Kungabonakala kungenakucingeka kodwa, unyaka wonke, amawaka abantu asetshenziselwa ukuthungwa ahamba ayaziwa ngamalungu entsapho, abahlobo kunye nabathandekayo. Ngokutsho kwinqaku epapashwe kwi- Chicago Tribune ngo-2010, uqikelelo olu-1% lwawo onke amatyala okudumba e-United States lubangela ukuhlala okungekho nto . Ukubeka loo mbono, i-Cremation Association yaseMntla Melika (i-CANA) iqikelele ukuba ukufa kwama-998,500 ase-2010 ngo-2010 bekubandakanya ukuthungwa.
Ukucinga ukuba ipesenteji yokutshiswa komzimba ehambayo engabonakaliyo ngonyaka ichanekile, oku kuthetha ukuba iisethi ezili-10 000 zeendawo zokuhlala ezihlambulukileyo, nokuba zihlala kwii-urns okanye ezikhutsheni zesikhunta zesikhashana, azizange zithathwe yiintsapho, abahlobo okanye abathandekayo ngo-2010 kuphela. (Ngokuqinisekileyo, i-CANA idlulela ngokulandelelanisa ukucwangciswa kwayo kwonyaka yonke e-United States, ngoko ke umlinganiselo owona mkhulu ukhulu.)
Kwaye le ngxaki ayifani kwi-United States. E-Australia, amathuna amathathu e-Perth metropolitan area ngokwalo ngoku agcina iisethi ezingama-300 "zothuthulo" ezingazange zithi iintsapho. Kwaye eUnited Kingdom, apho i-73.15% yokufa kwabantu ngo-2010 yayibandakanya ukushisa (ngokumalunga no-40.62% e-US ngaloo nyaka), abaxhasi bentengo baye bajongana nengxaki yeentsapho ezihluleka ukuthabatha iindawo zokuhlala ezidlulileyo iminyaka , kunye nezinye iifemu Ukubamba i-cremated rests dating back to the late 1800s.
Izizathu
Kukho izizathu ezininzi ezibangela ukuba ingxaki ekhulayo yokuhlala engabonakaliyo, kodwa mhlawumbi intloko phakathi kwabo kuqoqosho. Ngaphandle kokuba umngcwabo okanye umngcwabo uhlawulwe, ezinye iintsapho azikwazi ukuhlawula i-bill okanye zigqibo ukuba abafuni ukuhlawula ngesizathu esithile. Naphezu kwemizamo ephindaphindiweyo emngcwabeni, ukungcwaba kunye nokuthungela abantu ukuba baqhagamshelane nale ntsapho, amalungiselelo amaninzi aphelelwa ngokungafaniyo kwaye yodwa inyulo yokuqesha i-arhente yokuqokelela.
Ngenxa yobunzima bokukhathalela oshonile kunye nokuxhalabisa ngemibono engafanelekanga, abaninzi ababoneleli banqunyulwa ukuba baphendule kule milinganiselo ukwenzela ukuba i-restmated rest remains gone.
Ingxabano yentsapho yangaphakathi yenye esinye isizathu sokuba iintsapho zingathathi iindawo ezitshiswayo . Ngamanye amaxesha i-next-kind-kin yazizwa ihlukaniswe nomntu oshonile ngenxa yezinto ezingenakunxulunyaniswa ngaphambili ebomini obangela ukungabandakanyeki kwisigqibo sokugqibela sesithandwa sakhe esitshiswayo emva kokufa. Kwezinye iimeko, iintsapho ziphikisana ngokuthi ngubani omele athathe i-asele okanye, ngokuphindaphindiweyo, kufuneka yenziwe ntoni nabo kuba abantu ngokubanzi abahluleki ukwenza izifiso zabo zokugqibela baziwa, kubangela ukuba abasindileyo baqhekeke ngokuthi "Mama" okanye "uTata" befuna . Ekugqibeleni, kwaye ngokudabukisayo, abanye abantu bafa bengenamntu osindayo onakekelayo ngokwaneleyo ukuba amkele uxanduva lokufumanisa i-remains of her burning.
Ngokungaqhelekanga njengoko kuzwakale, ukungazi okulula kunokukwazi ukuphendula umntu ongeke athathe iindawo ezitshiweyo . Abanye abantu abakwaziyo ngokwaneleyo malunga nenkqubo yokungcolisa kunye nokukholelwa ngokungafanelekileyo ukuba umzimba 'uphelalala' emva kokuba usuphelile. Enyanisweni, ukutshiswa komntu omdala obonisa ubungakanani bomyinge kubangelwa ukuhlala kwitshululo elingu-2.27 - 3.63 kilogram (ama-5 - 8 iipounds).
Nangona kungenakwenzeka ukuba umlawuli womngcwabo ofanelekileyo okanye umcebisi weelungiselelo uya kunqwenela ukwenza ukuba kubekho i-cremated ehlala ecacileyo kwangaphambili, abasindileyo abajongene naloo nto banokuthi baxoxwe (kwezinye iimeko) ngobunzima obunzima kunye nokungaqhelekanga koluntu jikelele inkqubo yokucima .
Ukungahambi kakuhle kwento enokuyenza kunye ne-cremated ihlala i- akhawunti yezinye iindwendwe ezingenakuqokelela i-urns kunye neengxowa zokutshisa ixesha elifutshane ezithwele iindawo ezithandwayo zabathandekayo babo. Namhlanje, uninzi lwabantu ludibanisa ukusabalalisa ngokutsha kwamanzi kodwa awazi ukuba kukho ezinye iindlela ezikhethekileyo zokusingatha i-restmated rests .
Ukufuna into engakumbi "ekufanelekile" kumntu ofileyo, kwaye engazi izinto ezininzi ezikhoyo, ezinye iintsapho azifuni ukuhlala zitshatiweyo zabathandekayo babo kuba (ngephutha) bacinga ukuba kufuneka bathathe isigqibo sokuba benze ntoni nabo kuqala.
Ekugqibeleni, esinye isizathu esisaqhubeka sihamba singabonakali kukuba ukuqokelela umhlala-mlilo womntu othandayo kufuna ukuvuma ukuba ukufa kubangelwa ngabantu abathile . Nangona wonke umntu efumana impendulo ekhethekileyo yosizi ngokuphathelele ixesha kunye nokunyaniseka, "isiqhelo" esibuhlungu ekugqibeleni siphumela ekuqapheliseni ukuba umntu ofileyo othembekileyo unyanisekile, akahambanga. Kwezinye iimeko, ke, abantu abanakukwazi ukujamelana nale nyaniso kwaye ngoko banqanda ukuthabatha i-restmated rest of the loved one ngoba, ngokuqinisekileyo okanye kungenjalo, ukwenza oko kuya kwenza ukuba bafune ukuphepha. Ngelo xesha " ubunzima obuyinkimbinkimbi " bunokuchaza ezinye iziganeko zokuhlala ezingenakudliwa, ngokuqinisekileyo akuziphendulela ezininzi zazo.
> Imithombo:
"Ukuthuthwa komlotha akulahlwa, kodwa akufuneki" nguWilliam Hageman, ngoJanuwari 17, 2010. Chicago Tribune . Ibuyiswe ngo-Agasti 15, 2014. http://articles.chicagotribune.com/2010-01-17/features/1001140373_1_cremated-remains-sets
> "I-Cremation Association yaseNyakatho Melika yeNgxelo yeeNkcazo zonyaka," ngo-Oktobha 2011. Umdumba woMdumba waseNyakatho Melika. Ibuyiswe ngomhla we-Agasti 15, 2014. Ukuqokelela kombhali.
> "Yintoni eyenzekayo kumlotha ongatholiyo?" nguCaleb Parkin, ngoMatshi 12, 2012. I-BBC News Magazine. Ibuyiswe ngo-Agasti 15, 2014. http://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-17300390