Ibhendi yesikhumbuzo ilungisa uluntu lwakho ngelixa lihlonipha umntu omthandayo
Kwiminyaka emibini edlulileyo, inani leendlela onokuzikhumbula ngayo umntu osweleyo uye wanda kakhulu. Ayisekho ilitye lephambili okanye i-markmarker ngaphakathi kwimihlaba yamangcwaba, udidi olusakhulayo lweemveliso kunye nenkonzo ekhoyo namhlanje lwenza kube lula ukukhetha umvuzo onokufanelekileyo. Eli nqaku lihlola indlela onokumisela ngayo ibhentshi esikhumbuzo kwindawo ephakamileyo yoluntu.
"Yenza i-Adopt-Ben-bench" kwiCentral Park
Ngaba wayesazi ukuba iPentent Park eNew York City, eNew York, iqukethe amabhentshi angaphezu kwama-9,000? Nsuku zonke, iinani ezingenakubalwa zeepaki ezingama-38 zezigidi zeendwendwe zonyaka ziyeke ukuhlala kuzo ezi bhenki kwaye mhlawumbi zicamngca ngobuhle bomthi othize okanye umthombo wamanzi, okanye umangalise ukubonakala kwe-843-acre "emerald gem" entliziyweni weedolophu enkulu.
Ziziphi izinto ezinokuthi zingaboni, nangona kunjalo, ukuba ngaphezu kwezi-2,000 zeebhentshi ziphethe iiplati ezincinci, ezidwebekileyo, ezibonisa ukuba umntu "wamkele" ibhentshi - rhoqo ekhunjweni lomntu ofileyo. Ngokutsho kweCentral Park Conservancy, umbutho ojongene nokugcinwa kunye nokusebenza kwepaki, enye ipakethe ibhalwe ngolu hlobo: "NguLe Lui Pour Moi, Moi Pour Lui, Dans La Vie" ( ebomini, kuphela yena kum , kunye nam ngenxa yakhe ). Abanye banomthwalo wendabuko "Inkumbulo ye ..." kunye negama lokufa kunye nemihla yokufa nokufa.
Ukuba le ndlela yokuhlonipha umntu obathandayo iyabhenela kuwe, unokumangaliswa xa ufumanisa ukuba iinkqubo ezinjengobungqina besikhumbuzo esifana neCentral Park "I-Adopt-A-Bench" ithuba lifumaneka kulo lonke ilizwe - mhlawumbi nakwindawo yakho .
Ukufumana iNkqubo
Kukho iindlela eziliqela zokufumana isicwangciso sekhosi esesikhumbuzo esisekufutshane nawe.
Eyona nto elula kukubona nje ibhenki kwaye ubuze malunga nayo. Ungayifumana le mabhentshi kwisixeko okanye ipaki yombuso, kufuphi neendawo zokuhamba ngebhasi, ngenxa yezibhedlele okanye ezinye izibonelelo zonyango, ngaphandle kweshishini lendawo, njl.
Ukuba awukwazi ukufumana ibhentshi ekhoyo kwindawo kawonkewonke, khangela i-intanethi "yeebhentshi zesikhumbuzo kwi- XYZ " kwaye ubeke i- XYZ "ngepaki yesikhokelo" okanye "ipaki yendawo" okanye igama lomuzi wakho. (Ukufuna nje "iibhentshi zesikhumbuzo" ngokubanzi kubonisa abakhiqizi abaninzi ukuba bancede.)
Ukuba oku kungaphumeleli, qhagamshelana nekhaya lomngcwabo okanye emangcwabeni uze ucele iziphakamiso. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ezi shishini zigcina uluhlu lwezinto ezikhunjulwayo kunye namathuba okucebisa kwintsapho xa kufanelekile. Unokuqhagamshelana nomenzi-bhenkethi wokukhumbuza iziphakamiso, kodwa unokufumana i-pitch yokuthengisa kwimveliso yazo.
Ukuba awukwazi ukufumana inkqubo yesikhumbuzo seendawo zesikhumbuzo, ungadikibali! Kulo xesha lokunciphisa izibonelelo kunye nokuqinisa uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali, oorhulumente bendawo, amashishini kunye neminye imibutho iya kubonisa ukuba uyamkela xa uyinikela ukunikela ibhentshini ekusebenziseni kwindawo yoluntu, okanye ukukhazimulisa izizathu. Yaye ngubani owaziyo - umnikelo wakho unokubonisa nje ukuba ulungelelaniso olufunekayo ukuseka ngokusesikweni inkqubo yesikhumbuzo, okwenza kube lula kwabanye kwixesha elizayo.
Iindleko
Ixabiso leebhentshi zesikhumbuzo ziyahluka ngokubanzi. Ngokomzekelo, kwiCentral Park yaseNew York, umzekelo, ixabisa i-$ 7,500 i-$ 500 ukuba "yamukele" ibhentshi ekhoyo, kunye ne-$ 25,000 ukubeka ibhentshi entsha kwindawo yokukhethwa ngumnikeli. KwiLos Angeles, eCalifornia, inkqubo yepaki, ukongeza i-plaque ebhalwe kwi-benki ebiza i-$ 1,000, ngelixa i-$ 3,000 iquka ibhenki elitsha lomntu kunye nokukhethwa kwendawo yokufumana kwindawo enye yeepaki ezingaphezu kwama-400.
Ngokuthelekiswa, isixeko saseScottsdale, eArizona, sinikeza intengiso: i-$ 1,300, umnikeli ufumana ibhentshi entsha epakethe ephethe i-plaque yobhedu, ukulungiswa kwendawo kunye ne-concrete pad, ukufakela nokugcinwa kwimeko yokuphila ebhentshini.
Le mizekelo nje embalwa nje, kodwa kufuneka ulindele ukuhlawula nayiphi na iivela ezimbalwa zama dollar ukuze "ufumane" ibhentshi ekhoyo, kumawaka amaninzi ukubeka ibhenki elitsha lomntu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni ekugqibeleni ugqiba ukuyenza kunye nalapho ikhona khona, ukuseka ibhentshi esikhumbuzo kwindawo yoluntu ukuhlonela umthandwa wakho yintlawulo enenjongo yokuba wena-kunye nabanye abaninzi, abanye abantu-baya kuvuya kwiminyaka ezayo.
> Imithombo
> "I-Adopt-A-Bench" ngu-Elyse Newhouse, uJennifer Rich kunye noPhyllis Cerf Wagner. www.centralparknyc.org . Ukubuyiselwa ngoJuni wama-24, 2013. http://www.centralparknyc.org/donate/onor-someone-special/adopt-a-bench.html
> "FAQ." www.centralparknyc.org . Ibuyiswe ngoJuni 24, 2013. http://www.centralparknyc.org/visit/general-info/faq/
> "Nika-A-Bench." www.laparksfoundation.org . Ibuyiswe ngomhla we-24 Juni 2013. https://secure.laparksfoundation.org/EN/donation1.html?typed=bench
> "Iikhenkethi zeBhenki nezeMithi." www.scottsdaleaz.gov . Ibuyiswe ngoJuni 24, 2013. http://www.scottsdaleaz.gov/parks/memorial
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