Siyazi ixesha elide ukuba izigulana zingashiya ugqirha entsha. Kodwa kwiminyaka yakutshanje sithetha ngokuthe ngakumbi malunga noogqirha abagxotha izigulane zabo. Iziguli zindibuza rhoqo, "Ngaba ugqirha wam ungandichitha?" Impendulo - yebo imthethweni kwaye ilungele ukuba ugqirha uvutha isigulane phantsi kweemeko.
Kodwa kukho iimeko apho ugqirha angenakukugxotha isigulane.
Kwaye kukho amanyathelo athile isigulane esilumkileyo esiya kuthatha ukuzama ukulungisa ubudlelwane kunye nogqirha ozama ukumgxotha okanye ekufumaneni ugqirha.
Xa ugqirha uMeyi uCima isigulane
Sihlolisise ngaphambili ezininzi izikhalazo oogqirha abanezigulane . Ziquka yonke into ukusuka ekungahambisani nokuziphatha okungabonakaliyo kwiindawo zokuqeshwa eziphosakeleyo. Xa izikhalazo malunga nesigulane esisodwa zininzi kakhulu, oogqirha banokukhetha ukuphelisa ubudlelwane babo kunye nesigulane ngezona zizathu, kunye nabanye.
I-American Medical Association iye yasungula izikhokelo malunga nokuba ugqirha unokutshisa isigulane, ngokusekelwe kwiKhowudi ye-Ethics. Ukongezelela, abaninzi banemiyalelo malunga neemeko apho ugqirha unokuphelisa ulwalamano lwesigulane.
Izizathu zokugqirha ugqirha wakhe:
- Umonde ongathobeliyo ( engekho ukuthobela ). Xa isigulane sihluleka ukulandela iingcebiso zonyango ezisungulwe ngugqirha. (Kungenxa yoko kubalulekile ukuba wena nodokotela wakho wenze izigqibo zonyango kunye .)
- Ukuhluleka kwesigulana ukugcina ukuqeshwa. Izigulane zenza utyunjwa, kwaye ziwacime ngomzuzu wokugqibela, okanye ungabonakali nhlobo. Ukusuka kumbono womboneleli, oko kuthetha it window engenayo ingeniso ngaphezu kwelokuba isiguli asifumani uncedo ayifunayo.
- Ukuziphatha kakubi okanye isigxina. Akukho sigulane esifanele sibe nantlonelo okanye siyihlasele. Yindlela yokusetyenziswa gadalala. Kanye njengoko sigulane sifanele sitshise ugqirha oziphatha ngale ndlela, kuyafaneleka ukuba ugqirha kufuneka asuse isigulane ngokuziphatha okunjalo kakubi, naye.
- Ukungabikho kwentlawulo yeebhili-imali ehlawulwa ngumguli, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo ayikho i-inshorensi yesigulane.
- Ukuba ugqirha uvala. Njengabo bonke bethu, oogqirha bavala izenzo zabo. Basenokungabathengisa, okanye bathathe umhlala-phantsi ekusebenzeni, bangafa okanye bavale nje iingcango zabo.
- Isizathu esitsha sokuxothwa sibonakala sisekelwe kwinhlobo yomshuwalense isiguli. Kwiminyaka yakutshanje, izigulane ezininzi kwaye zivakalisa oogqirha babo ababadubula ngesizathu esicacileyo (ubuncinci abaxelwayo ukuba isizathu).
Into enye aba baguli bafana ngayo kukuba abahlawuli babo yibo bahlawulela ababoneleli ngamanani aphantsi kakhulu. Njengoko ukubuyiselwa kwemali kuye kwehla, inani lezigulana zokuxoshwa koogqirha liye lenyuka. Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba kutheni ugqirha wakho ekugxothwe, unokufuna ukuqonda kakuhle ukuba kutheni oogqirha abafuni ukufumana ezinye iintlawulo .
Xa Ugqirha awunakudlulisa ngokusemthethweni umonde
Kukho izizathu kunye nezihlandlo ugqirha akanako ngokusemthethweni okanye ngokutsha ngokusemthethweni isigulane, kakhulu-esona sisekelwe kumthetho welizwe okanye wesigqeba.
- Oogqirha abanako ukubandlulula ngokubhekiselele kubuhlanga, umbala, inkolo, imvelaphi yesizwe, ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini, ubungqina besini okanye nayiphi na into ebonakalayo njengoluhlu luluntu. Iinkundla ziye zalawula ukuba isiguli asikwazi ukugxothwa ngenxa yokuba unesifo se-HIV. Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba unecalulo ngenxa yesinye sezi zizathu, qhagamshelana neSebe lakho lezempilo lempilo .
- Oogqirha abanako ukugxotha isigulane phakathi kokunonyango okuqhubekayo, okubizwa ngokuba "ukuqhubeka kokunyamekela." Ngokomzekelo, umfazi okhulelweyo akanakuxothwa ngugqirha wakhe kwiiveki ezimbalwa zokuziswa. Isigulane somhlaza asikwazi ukucinywa ngaphambi kokuba i-chemo okanye imithi yonyango ifakwe. Nangona kunjalo, isigulane esesigxina soogqirha sokubaluleka, kodwa asizange sivelele lo gqirha kunyaka okanye ezimbini kunokususwa. Oku kungakhange kuthathwa njengonyango oluqhubekayo.
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Amanye amazwe anemithetho elawula inkqubo ugqirha kufuneka ayisebenzise ukutshisa isigulane sakhe. Nangona kunjalo, kwiimeko ezininzi, ukuxothwa kwemigaqo-nkqubo kuxhomekeke ngakumbi kwiimigaqo kunye noxanduva kwisigulane kunokuba umthetho unako okanye awungabatshelanga ukuba kufuneka bawenze.
Ezi zikhokelo zenzelwe ukugcina ugqirha ngamanzi ashisayo (ubuncinane) okanye ukunceda ukuphepha isigwebo.
Isimo esihle kakhulu isigulane esicatshulwayo sinethemba lokuba unobumba weposi owamnika isaziso seentsuku ezingama-30, ukufikelela kwiirekhodi zabo zezokwelapha kunye neengcebiso kubaboneleli abatsha. Kancinci, isiguli asifumani naso isaziso.
Bambalwa amaqela anyanzela ugqirha ukuba achaze isizathu sokuxothwa. Ezinye izikhokelo zize zitshilo ugqirha ukuba angayichazi isizathu sokudubula ukuze uphephe ingxabano evela kwisigulane.
Yintoni enokuyenza Ukuba ugqirha wakho ukhuphe
Ukuba ugqirha wakho uvutha, unamathuba ambalwa:
- Ukuba ufuna ukubuyela kuleso gqirha, unokufuna ukuzama ukulungisa ulwalamano nogqirha wakho . Oku kuya kuquka ukuqonda ukuba isizathu sini isizathu sokuthi ugxothwe (okungenzeka, okanye kungenjalo, kubonakale).
- Ukuba ukhetha ukuhambisa udokotela omtsha, ngoko unokuqiniseka ukuba ufumana iikopi zeengxelo zakho zezokwelapha ezikugqirha, kwaye landela izikhokelo zokutshintsha oogqirha .
Isibini esithi "musa" ukukhumbula njengoko wenza le nguqulelo:
- Musa ukuphikisana ngokugqithiseleyo, ukugxekwa okanye ulaka. Kungakhokelela ekubeni unqatshelwe unyango lwezempilo.
- Musa ukubuza ugqirha okugxothayo ukuthunyelwa. Ukubheja kwakho okungcono kukufumana umntu ngokwakho, umntu ozimeleyo ngugqirha oye wakukhupha.
- Musa ukukhononda malunga nodokotela osele. Akukuqhubele phambili kwaye unokunika udokotela wakho omtsha isizathu sokuba angabandakanyeki nawe njengesigulane.