Ndandifuna ukuxelela ibali le-antidotal kwibali labafundi bam ngokumalunga nolawulo lokuzalwa. UOlivia wabhala:
Ndiyakuvuyela kakhulu ukufunda kwakho malunga neNcwadana yokuLawula iNzala. Ndikulangazelela ukufumana ..... Ndimele ndixelele i-anecdote ehlekisayo malunga nokukhulelwa kwintombi yam ngoJulayi, 2011. Ndandizama ngamandla ukuba ndikhulelwe. Kuthatha ixesha elide ndacinga ukuba andinalo. Sazama kwaye sazama, kodwa akukho nto eyenzekayo.
Ngaloo busuku ngoJulayi ... ngobusuku ndikhulelwe, ndenze into eyahlukileyo emva kwesondo kunokuba ndandisoloko ndenza. Ngobo busuku, endaweni yokunyuka emva kokuba ndenze uthando kwaye ndaya kuhlamba lokuhlamba ndize ndihlambulule, ngalobo busuku ndalala embhedeni, ndagqogqa ndaza ndalala.
Phantse inyanga kamva, ndafumanisa ukuba ndikhulelwe kwaye ndikholelwa ukuba ndikhulelwe ngenxa yokuba andizange ndiphume ebhedini ukuya kwindawo yokuhlambela. Andizange ndivuke, ngoko ke isidoda sakwazi ukufika kwiqanda ngendlela engcono. Ngaba akuyiyo ingxolo njengamanga ..., kodwa kum .... Yasebenza !!
Ndandifuna ukuchitha ixesha elicacileyo ukucacisa iinkcazo kwi-statement ka-Olivia kunye neengcamango ezibonisa ukuba isimo sakho sesondo sinokukunqanda ukuba ukhulelwe. Isiphakamiso xa uzama ukukhulelwa kukuba umfazi ahlale elele malunga nemizuzu engama-30, emva kwesondo, ngomlotha phantsi kwezantsi ukuphakamisa i-pelvis.
Oku kuvumela ukunyanzela ukuncedisa "ukudonsa" isidoda ukuya phantsi kweqanda. U-Olivia akavuki emva kokulala ngesondo, oku kwavumela ukuba isidoda sikwazi ukufikelela ngokukhawuleza kwaye sifikelele ngokukhawuleza. Xa usukuma emva kwesondo, ubukhulu bumnandi bunokukunceda ukutsala enye imbumba kude neqanda. Oku kuthethiwe, ukuhlala nje kwindawo esithe tye akukho ngokwaneleyo ukukhusela ukukhulelwa.
I-Sperm iyabhukuda kwaye iyakwazi ukusebenzisana nokudakalisa. Baphinde bakhawuleze, ngoko ngexesha elinye ibhinqa liza kuvuka emva kokulala ngokwesondo, izigidi zabantu ziza kuba sele zenze ukuqhuma okukhulu ekukhangekeni kweqanda.
Ibali lokuziphatha lika-Olivia ibali: ukuhlala kwisithuba esinqambileyo emva kwesondo kunokunceda ekukhuleleni, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba ukuba kwindawo ebonakalayo (ngqo) iya kuthintela ukukhulelwa. Ibhinqa liyakhulelwa kungakhathaliseki ukuba isini nesimo sokulala "emva kokulala."
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