Iziphakamiso Zokukunceda Ukhuphe Ukuthintela, Intetho Yokukhumbula Isikhumbuzo
Ukubhala nokuhambisa i-eulogy okanye ukukhunjulwa kwentetho kunokubonakala kunzima. Ukongeza kwintlungu nosizi oye uvakalelwa ngayo njengoko uhlangabezana nokulahlekelwa ngumntu othandekayo, kufuneka ufumane ixesha lokuhlela iingcamango zakho, uzibeke phantsi iphepha uze unikezele intetho yakho-konke ngexesha lexesha elichanekileyo phakathi ukufa kunye nomngcwabo okanye inkonzo yesikhumbuzo . Ngeli xesha kuphela unako ukucacisa ithoni ekhethekileyo ye-eulogy yakho, ezi zilandelayo izicebiso ezihlanu ziya kukunceda ubhale kwaye uhambise i-eulogy echukumisayo, enokwenza ingqalelo nayiphi na indawo yokungcwaba okanye isikhumbuzo.
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Gcina i-Eulogy yakho imfutshaneEli akusilo ixesha lokubhala inombolo enkulu yaseMerika, ngoko qhubeka uxelela ukuba "ngaphantsi ngaphezulu." Inyaniso kukuba xa uthetha ixesha elide, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kukhwela kwaye wenze abaphulaphuli bazive bexakekile, benobuhlungu okanye bangakhathazeki. Kunoko, kufuneka udale i-eulogy ukuba ungayithumela malunga nemizuzu emihlanu . Ukuba kunokwenzeka, cela umlawuli womngcwabo, ilungu lezefundisi, umbhiyozeli , okanye ezinye iziphathamandla kwangaphambi kwangakanani ixesha oza kuba nalo ngexesha leenkonzo, kodwa imizuzu emihlanu ngumgaqo omhle wesithupha.
Ukukunceda ukugcina isikhumbuzo sakho esifutshane, kufuneka ugxilise i-eulogy yakho emgangathweni othile okanye ezimbini malunga nomfi owammayo, okanye wabelane ngebali malunga nomfi obonisa uphawu lobuntu obunzima okanye umzuzu owenzayo ebomini bakhe. Eyona nto, zama ukuthetha into oye wazibonela yona okanye ukuba ubandakanyeka wena, kodwa ukuba unenkathazo yokucinga into ethile, ngoko kulungile ukucela othandekayo osondeleyo kwiingcamango ezithile.
Ngokunciphisa ububanzi begama lakho ngale ndlela, kufuneka ufumane kulula ukubhalela i-eulogy yakho. Inkcazo ye- eulogy inokukunceda. Ukongezelela, uya kunika abaphulaphuli bakho ingqiqo ebalulekileyo ekufeni abaya kuyixabisa, kunokuba bazalise umnqweno wokubheka kwizilindi zabo okanye ukugxotha i-yawns yabo.
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Gcina i-Eulogy YakhoAbaphulaphuli abayi kufumanisa i-eulogy yakho ehambelayo xa ubhala nje uluhlu lwezinto ezinomileyo, ezinjengezo zifunyenwe kwiindawo ezininzi zokungcwaba. Futhi ugweme ukukhwaza nje uluhlu olude lweempawu, njengo "Uncle Ben wayekuthanda ukuzingela, izithuthuthu, i-Green Bay Packers, i-woodworking, njl. Le ndlela iya kubonakalisa inomdla njengoko ukuphulaphula umntu efunda uluhlu lokutya ngokuvakalayo.
Esikhundleni saloo nto, yabelana ibali elibonisa into endiyithandileyo- ngakumbi xa ubengaba yinxalenye yale bali. Ngokomzekelo, cinga ukuba wena noMalume uBen wahamba ngendlela ehamba ngesithuthuthu ukuze abone i-Packers ibhola ibhola. Akukuphela nje oku kuya kuveza ingqondo ejulileyo yothando lwakhe lwezithuthuthu kunye neGreen Bay Packers, kodwa uya kufumana lula kakhulu ukwabelana nabanye amaqhinga abaphulaphuli baya kufumana okubalulekileyo. Kwakhona, ukuba awukwazi ukucinga ngendali yokuzibandakanya, yabelana nelungu losapho okanye umhlobo kwaye uboleka omnye kubo.
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Gcina I-Eulogy Yakho EfanelekileyoAmafilimu amaninzi kunye nama-TV amancinci agxininise kumlingisi oyintloko onzima ukubhalela nokuhambisa i-eulogy malunga nomntu odelelekile, njengomphathi ogqithisileyo okanye umlingane owayengathembekanga. Ukucinga ukuba awusebenzi umsebenzi wokuxhaswa ngumntu onjenge-Ebenezer Scrooge, akufanele ube neengxaki zokufumana amagama anele ukugxila kwizinto ezilungileyo.
Kodwa ukuba unzima, khumbula ukuba abaphulaphuli abayi kuba khona ukuze bagwebe ngokucokisekileyo kwamazwi akho . Ukuba umntu ofileyo wayengumntu onzima okanye uholele ebomini obunenkathazo, ke uthembela nje ukuba abaphulaphuli bayayazi oko kwaye akusona umsebenzi wakho ukuwaphula iindaba.
Kwezinye iimeko, unganomuzwa wokuthi akunakwenzeka ukuba ungabhekiseli into engeyiyo okanye ingathandeki malunga nomntu ofileyo, nangona uzama ukugxila kwizinto ezilungileyo. Ukuba uzifumanisa kule meko, ngoko kufuneka usebenzise ubuqhetseba bokukunceda ukuba uphumelele kwinqanaba elimangalisayo kwi-eulogy yakho kwaye uphephe ukungongeza intlungu enkulu kulabo abalilayo.
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Gcina i-Eulogy yakho ibhalweKwaye abantu abafumana iincwadana zokwenza iifayile basebenzisa ikopi ebhaliweyo yeengxelo zabo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ezi zicetywayo kuma-teleprompters ngenjongo yokulula kwaye engabonakaliyo. Ngamanye amaxesha, isithethi siza kuba nekhophi eprintiweyo kwipowudi okanye mhlawumbi nje umgca kumakhadi ekhompyutheni epokothini.
Ukuba ngaba oogqirha basebenzisa ikopi ebhaliweyo yeentetho zabo, ngoko kufuneka nawe. Nangona ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka usebenzise i-eulogy ixesha elininzi ukuze uqiniseke ukuba ixesha elide kwaye ukuba uqhelane nalo, akukho sizathu sokuziva ukuba kufuneka uhambise izimvo zakho kwimemori .
Ngaphezu koko, ukuba ubhala i-eulogy okanye inkumbulo yokukhumbuza kwikhompyutheni, yiprinte ngaphandle usebenzisa ubungakanani befonti ofunyanwa lula ukuyifunda, kunye neendawo ezimbini zokuprinta ukuze kube lula ukugcina indawo yakho. Ukongeza kwi-eulogy yakho eprintiweyo, yinto efanelekileyo yokuba nomkhonto okanye izicubu kunye nawe xa ukhula kancinci, kwaye ibhotile yamanzi ifanele ukuba umlomo wakho ume.
Kungaba ngumnxeba omnandi ukunika ikopi ye-eulogy yakho kwiintsapho ezililayo. Unokufuna ukuhambisa ikopi eyongezelelweyo kunye okanye uyifumane kwi-imeyili ukunika abantu abaya kucela ikopi.
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Gcina Ingxoxo Yakho EulogyUkuthetha koluntu ngokuqhelekileyo kufaka phakathi kwesoyiko olukhulu abantu ababambe ngalo. Nangona kunjalo, abaninzi abantu abanenkinga yokuthetha namalungu abo entsapho, abahlobo, abasebenzisana nabo, okanye nabasemzini ukuba imeko ifuna. Ukwahlukana, kunjalo, kukuba akukho mntu ukhangeleyo kwiimeko ezikugqibela. Ukukunceda ukuhambisa i-eulogy yakho ngokufanelekileyo, kwaye ukwenza kube luncedo ngakumbi kubaphulaphuli, bathetha ngetoni yokuthetha-njengokungathi uthetha nje ilungu losapho okanye umhlobo . Oku kufuneka kube lula ukuba ulandele le ngcebiso apha ngasentla kwaye wabelana ibali okanye enye ingcamango.
Ukongezelela, khumbula ukubheka phezulu kubaphulaphuli bakho ngezikhathi ezithile kwaye ukhangele amehlo. Ukwenza njalo kuya kunceda ukuhanjiswa kwakho kukuve ngathi incoko, kwaye awuyi kuba lula ukukhawuleza nge-eulogy kunye / okanye ukuyihambisa kwizwi le-monotone.
Ukuba ungaziveki unokwazi ukubheka abaphulaphuli bakho ngaphandle kokuvakalelwa emoyeni, ngoko ke gcina ugxininiso lwamazwi akho abhaliweyo kwaye ungaziva uzivale ukuba ufuna ukuma isikhashana ukuba uzibethe.
ILizwi
Ngokuqhelekileyo, inkonzo yesikhumbuzo iyenzeka ngokukhawuleza emva kokuba ufumene ilahleko. Wena kunye nabanye abalilayo bangase baqale kwimiba yentlungu . Njengoko ixesha lihamba, unokufumanisa ukuba iqela leenkxaso zentlungu linokukunceda , okanye unokucebisa omnye umntu obonakala enzima ukulahleka. Intlungu ingaba buhlungu obukhulu kwaye ungadinga uncedo olungakumbi.