Iingcaphuno ezingama-20 ze-Eulogies okanye i-Contemplation
Nangona amagama akakwazi ukubonisa ngokucacileyo indlela umntu athetha ngayo kuwe, ulwimi lunokuthi lunikeze induduzo, induduzo, ithemba, kunye nokuphefumlelwa emva kokufa komntu othandekayo. Apha, uya kufumana iqoqo yeengcaphuno ezicacileyo malunga nentlungu kunye nokulahlekelwa emva kokufa komntu othandekayo.
Unokufumana ezi ngcaphuno ezincedo xa ubhala incwadi ye-eulogy okanye ye- condolence letter , ngakumbi ukuba unenkathazo yokufumana amagama afanelekileyo kwaye udinga ukuphefumlelwa.
Ungasebenzisa kwakhona ezi ngcaphuno xa ushicilela, ucamngca okanye ucinga xa usila. Oku kunokukunceda usebenze ngamanqanaba akho entlungu.
Iingcaphuno zosizi kunye nokulila
IBhayibhile kuMateyu 5: 4
"Banoyolo abo balilayo, kuba baya kududuza."
U-Kahlil Gibran umbongi wase-Lebanese-waseMelika nomlobi
Uthando alukwazi ubunzulu balo kude kube lixa lokuhlukana.
U-Arthur Golden , umbhali waseMerika
"Usizi luyinto eyinqaba kakhulu, sinokungenakunceda ebusweni balo, kufana nefestile eza kuvula ngokuzenzekelayo." Igumbi liyakhathaza, kwaye asikwazi ukwenza nto ngaphandle kokuthuthumela. ngaphantsi kwexesha, kunye ncinane ngaphantsi; kwaye ngelinye ilanga siyazibuza ukuba yiyiphi into. "
UJohn Irving , umbhali waseMerika
"Xa umntu omthandayo efa, kwaye ungalindelanga, awuyi kulahlekelwa yanye kanye; ulahlekelwa yiminqweno ngexesha elide-ngendlela eyayeka ngayo i-imeyile, kwaye iphunga lakhe lidlulayo emithonjeni kwaye kuquka kwiingubo zakhe kwi-closet kunye nabadwebi.
Kancinci, uqokelela iingxenye zakhe eziye zahamba. Ngethuba xa kufika usuku-xa kukho inxalenye ethile elahlekileyo ephazamisayo ngokuziva ukuba uhambe, ngonaphakade-kuza olunye usuku, omnye ulahlekile ngokuthe ngqo. "
UHelen Keller , umbhali waseMelika, kunye nomlindi-mkhosi
"Thina sishiywe asiyedwa.
Sinoweyona nkampani enkulu kunazo zonke kwihlabathi-inkampani yalabo abaye bazi ukuhlupheka. "
CS Lewis , umbhali wase-Ireland, umgxeki wabhala, kunye nomlobi
"Ndicinga ukuba ndingachaza i-state; yenza imephu yokubuhlungu." Kodwa usizi luya kuba lukarhulumente kodwa luye lwenkqubo. "
Anne Morrow Lindbergh , i- aviator ye-American, kunye nomlobi
"Ukuhlukana kungenakubuhlungu, kungenxa yexesha elifutshane, kufana nexesha elifutshane." Ndivakalelwa kukuba isilungu siyaqothuka, ngaphandle kokuba andiyi kukwazi ukusebenza. "Kodwa ke, xa kwenziwa ... ubomi bubuyela ukungafihli, okucebileyo, ngakumbi ngokucacileyo nangaphezulu kunaphambili. "
Abraham Lincoln , umongameli wase-US
"Kule hlabathi elibuhlungu lethu, usizi luya kubo bonke ... Ukukhululeka okupheleleyo akunakwenzeka, ngaphandle kwexesha.Awukwazi ukuqonda ngoku ukuba uya kuziva ulunge ngakumbi ... Kodwa ke kuyiphutha. Uvuyiswe kwakhona.Ukukwazi oku, oko kuyinyaniso, kuya kukubangela ukuba ube nolusizi kakhulu ngoku.Inaye ndinamava ngokwaneleyo ukuba ndiyazi oko ndithethayo; kwaye kufuneka ukholelwe kuphela, uzive ungcono ngokukhawuleza. "
UEdna St. Vincent Millay , umbongi waseMerika, kunye nomdlali wezemidlalo
"Endaweni owawuhlala kuyo, kukho imingxuma ehlabathini, endizifumana ndihamba rhoqo emini, ndize ndilale ebusuku.
Ndilikhumbula njengesihogo. "
UWilliam Penn , usomashishini weNgesi kunye nomseli wasePennsylvania
"Kuba ukufa akusona nje ukuguquka kwethu ukususela kwixesha elingunaphakade."
U-Elizabeth Kübler-Ross , u- psychiatrist waseSwitzerland kunye nomlobi
"Ukunyaniseka kukuba uya kukhwankqiswa ngonaphakade.Ungeke 'uphumelele' ukulahlekelwa ngumntu othandekayo, uya kufunda ukuhlala nayo. Uya kuphulukisa kwaye uza kuvuselela ngokwakho ukulahlekelwa kwakho. kwakhona kwakhona kodwa awuyi kuze kube yinto efanayo.
UWilliam Shakespeare , umdlali waseNgilandi
"Ukulila kukunciphisa ubunzima bentlungu."
UNicholas uthi , umbhali waseMerika
"Ngaphandle kwakho kwizandla zam, ndiziva ndingenanto emphefumlweni wam. Ndizifumana ndicinga ngezihlwele ebusweni bakho-ndiyazi ukuba akunakwenzeka, kodwa andinakunceda."
UJohn Steinbeck , umbhali waseMerika
"Kunzima kakhulu xa kuphuma ukukhanya kunokuba bekungekho ukuba kwakungakaze kukhanye."
UClover Stroud , intatheli yaseBrithani
"Usizi, ngoku ndiyayiqonda, luhlobo lobuhlanya, ngendlela efanayo yokuthandana."
UPatrick Swayze , umdlali waseMerika
"Xa abo babathandayo befa, into enokuyenza yinto yokuhlonela umoya wabo ngokude uhlala. Uzibophezela ukuba uza kuthatha isifundo na umntu okanye isilwanyana esilinga ukukufundisa, kwaye uyayenza okwenyani ebomini bakho ... Yindlela enhle yokugcina umoya wabo uphila emhlabeni, ngokuzigcina uphila kuwe. "
"Tao Te Ching," incwadi yefilosofi yaseTshayina
"Ukubamba, kufuneka uqale uvule isandla sakho."
Alfred, Nkosi Tennyson , umbongi waseBrithani
"Ngamanye amaxesha ndibamba isiqingatha sesono
Ukubeka amazwi entlungu ndivakalelwa ngayo,
Ngamazwi, njengendalo, isiqingatha sityhila
Isiqingatha simfihle umphefumlo. "
UDylan Thomas , umbongi waseWelsh, kunye nomlobi
"Nangona abathandekayo belahlekile, uthando aluyi kuba khona, nokufa akuyi kuba namandla."
ULeon Tolstoy , umbhali waseRashiya
"Abantu abanobuchule abanothando abanokuthi baxakeke kakhulu, kodwa oku kufuneke ukuba bathande ukunyamezela intlungu yabo baze baphilise."