Iqoqo leMpawu ezikhuni
Kuyinto embi xa kukho umntu okhulisa i- fibromyalgia okanye isifo esingapheliyo sokugula , kodwa kunzima kakhulu ukuva malunga nomntwana. Ukuba ukhulile kunye nemingcele eyenziwe yile miqathango, nokujongana nokungakholwa kubantu abakuzungezile ... kunzima ukucinga.
Akukho mzali ofuna ukuqwalasela isifo esingapheliyo kumntwana wakhe, kodwa yinyaniso eninzi kuthi kufuneka sijamelane ngexesha elithile.
Xa Iimpawu ziqala
Abazali bafakwe kwisimo esichukumisayo xa abantwana babo beqala ukukhalaza ngezibonakaliso ezibonakala zingenangqondo kwaye eziyinqaba zezi zifo. Masijamelane nayo, kunokuba nzima ukuthabatha abantwana ngokuthe ngantoni. Kubonakala ngathi bayalimaza kangangezihlandlo ezili-12 ngosuku, ngokukodwa xa bancinci kwaye bengayiqondi umahluko phakathi kokuqhayisa kunye nokulimala okukhulu. Kwaye umzali ongenakuboni umntwana ehamba ekubhenqeni ukuhamba kwaye eqaqa malunga nemizuzu engamashumi amabini?
Xa unesifo se-fibromyalgia okanye isifo esingapheliyo isifo, abantwana bakho banokulinganisa iimpawu zakho. Emva koko, yinto abayibona ngayo yonke ixesha. Bamele bathathe ezinye zeendlela zethu zokuziphatha, kwaye ngenxa yokuba sifanele siphendule kwiimpawu ezincinane zokuqala, bangakholelwa ukuba nabo bafuna ukulala phantsi kokuqala kweempawu.
Ukuhamba Ngendlela Efanelekileyo
Inyaniso edabukisayo kukuba, xa unayo le miqathango, abantwana bakho bayazibeka engozini enkulu yokuphuhlisa nabo, ngenxa yokuba ungumzali wabo.
Ukwazi ukuba kunokusenza sibe ngumbono. Emva kwakho konke, xa ugula luphakathi kwendawo yakho yobomi, kulula ukuyibona yonke indawo. Oko kuthetha ukuba sifanele sihambe umgca ococekileyo phakathi kokungaphantsi kokuphendula kunye nokusabela ngokugqithiseleyo kwiintlungu kunye neentsholongwane zethu.
Ngoku khawucinge ngomzali ongaqhelanga nale miqathango, kuba kunzima kangakanani ukukholelwa umntwana othi banesimo esingaqhelekanga sempawu, ngakumbi ebusweni boogqirha abangatsho nto into engalunganga.
Kuthatha umzali okhethekileyo ukuba azi ukuba kwenzekani kumntwana wabo oko kukuthi, kwaye ke ulwele okulungileyo kumntwana lowo. Nantsi imbono evela kumzali onjalo:
"Umntwana wam oneminyaka engama-11 ubudala akazange akholelwe xa siqala uhambo lwethu ukukhangela ukuxilongwa. Ndatshelwa ukuba wayenomdla wentlalo kwaye wayefuna ukuphepha isikolo kwaye wayevaleleke kwimeko elula kwaye eqhelekileyo 'ye-post post virus' I-syndrome kunye nokuqhaqhazela. Akunanto into eqhelekileyo okanye elula ngesifo sakhe esiye samkhathaza iminyaka engaphezu konyaka kwaye imthintele ukuya esikolweni. Ukumomotheka kwakhe kunzima ngoku kodwa ukubulela kwakhe inzondelelo ebomini kusekhona. ukholwa, ngenxa yamagqirha, ukuba uya kuhamba kakuhle nge-18 marker month marker kodwa uphando lwam lufumanisa ukuba oku kungenakwenzeka.
Ndimele ndilwe kunye nenkqubo yesikolo kunye NONKE oogqirha ukulandela izinto ezilungileyo kunyana wam. Ukuba kwakungekho kwimiba yonyango kunye nothando kum umntwana ndiyazi ukuba ndiza kukholelwa bonke oogqirha abandayo kwaye ndandifuna ukuba ndiyichukumise unyana wam ukuba abuyele esikolweni. Andizange nditshitshise inkolelo yam kwonyana wam kwaye ndivuya kakhulu !! "
Iinqanawa zingena kuloo mama! Ukuba akayenawo, ngolunye usuku loo nkwenkwe iya kuqonda indima enokuqonda kwayo nokholo lwakhe kuye.
I-Youth Fibromyalgia & Syndrome Yokunyamekela Isisigxina
Kuye kwandula ixesha elide ukufumana i-fibromyalgia yolutsha kunye nesifo esingapheliyo isifo esiqaphelayo kwaye samkelwe yiziko lonyango. Namhlanje, ke, bobabili bafumana ukuqaphela ngakumbi, kwaye sifunda ngakumbi ngabo ngabo lonke ixesha. Yiyo iindaba ezilungileyo kubantwana abagulayo, kunye nabazali abakhathazekayo malunga nendlela ubomi babo buya kuhamba ngayo.
Kwakhona kwinqanaba elikhuthazayo kukuba abantwana abanezi gulane banako ukufumana kwakhona kubo kunabantu abadala.
Enyanisweni, ezi zigulo ziyakwazi ukuhluke kakhulu kubantwana, ngoko ke, nokuba unayo, kuhlawulela ukufunda ngefom yefesheni.
Kwakhona khumbula ukuba zonke iimeko zihluke.
ILizwi
Njengabazali, sinokuziva singenakunceda xa kukho into ephosakeleyo kubantwana bethu esiyikulungiselela, kwaye ewe, ukugula okungapheliyo kuluhlu. Ngeyona nto esingayenzayo ukuphulaphula, sifunde malunga nemeko (yabo) abanayo, baxhase, baxelise xa kuyimfuneko, kwaye bancede baphile ubomi obupheleleyo njengoko banako.