Autism yinkimbinkimbi. Kuguquke. Akukho nto evunyelweneyo-into, unyango, unyango, okanye ukuxela abantu abaninzi abanenkinga. Ngenxa yokungaqiniseki kangako, abazali abaninzi bancike kwiinkcukacha, izikhokelo kunye neengcebiso ezinikezelwa ngugqirha - oogqirha, ootitshala, ootitshala nabaphandi - ngubani omele abe nolwazi olungakumbi kunabani na.
Kakade, ukuxhomekeka kwiingcali ngokuqhelekileyo kuyisimo esihle.
Ngamanye amaxesha, kunjalo, akunjalo.
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Nazi ezinye iimeko apho iingcebiso zengcali ezivela kwimithombo eqhelekileyo ingabi luncedo njengoko kufanelekile.
- Uyabona imiba nomntwana wakho onokuthi aphakanyise i-autism, kodwa unobantwana bakho bezilwanyana . Uninzi lwabahlengikazi lubona abantwana abaneengxaki ezahlukeneyo kunye nabazali abanexhala eliphakamileyo ubuncinane ngamaxesha angama-12 ngosuku. Kwiimeko ezininzi, "ukulibaziseka" akukho nje ukuchithwa okuncinane okuhambelana ngqo nephulo leentsimbi zokuphuhliswa kwabantwana (uJohnny kufuneka abe ngamazwi angama-50 kodwa usebenzisa kuphela u-30, umzekelo). Ngenxa yoko, uninzi lwabahlengikazi ludinga ukuphazamisa ukuphuhliswa ngaphandle kokuba bebaluleke kakhulu kwaye banzima - ngokwazi ukuba ukulibaziseka okubonakalayo kuya kuzincoma. Ukuba oku kwenzeka kuwe, usenokubona oko utitshala wakho wezilwanyana akakwazi ukukubona ngethuba elifutshane-kwaye kuyafaneleka ukuba ixesha lakho lifune ukuhlola kunye / okanye ukuvavanya. Ayikwazi ukulimaza-kwaye inokunceda kakhulu!
- Uxelelwe ukuba uzame unyango olungasetyenziswa ngenkxaso okanye ngophando oluxilongwa ngemithi. Kubonakala ngathi wonk 'ubani unelonyango "olumangalisa" okanye unyango lwe-autism, kwaye ngaba ngabaqeqeshi abaqeqeshiweyo okanye ootitshala banokuphakamisa ukhetho olungenakunceda ukunceda (kwaye lunokuba lubizo kunye / okanye lengozi). Xa oko kwenzeka, yima uze wenze uphando lwakho ngaphambi kokuba uqhube phambili. Ingaba le nonyango ifanelekile, ikhuselekile ngemithi kwaye ifikeleleke? Ukuba akunjalo, kutheni uzama?
- "Ingcali" yakho ngokucacileyo iyazi ngaphantsi kwakho . Abazali abaninzi be-autism bachitha inani elide lokufunda, ukuya kwiinkomfa kunye nokufunda malunga neendlela, iinkqubo, inkxaso-mali, izikolo, izindlu kunye nokunye. Ngenxa yoko, bahlala benolwazi olungcono kunokuba "abaqeqeshi" ukuba le micimbi ibaluleke kakhulu. Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba unolwazi oluninzi malunga neyeza, inkqubo, isikolo okanye i-arhente kune "ingcali" othembela kuyo - hamba kude (okanye wabelane ngemithombo yakho kwaye wenze izigqibo zakho!).
- Udokotela osebenza naye wenza amabango angenakukuxhasa. Umntwana wakho ubona umsebenzi, intetho, ukudlala okanye omnye umphathiswa wonyaka, kwaye awukwazi ukubona nayiphi na intuthuko. Uya kuzisa oku, kwaye ugqirha uphikisana nawe. Uthi, "Ewe," umntwana wakho uye wahamba ngendlela ende. " Ucela ukujonga iimvavanyo ezixhasa inkcazo yakhe-kodwa "akanalo ixesha lokuqhuba iimvavanyo." Ngoku kuya kuba yinto elungileyo yokufumana umgqirha ohlukeneyo.
- Ubungcali osebenzayo kunye neziphakamiso ezingacacanga malunga noko ukwenzayo nendlela yokwenza ngayo. Umntwana wakho ufunyanwe ngumqeqeshi owazi ngokucacileyo konke malunga nokuvavanywa nokuxilongwa . Kodwa xa ucela "Yintoni endiyenzayo ngoku?" uthi "kakuhle, mhlawumbi ufuna ukujonga unyango lokuziphatha kwaye umntwana wakho ufuna mhlawumbi isikolo esikhethekileyo." Xa ucinezelekile, oko ngokwenene unako ukunikela ngeendlela zokucebisa. Xa kwenzeka oko, ixesha lokuba ufumane umntu owaziyo oko kuyifumaneka kwaye ufanele umntwana wakho ngamnye, kwindawo ethile kunye nendawo. Ukuba umntu unokuba ngumzali ozivolontiya kunye neqela lokuxhasa i-autism okanye inhlangano yomzali.
- Ingcali ayifanelekanga kwintsimi apho anika iingcebiso. Ootitshala beengcali ekufundiseni, kodwa kungekhona ukuxilongwa. Iingcali ze-Diagnostians zingayazi nto malunga neyeza lokuthetha. Ukuba ufumana iingcebiso kumntu ofanelekileyo malunga nezinto ezingafanelekanga, zithethelela - kwaye ufumane ingcali eyazi kakuhle intsimi!