Ayikho imikhwa emibi, kodwa yile ndlela kwaye kwaye kufuneka nini
Uninzi lwezibhengezo kunye nezaziso zokufa namhlanje ziquka amagama athi "Endaweni yeentyatyambo ..." kwaye ucele amalungu osapho ahlalayo kunye nabahlobo ukuba benze umnikelo wezemali okanye isipho sokubambela imemori ngokufa komntu oshonile. Ngelishwa, iminikelo eyenziwe ngokuthe ngqo kule nkampani inokukushiya uzibuze ukuba intsapho yangasese iya kufumana isaziso sesipho sakho, nokuba ufanele ubabatshele nendlela yokubaxelela ngayo.
Eli nqaku lichaza indlela kwaye xa unakho ngokuzikhethela, khankanya ngobuqili umnikelo wakho wezezimali okanye isipho sovelwano kwiintsapho ezisondeleyo emva kokufa komntu othandekayo.
Ngaba Ndifanele Ngibhale Ngesizwe Sokuba Nomsindo?
Njengoko kuchaziwe kwi-" Do and Don'tts" malunga noNgcwaba kunye neMinikelo yeSikhumbuzo , "ukunikela ngegalelo lemali ngebhanki yebhankini yakho mhlawumbi kuseyona ndlela efanelekileyo yokuhlawula izipho zenceba. Ukuthumela isicatshulwa sakho kwi-charity kuthatha ixesha elide kunokuba wenze igalelo kwi-intanethi, nangona kunjalo, kwaye kunokukushiya ukuba uzibuze ukuba uthetha isenzo sakho esicatshangelwayo kwintsapho yangaphambili ngaphambi kokubonwa njengemikhwa emibi okanye engafanelekanga.
Impendulo emfutshane ayikho . Kuyamkeleka ngokucacileyo ukwazisa intsapho yangoku kwimbambano yakho yomngcwabo okanye isipho somzwelo xa uyenzile. Enyanisweni, oku kucebisekile kuba ukuthetha kwakho isipho sakho esichukumisayo kungabakhuthuzela kwintsapho ngexesha elilukhuni - ngokuqhelekileyo ngaphambi kokuba ufumane inceba, imbangela okanye inhlangano inokwazisa intsapho.
Indlela Yokuthetha Umnikelo Wakho okanye Isipho
Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba ixesha elidlulileyo, ngexesha nangemva kokungcwaba okanye inkonzo yesikhumbuzo ihlala ibonakalisa i-hectic, iyinkxalabo kwaye inzima kakhulu kwintsapho. Eyona nto, amalungu entsapho kufuneka abhekane neentlungu ezibangelwa ukufa kwabathandekayo babo, ezithatha ngokwenene ngokomzwelo, ngokwengqondo nangokwenyama.
Kweminye, iintsuku, iiveki kunye neenyanga ezijikeleze ukulahlekelwa kukufa zivakalelwa njengento ephazamisayo-njengokungathi impilo yabo eqhelekileyo yanyamalala kwaye yatshatyalaliswa yintlungu, intlungu kunye neinyembezi.
Ngako oko, indlela efanelekileyo yokukhupha umrhumo wakho womngcwabo okanye isipho sesihawu kwintsapho esondeleyo kukuyibeka ebhaliweyo . Unokwenza oku ngokulula ngokuthumela intsapho ikhadi lokubonisa imbeko okanye inqaku le- condolence / ileta kwi-imeyile, uyibeka ebhokisini yeqokelela okanye ngebhaksi kwisevisi ngokwayo, okanye ngokuyinika ilungu losapho olusondeleyo njengoko unikela i ngxolo.
Nangona unokuziva ulingwa ukuba uthethe isenzo sakho semali esisuka entliziyweni kumntu obathandayo ubuso nobuso ngexesha lokuvuswa / ukuhanjelwa, umngcwabo okanye inkonzo yesikhumbuzo, ukukhulelwa, okanye ngokufowunela intsapho ngenye indlela, inyaniso kukuba abantu abaninzi (ngokuqondakalayo) ukulibale ukuba uthethe isipho sakho sovelwano xa kufika ixesha lokuthumela amanqaku ambulelo emva kweeveki ezimbalwa. Ukuthumela ikhadi lomzwelo okanye i-condolence note / ileta inikezela intsapho yangasese irekhodi lomzimba apho banokubhenela xa beziva bekulungele, kususa isidingo sokuba bakhumbule le nkcukacha ngeli xesha elinzima.
Xa ubhala ikhadi lakho lovelwano okanye inqaku le-condolence / ileta, akufanele ukhankanywe inani leedola lemali yakho okanye isipho .
Endaweni yoko, qaphela ukuba "Uhlonishwa / ukhumbule [ Faka igama lomntu oshonile ] ngokuthumela isipho [ Faka igama lentsapho ekhethekileyo yothando, imbangela okanye intlangano ]."
Nini ukusho umnikelo wakho okanye isipho
Ukuba ulandela le ngcebiso apha ngasentla, kufuneka uthumele ukubhala okubhalwe phantsi kweminikelo yakho yommangcwabo okanye isipho sesihawu emva kokuba uyenze . Ngokufanelekileyo, kufuneka wenze umnikelo wakho ngokukhawuleza emva kokufunda ukuba intsapho icele izikhumbuzo zemali / izipho (eziqhelekileyo ezixhunywe kwisaziso sokufa okanye isaziso sokufa), kwaye ngokungekho ngaphezulu kweentsuku ezisixhenxe emva kokungcwaba okanye inkonzo yesikhumbuzo.
Ngokucacileyo, intsapho iya kuxabisa nayiphi na isipho nangaliphi na ixesha ngokuhlonipha umthande wabo, ngoko oku kungumthetho-we-thumb.
Ngokuthumela okanye ukuthumela ikhadi lakho elibhaliweyo okanye inqaku, unokuphelisa ukukhathazeka ukuba ukufumana uthando, imbangela okanye intlangano ingakwazi ukukwazisa isapho sakho isipho esichukumisayo ngexesha elifanelekileyo, okanye ukuba intsapho yakhona inokulibala malunga nomnikelo wakho ukuba wakho ubatsho ngomlomo.
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