Umbuzo: Ubawo u-Alzheimer. Ngaba kulungile ukuthetha amanga kuye xa kumthoba?
Impendulo: Abaninzi abanonophelo bayazibuza ukuba kulungile ukuthetha nomntu ono-Alzheimer xa befumanisa ukuba ukuzama ukuqinisekisa izihlobo zabo zenyaniso akusebenzi.
Kwiminyaka emininzi edlulileyo, bekucingelwa ukuba ukuxhomekeka kwezinto eziqhelekileyo kufuneka kusetyenziswe xa abantu be-Alzheimer bedidekile .
Ngamanye amazwi, ukuba umntu wayecinga ukuba abazali bakhe besaphila, kwakunyanzeliswa ukuba axelelwe inyaniso-ukuba abazali bakhe bafile - ukuze babuyisele kuye.
Kucacile ukuba, le ndlela ayisebenzi, kuba iyamkhathaza kuphela umntu. I-Alzheimer ichaphazela ingqondo ngendlela ezama ukuqiqa okanye ukusebenzisa i-logic nomntu engasasebenzi.
Ngenhlanhla, ukuxhomekeka kwezinto eziqhelekileyo akusayi kucetyiswa. Kunoko, kunconywa ukuba siqinisekise iimvakalelo zomntu. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba uyihlo uyacaphukisa kwaye ufuna ukubona umama wakhe (ongasaphila), unokukhumbula umama wakhe okanye unokucinga ngento ethile yakudala efuna ukuyilungisa. Zama ukuqinisekisa iimvakalelo zakhe ngokuthi, "Kuvakala ngathi ucinga ngoomama wakho. Ndixelele ngakumbi ngaye." Ngokuqhelekileyo, loo mntu uya kuqalisa ukukhumbula nokukhumbula ukuba kutheni wayecaphukile. Ngokuhlonela iimvakalelo zakhe, awuvumelani okanye ungavumelani nembono yokuba unina usaphila.
Ukongezelela ekuqinisekiseni, ukulungiswa kwakhona kuyindlela efanelekileyo kwezi meko. Ukubuyiselwa kukubandakanya ukuphazamisa umhlobo wakho into enomdla. Kulo mzekelo ukhankanywe ngasentla, ungayithumela uyihlo kumsebenzi owaziyo ukuba uyakuthandayo, njengokuphulaphula umculo okanye ukudlala umdlalo olula ongathandeki kuye.
Nangona ukuxoka kungaphakanyiswa njengendlela eqhelekileyo, ngezinye iinkcukacha ukuqinisekiswa nokulungiswa kwakhona akusebenzi. Ukuba uyihlo ugxininisa ekuboneni unina, kwaye ufumanisa ukuba uyancipha nje xa umxelela ukuba uye waya esitolo, kulungile. Akukho mfuneko yokuba uzive unetyala ngokutshilo "udidi lwezokwelapha" ukuba uvakalelwa ngakumbi uxolo kunye nefiber kunokuba inyaniso.
Abanye ababhali - njengoNawomi Feil, othe waphayona indlela yokuqinisekisa-uvakalelwa kukuba kunobungozi ukutshela ii-fibs zokwelapha kuba uvakalelwa kukuba kwinqanaba elithile, umntu ono-Alzheimer uyazi inyaniso; ngoko, ukuxoka kungasongela ubudlelwane phakathi komnakekeli kunye nesifo eso. Nangona kunjalo, abanye baye bacetyiswa ukuba lo mngcipheko wenziwa kuphela xa i-fib iyona yamanga.
Ngokomzekelo, ukuba wakho umthandayo unxininisa ukuba kukho umfokazi kwindawo yokuhlambela, kwaye uthi kuye, "Ewe, nguyena othakazelisayo, uWayne Newton, kwaye uya kukuhlabelela!" kukho ithuba elihle lokuba umthandayo uya kuba nokungathembeki kwibango lakho kwaye mhlawumbi unokungathembeki kuwe. Oku kwahluke kakhulu kwimbumba yokwelapha njengokuthi, "Ndandifaka nje indlu yokuhlambela kwaye kufuneka ukuba uyeke, kuba akukho namnye apho ngoku."
Umgca wenyani kukuba ukuba amanga amhlophe yindlela kuphela yokwenza umhlobo wakho azive engcono kwimiba ethile, kwaye akukhathazi nabani na, ngoko unceda umthandayo ngokungena kwihlabathi lakhe kunokunyanzelisa into kuye. Gcina ukhumbule ukuba le ndlela ingasebenza kuphela okwethutyana; njengazo zonke iindlela zokuziphatha ezicelomngeni , kufuneka zihlolwe kwaye zilungiswe xa kusebenza ngokusemthethweni. Kwakhona, khumbula ukuzama ukuqinisekiswa nokulungiswa kokuqala - ezi ndlela zihlala zikhohlisa.
Imithombo:
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I-Feil, N. (2002). Ukuphumelela kokuqinisekiswa: iindlela ezilula zokunxibelelana nabantu abane-"Almheimer's-type-dementia" (2nd ed.). I-Baltimore: I-Health Professions Press.
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