Emva kokufa komntu othandekayo, unokufuna ukubhala isingqinisiso sakho esiluncedo ekusebenziseni kumajelo eendaba ezentlalo, okanye ukushicilela ephepheni lendawo kunye / okanye kwiwebhusayithi. Eli nqaku linika isicatshulwa-nyathelo-sinyathelo sokukunceda ukuba ubhale isithandabuzo esiphezulu, esiphezulu kwisithandwa sakho.
Kwinqanaba elingaphantsi, i-obituary ikwazisa abantu bokuba ukufa kuye kwenzekile kunye neenkcukacha malunga nomngcwabo, inkonzo yesikhumbuzo kunye / okanye amalungiselelo okunyamezela.
Eyona nto ingcono, nangona kunjalo, umgudu ungaphinda unike isishwankathelo sentsingiselo yobomi bomntu kunye nelifa.
Ukubhalwa kweMveli
- Emva kokuqokelela ulwazi oluya kulufuna ukuba uphumelele , sebenzisa ipeni kunye nephepha, okanye ikhomputha yakho - nokuba yintoni elula kuwe-ukuluhlu nokuhlela izinto ezibalulekileyo nolwazi ofuna ukulufaka.
- Qalisa ngegama elipheleleyo lomfi, umhla kunye nendawo yokuzalwa, umhla kunye nendawo yokufa, kunye nexesha lakhe ngexesha lokufa. Kwakhona, phawula apho umfi wahlala khona ngexesha lokufa kwakhe. Ukuba unqwenela, unokubandakanya isizathu sokufa.
- Nika isishwankathelo somphefumlo womfi, ukususela ekuzalweni nasekuqhubeni phambili. Awudingi ukufaka zonke iinkcukacha; iinjongo eziphambili / ulwazi olunceda umfundi ofunayo ukuba afunde okungakumbi malunga nomfi kunye / okanye uncede umfundi ukuba anqume ukuba unxulumene nomntu osweleyo. Ungakhathazeki okwangoku malunga nokubhala ulwazi oluninzi kuba unako ukuluhlela ngokuzayo.
- Uluhlu lwamazalwane, bobabini abaphilayo nabafi. Ungalibali ukubandakanya ootatomkhulu, abazali, oomama, oomama, kunye namalungu omtshato osapho. Qinisekisa ukuba zeziphi na eziza kuzibandakanya ngamagama kunye nalabo oya kubandakanya ngabahlobo kuphela. Ngokuqhelekileyo, izibhengezo zihlala ziquka amagama apheleleyo abazali bomfayo, abantakwabo kunye nabantwana, kunye neqabane lakhe / iqabane lakhe, kodwa kuphela inani labazukulwana okanye abazukulu. Ukongezelela, abafazi / amaqabane abantwana baquka kuphela igama labo lokuqala kwi-parenthesis emva kwegama lomntwana, umzekelo, "Uphunyezwe yintombi uJane (John) Doe."
- Bhala uluhlu lweenkonzo zomngcwabo okanye nesikhumbuzo kunye nokwamkelwa, ukuba kusebenza. Faka igama kunye nedilesi (nakwidilesi yewebhusayithi kunye / okanye nenombolo yefowuni, ukuba ikhoyo) yomniki-mali ophethe iinkcukacha kunye nalapho kungcwatyelwa khona ukungcwaba / ukubethelwa, xa kusebenza.
- Bhala uluhlu lwezibonelelo okanye isikhumbuzo apho ufuna iiminikelo ezithunyelwe kwixabiso okanye imemori yomfikazi esikhundleni seentyatyambo .
Iingcebiso ezongezelelweyo
- Ngaphambi kokuba ubhale umcimbi wakho, jonga ngephephandaba lakho lendawo kunoma yimaphi iimfuno zokushicilela / ezifakwe kwi-intanethi malunga nobude bokugqithisa kunye neendleko ezibandakanyekayo, ezinokuchaphazela ubude bakho.
- Ukuba unqwenela ukushicilela imbali yakho kwiphephandaba elithile, kufuneka uhlolisise icandelo lalo langoku, kwaye uqaphele ukuba uluphi ulwazi, kunye nefomathi yalo, ukuza kukunceda ukuba ulungele ukubhala kwakho ukuze ungenzi lakho ixesha elide okanye elifutshane . Kucacile ukuba, ukuba unenjongo yokupapasha i-obituary kwiwebhsayithi okanye ngejelo loluntu, njenge-Facebook, ubude abukhathali.
- Ngokuxhomekeke kwiphephandaba lakho elikhethiweyo, ukupapasha ifoto yomntu ofileyo kungadinga imali eyongezelelweyo.
- Buza amanye amalungu omndeni, abahlobo, abasebenzisana nabo kunye / okanye abanye ababazi kakuhle umntu oshonile kukunceda ukhumbule amaqiniso, imihla, ukupeliswa kakuhle kwamagama okanye indawo, enye inkcazelo ebalulekileyo okanye inomdla, njl.
- Fumana amagama ngokuchanekileyo. Qinisekisa ukuba upela igama lomfi ochanekileyo kunye negama lalo nawuphi na ilungu losapho okanye othandekayo oyifakayo. Qinisekisa ukuba uquka igama eliphakathi okanye lokuqala, igama leentombi kunye / okanye nayiphi na izilwanyana okanye izihloko (Jr., III, MD, njl njl.).
- Nokuba ubuncinane omnye umntu ufunde ubungqina bakho kwiimpazamo okanye ukushiya. Nantsi inkohliso yokudala yokufunda: funda umgudu ngokuqala ekuqaleni / igama lokugqibela nokufunda ngakwesobunxele njengoko usebenza ngendlela yakho ekuqaleni. Ukufunda emva kwamehlo akho / ubuchopho ukuba ubone igama ngalinye njengoko libonakala kunokuba liyinxalenye yamaqela amagama.