I-Autism Ingenza Uthando Lubuqili - Kodwa Akunakwenzeka!
I-Asperger syndrome ayisekho njenge-diagnostic. Namhlanje, abantu abaneempawu ze-Aspergers bafumana ukuxilongwa kwe-autism ye-autism-becinga ukuba bakhetha ukufuna ukuxilongwa. Nangona kunjalo, kunokuba kunzima ukulawula umtshato kumntu onenkathalo kunye nezakhono zentlalo, ukunxibelelana ngokwasemzimbeni, ukuqonda ngokuthethelelayo, okanye ukuguqulwa kwengcamango.
Nangona uthanda umlingane wakho nge-autism esebenzayo, akulula ukugcina u-romance uphila. UDkt. Robert Naseef kunye nomlingani uCindy Ariel yiingcali kwiingcebiso zentsapho ezinamalungu e-autistic. Banikeza ulwazi olululo kunye neengcebiso kumaqabane ahlala ne-autism esebenzayo.
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Ukuba kukho igama elilodwa elichaza indlela esabela ngayo ilungu lentsapho ukuxilongwa kwe-autism kumntu omthandayo, eloo lizwi lisizungu. Ukuba eli gama likuchaza, qiniseka ukuba awuyedwa ekufumaneni le mpendulo. Kukho uncedo olufumanekayo kuwe kunye nomlingane wakho. Ngoku ukuba i-autism iyabonwa ngokubanzi, abantu abadala kunye nabantwana abangenakutshatyalaliswa njenge-autistic esikhathini esidlulileyo, bafumaneka. Oku kunjalo ngokukodwa kwi- autism ephezulu yokusebenza (i-HFA) kunye ne-Asperger Syndrome, (ingxaki engekho ekhompyutheni yokuxilonga).
Kukho ne-website ezinikezele kwiimeko ezijongene nabatshatileyo kunye namaqabane kwi-Asperger Syndrome Partners kunye neZibonelelo zeeNdawo, ukukhuthazwa kunye nenkxaso. Kukho amaninzi amanqaku ancedo anikezelwe kuyo. Kukho uluhlu lokubhalisa nge-imeyile kubantu abane-autism esebenzayo, kunye nababenomzali, umlingane okanye umntwana ophethe i-autism.
Iintsapho kunye namava olwalamano, izibonelelo, iingcebiso zokuphila, isikhuthazo, kunye nethemba linikezelwa khona.
Ngoluhlobo lokwabelana ngabantu abaninzi abancedisanayo ukunyusa imithwalo yokuhlala kunye nokufumanisa izicwangciso zokujongana nezixazululo kwimicimbi emininzi kwimibutho. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akulula ukugqithisa i-gap yokunxibelelana ekhoyo kwimpilo yemihla ngemihla oyichazayo. Ukuxhatshazwa kunye nokuxinwa kwimeko ekhohlisayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ngolwazi oluninzi luza nethemba, ngoko unokufuna ukufunda ngokubanzi nge-autism. Kukho iincwadi ezininzi kunye newebhusayithi. Esinye isibonelelo sezonyango esilungileyo ukuqala kwi-Programme ye-Social Learning Disorders Programme. Kulapho uza kubona imeko yeqabane lakho elichazwe njengengxaki yokufunda yentlalo eyindlela efanelekileyo yokujonga ukungafani kwayo kunye nemingeni ejongene nawe.
Kubalulekile ukujonga imbali yolwalamano lwakho. Kufuneka ube namaxesha amahle kunye kunye nokwabelana ngemvakalelo emihle ngomnye nomnye. Zama ukubuyisela kwakhona oko kukuhlanganisile. Unokuzuza ngokubonisana nengcali yezempilo yengqondo onolwazi ekuncedeni abantu kwimeko enjani. Nangona iqabane lakho lingayi kuhamba nani, unokufumana ingqiqo malunga nolwalamano oluya kukunceda ukutshintsha i-chemistry ebuhlotsheni bakho.
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Abantu banokutshintsha. Ngomsebenzi wethu, sinceda abantu batshintshe baze bangenakwenza oko senzayo xa sasingakholelwa ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba kunokwenzeka. Uninzi lwabantu abane-high-function autism basebenze kwizinga eliphezulu lokuqonda kwaye oko kuthetha ukuba iqabane lakho liya kukwazi ukusebenzisa olo bulumko ukuze lufunde ukuziphatha kwentlalo eyanelisayo noluntu.
Ukuba iqabane lakho likulungele ukubona umcebisi , okanye nokuba ufumane umbono wesibini, kunokumnceda ukuba abone ukuba kunzima ntoni ukuba amkele ngoku ngoku. Ukufunda iincwadi ngabanye abantu abadala abane-autism njengoStephen Shore, uMkhulukazi weTempile kunye noDonna Williams banokubanceda kakhulu ukuba aqale ukuqokelela ubungqina benkcazo engacinga ukuba aqonde ukuxilongwa kwakhe.
Abantu abane-autism banako ukuqhubela phambili; ngokukhawuleza kwaye kulula mhlawumbi kodwa ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngokukhawuleza. Kuthatha umonde nokunyamezela. Kuzo zombini nitshintshe ezinye zeengqondo zenu kunye nokulindela. Kuyo yonke imitshato, iibini kufuneka zenze izinto ezithile kwaye zidibanise into engazange zilindelwe kwaye oku kufuthi zivelise imibhangqwana kwindawo ekhulileyo ngakumbi emthandweni, emtshatweni, nasekuzibophelelaneni komnye nomnye.
URobert Naseef, Ph.D., noCindy Ariel, Ph.D., ngabaququzeleli be "Amazwi avela kwi-Spectrum: Abazali, oogogo nomkhulu, abazalwana babo, Abantu abane-Autism, kunye nabaSebenzi Belana Ubulumko Babo" (2006). Kwiwebhu kwiiNketho ezingezinye.