele umniki-mboleko oye wadibana naye ngexesha leemfuno. Uthe, nangona umntu othandekayo eswelekile, usenokubuza ngelixesha kwinkomfa yenkomfa malunga nohlobo lwenkxaso yentlungu ekhoyo emva komngcwabo, kwaye ubuze nayiphi na enye imibuzo onokuyenza malunga nezinto ozikhethayo kunye nemveliso, iinkonzo kunye iindleko ezibandakanyekayo kwiinkonzo ozilungiselela ngaphambi kokuba usayine nayiphi na into.
Ukuba ulungelelanisa umngcwabo / amalungiselelo enkonzo, mhlawumbi wena okanye umntu omthandayo, ngoko usebenzise ubuncwane bexesha ngokuhlola ngokucophelela nokuqhathanisa nabanikezeli bamangcwaba kwindawo yakho ukuba bafumane "ukulungelelanisa." Ukongeza kwiphando lwe-intanethi kunye nokuthelekiswa kweentengo zemveliso ethile kunye neenkonzo ozinqwenelayo, unokutyelela umboneleli onokuzibonela. Nangona ubuncwane beenkcukacha ezikhoyo kwi-intanethi, akukho nto ibetha amava okuzibonela kwaye "ingqiqo" uya kufumana malunga nekhono labasebenzi bomboneleli kunye nokuzimisela ukukunceda ukuba wenze umngcwabo ofanelekayo, umqubozo, okanye umkhosi wesikhumbuzo.
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> " Ingxelo yokuThengwa kweNqwelo yeThuthi ," uMeyi 21, 2014. Edmunds.com.
> "Uvavanyo loLwazi lokuThengwa kwabaThengi no-2015, uMeyi 2015. Umbutho weZizwe zoMngcwabo kaZwelonke. Iqoqo loMbhali.