Nangona amagama angenakuze acacise ngokucacileyo indlela umntu athetha ngayo kuthi, ulwimi lunokuthi lunikeze induduzo, induduzo, ithemba, kunye nokuphefumlelwa emva kokufa komntu othandekayo . Apha uya kufumana iqoqo ekhethiweyo yeengcaphuno ezikhuthazayo kunye namazwi malunga nentlungu ebangelwa ukufa komntwana .
Unokufumana le miqolo iluncedo xa ubhala incwadi ye-eulogy okanye ye-condolence letter, ngakumbi ukuba unenkathazo yokufumana amagama afanelekileyo kwaye udinga ukuphefumlelwa.
John DeFrain
Ukufa komntwana kufana nelitye eliphonswe ekuphumeni kolwandle oluthulileyo; ukugqithisa okuphelelwe yithemba kuphelela kuyo yonke into, kuthintela abantu abaninzi. "
CS Lewis
"Ukuba unina akalilili ngenxa yento alahlekelwe ngayo kodwa into yokuba umntwana wakhe ofileyo ulahlekile, kuyathuthuzela ukukholelwa ukuba umntwana akazange alahlekelwe ekupheleni kwayo."
William Shakespeare
"Usizi luzalisa igumbi lam umntwana ongekho,
Uxoxe nge-herbed, uhamba kunye nam,
Ukhangeleka kakuhle, uphinda amazwi akhe,
Uyandikhumbuza inceba yakhe,
Ukhupha izambatho zakhe ezingenamntu kunye nefom yakhe. "
Umbhali ongaziwa
"Akukho nto ikhulunywe ngayo, akukho xesha lokuthetha." Uhambe ngaphambi kokuba siyazi, kwaye nguThixo kuphela owaziyo. "
URichard Hooker, umfundisi waseBrithani
"Cinga ngomntwana wakho ngoko, kungekhona nje ngokuba ufile, kodwa uhlala nje; kungekhona njengentyantyambo ebunile, kodwa njengento ethatyathwa, kwaye isichukumiswa ngesandla esivela kuThixo ivela kwimimandla ecebileyo kunye nemimbo emihle kunezo zomhlaba."
IBhayibhile, Mateyu 19:14
"Kodwa uYesu wathi, 'Vumelani abantwana abancinci beze kum, ningazami ukuwayeka, kuba ubukumkani bamazulu bunjalo.'"
URalph Waldo Emerson
"Usizi lusenza sonke sibantwana-sitshabalalisa zonke iindidi zengqiqo.
USamuel Rutherford
"Vumela abantwana bakho babe njengeentyatyambo ezininzi, ezibolekwe kuThixo.
Ukuba iintyatyambo zifa okanye zime, mbulela uThixo ngenxa yemboleko yehlobo. "
Umbhali ongaziwa
"Ingelosi kwiNcwadi yoBomi yabhala ukuzalwa kwam umntwana.
Wayexolisa njengoko wayevale incwadi ethi, 'Enhle kakhulu emhlabeni.' "
UBenjamin Franklin
"Umntu akazalwanga ngokupheleleyo aze afile; kutheni simele sibuhlungu ukuba umntwana omtsha uzalelwe phakathi kokungafi?"
UHenry Ward Beecher
"Xa abantwana bethu befa, siyawasalela kwizinto ezingaziwa, sithuthumele ukwesaba. Siyazi ukuba baphuma kuthi, kwaye simi, sihawukele, simangalise."
Amazwi aseMerika aseMelika
"Xa uzalwe, wakhala kwaye ihlabathi livuya. Phila ubomi bakho ukuze kuthi xa ufa ... ihlabathi likhala kwaye ujabule."
USusan Sarandon
"Abantwana babuyisela umhlaba kuwe."
USamuel Rutherford
"Ulahlekelwe ngumntwana-ke, akayi kulahlekelwa nguwe, ofunyanwa nguKristu; akathunywanga, kodwa uthunyelwa ngaphambili; kufana nenkwenkwezi, ephuma phambi kwethu, akayi kufa kwaye aphelelwe , kodwa kukhanya kwenye indawo. "