Ingaba umntwana wakho okhuselayo uya kukhula ukuze akhokele ubomi obuqhelekileyo?
Lo mbuzo awukhathazeki nje ngabazali, kodwa unokuba ngumantwana nootatomkhulu, abahlobo kunye nosapho olongezelelweyo. "Uya kumisa nini na?" "Ngaba uya kukwazi ukuhlala wedwa?"
Okubi nakakhulu, le miba yemibuzo ayinakukhutshwa kuba iyakhiwe kwiimvavanyo ze-autism , ukucwangciswa kweenguqu, izicelo ezibhekiselele kwi-arhente ne-federal agencies, kunye neengxoxo kunye nabacebisi abacebisi nabacwangcisi bezemali.
Ukuxhalabisayo, imibuzo malunga nekhono leemfuno zexesha elide leemfuno zexesha elide ngaphambi kokuba iprogram yangempela iqalise. Kwaye, kunjalo, ayifumanekanga ukuba avelise abantwana ngokuqhelekileyo . Abantwana abaqhelekileyo, ngenxa yezizathu ezingahambelani ngokusondeleyo kwinyani, zicingelwa ukuba ziya kwiindawo ezizimeleyo, ezifanelekileyo, ezidibeneyo nabantu abadala.
Ngubani ocela umzali womntu oneminyaka eyi-10 ubudala ukuba "uza kutshata?" Ubambe umsebenzi? " Ngubani ocela umzali womntwana oneminyaka eli-14 ubudala ukuba abeke umntwana wakhe ngokusebenzisa uchungechunge lweemvavanyo "zezakhono zobomi eziguquguqukayo" ukucacisa ukuba abantwana babo abancinci bakwazi ukwenza uhlamba, ukupheka ukutya okanye ukulawula imali? Zihlandlo eziqhelekileyo zezikolo eziphakamileyo kunye nabazali babo kulindeleke ukuba benze isicwangciso sexesha elide loqeqesho okanye uqeqesho lwezakhono, izindlu kunye nokuzimela ezizimeleyo? Impendulo kule mibuzo kukuba, akunjalo, ayifumanekanga okanye ayikho.
Ngoko, unikezelwa ukuba UYA kubuzwa le mibuzo (kwaye ukuba uzibuze yona, nangona ungathethi ngokuvakalayo), uphendula njani?
Nazi iziphakamiso ezintathu.
"Uthetha ntoni ngokuqhelekileyo?" Ngokumangalisayo, kule mini kunye neminyaka ubudala, abantu abaninzi basacinga "ngabantu abaqhelekileyo" ngokubandakanya umsebenzi wexesha elipheleleyo kunye nomhlala-phantsi, umtshato wesondo, ama-2.5 abantwana, kunye neendlu ezifakwe kwi-mortgaged kwidolophu.
Bangaphi abantu abahlala ngokwenene ngale ndlela? Abaninzanga!
Abadala abaselula, kunye nokufundiswa kweekholeji, beza ekhaya kumama noyise - baze bahlale behlala iminyaka. Abantu abadala bahamba kunye nabantwana babo. Umtshato wobulili obufana nomntu ngoku ngumthetho welizwe. Izibini ezininzi zihlala ndawonye ngaphandle komtshato. Imisebenzi ayiqinisekanga, kwaye amapenshini aphelile. Imisebenzi engqinileyo, imisebenzi yesikhashana, imisebenzi yontsebenziswano kunye nemisebenzi yekhomishini yinto eqhelekileyo.
Ngoko ... yiyiphi ifomu "yesiqhelo" ingaba yinto enhle kumntwana wakho we-autistic?
"Uthetha ntoni ngokukhula?" Kwizithethe zamaYuda, umntwana uthathwa njengomntu omdala xa eneminyaka engama-13. Amathuba amaninzi avulelekile kubafundi abaneminyaka eli-16 ubudala. Amantombazana angabhalwa emkhosini eneminyaka eyi-18. Ukusela kusemthethweni kwi-21. I-IDEA inika iinkonzo kubantu abadala abasemagunyeni de kube ngumhla wokuzalwa wama-22. Nangona kunjalo abancinci baseMelika amaninzi, kwanabo abangenayo imingeni ethile, bathembela kubazali babo ngemali, izindlu kunye nenkxaso yokuziphatha kakuhle kwiminyaka yabo-20.
Abantu abane-autism ngaba, ngentca, ukulibaziseka ngokuphuhliswayo . Kwiimeko ezininzi, abayi kuze "bafumane." Kwezinye iimeko, nangona kunjalo, ixesha lenza umehluko oqobo kumandla okusebenza.
Ngaba umntu omdala nge-autism "ukhulile" eneminyaka engama-21 okanye eyi-22? Okanye ngaba umlindelo wokuzimelela umntu omdala ozimele uhlehliswe (njengoko kusebenza ngabantu abaninzi abaqhelekileyo) de kube ngumhla wokugqibela?
"Uthetha ntoni ngokuzimela?" Kukho inkolelo evakalayo yokuba abantu abadala kufuneka bakwazi ukulawula zonke iinkcukacha zobomi babo bodwa, kungekho inkxaso. Oko kuthetha ukusebenza ixesha elipheleleyo, ukudala nokugcina ubomi obunzima bokuzonwabisa noluntu, ukuqasha okanye ukuthenga nokugcina nokucoca ikhaya, ukuthenga, ukupheka, ukuhlawula iibhox kunye neerhafu, ukuphatha iingxaki zempilo kunye ne-inshorensi yazo zonke iintlobo ... uluhlu luqhubeka kwaye kuqhubeke.
Ewe, bambalwa kakhulu abantu balawula zonke " izakhono zokuzimela ezizimeleyo " ngokwabo. Abantu abatshatileyo babelana ngomthwalo. Abantu abanemali baqeshe abanye ukuba benze isabelo esihle somsebenzi.
Abantu abangabodwa babuza abahlobo kunye nosapho ukuba bancede. Abaninzi abaphuhlisayo abantu abakwazi ukulawula uluhlu olukhulu lwe-to-dos - kwaye, ngenxa yoko, ukukhupha kwi-matyala, ukuhlala kwindawo yokulahla, okanye ukuhluleka ukunyamekela iimfuno zabo zempilo.
Ngaba silindele (okanye NABANTU) abadala abane-autism ukuba bazimele ngokuzimeleyo? Okanye ngaba sifanele sicinge ukuba, njengabo bonke abantu, baya kufuna iingcebiso kunye nenkxaso?