Amazwi akhuthazayo kunye neengcaphuno zokufunda emva kokufa kwintsana
Ukulahlekelwa yintsana kunokukubeka ekulahlekelweni kwamagama. Kodwa ungabizwa ukuba uhanjise i- eulogy okanye ufuna ukufumana amagama afanelekileyo kwikharityhulam ye-condolence kwintsapho yabantwana. Ufuna ukuwaxhasa ngenkxwaleko yabo kwaye mhlawumbi kufuneka usebenze ngeemvakalelo zakho malunga nokulahleka.
Ezi ngcaphuno kunye namazwi angabakhokelela ekufuneka zifake kwi-note kwintsapho okanye kusetyenziswe kwinkonzo yesikhumbuzo.
UNiclas Evans
Mamela inyawo yam entliziyweni yakho.
Andihambi, kodwa ndingahambi. "
Umbhali ongaziwa
"Asikazanga ukulibala,
Nangona sihluke,
Umoya wakho uphila phakathi kwam,
ngonaphakade entliziyweni yam.
UStephanie Paige Cole
"Ndakubamba isibini kwisibini ebomini bakho."
Umbhali ongaziwa
Ubomi bunokuhlala ixesha elifutshane, kodwa inkumbulo ingenza loo mzuzu iphele ngonaphakade. "
RJ Gonzales
"Ientyantyambo eziqhambileyo zivele ziphosa. Ukuqala ubomi bayo ngokupheliswa kwangoko."
Umbhali ongaziwa
"Mhlawumbi azinjalo ngeenkwenkwezi, kodwa kunokuba zivulele ezulwini apho uthando lwabantu bethu abalahlekileyo lukhanya khona ukuze lusitshele ukuba banathi."
UDkt Seuss (uTheodor Seuss Geisel)
"Umntu umntu, kungakhathaliseki ukuba luncinane kangakanani."
Umbhali ongaziwa
"Inkumbulo ezintle zigcinwe ngomsana osithandayo kwaye asisoze azilibala."
AA Milne
"Ngamanye amaxesha izinto ezincinci zithatha igumbi elikhulu entliziyweni yakho."
UDorothy Ferguson
"Kancinci kangakanani ukuba uphendule kwihlabathi lethu, phantse ucebile, umzuzwana nje uhleli.
Kodwa yintoni inqaku lakho eliye lashiya ezintliziyweni zethu. "
Umbhali ongaziwa
"Akukho nyawo incinci kangangokuba ayikwazi ukushiya umshicileli kweli hlabathi."
Edna St. Vincent Millay
"Endaweni owawuhlala kuyo, kukho imingxuma ehlabathini, endizifumana ndihamba rhoqo emini, ndize ndilale ebusuku.
Ndilikhumbula njengesihogo. "
Ernest Hemingway
"Andizange ndifune ukukunqanda, oko kwakuyinkxalabo; ndandifuna ukukunika ubusuku obuhle.
Umbhali ongaziwa
"Ingelosi encinane, unganditsho isizathu sokuba uyeke? Awukho apha ixesha elide ... kutheni ungeke uhlale?"
Ingelosi encinci yayigubha intloko yayo: "Ezi zinto andaziyo ... Kodwa ndiyazi ukuba uyayithanda, kwaye ndiyakuthanda njalo."
UJean Kerr
"Ithemba kukuba unomvakalelo ongenayo isigxina."
UChristine O'Keeffe Lafser
Abanye abantu bathi ihlazo.Abanye bathetha ukuba kuya kuba ngcono xa umntwana engazange adalwe.Kodwa ixesha elifutshane ndibenalo nomntwana wam lixabiseke kum. Ndiyinqwenela. "
Umbhali ongaziwa
Umlinganiselo wexesha eliphantsi komhlaba unobuncinane kakhulu: umntu unokuphila ngokukrakra kunye nekratshi iminyaka engama-90 aze angamfumani uThixo, amazi okanye aphumeze icebo Lakhe. Umntwana osweleyo, ngakolunye uhlangothi, ufundisa abantu ukuba bathande, kubangele abantu INkosi, isifundisa ubunjani bobubomi kwaye isifundisa ukholo lokuba abo abangazange balahlekelwe yikwazi. "
e zi cummings
"Ndiyithwala intliziyo yakho kunye nam (ndiyithwala entliziyweni yam)
andiyikho ngaphandle kwayo (naphi na ukuya khona, ndithandekayo;
kwaye nantoni na eyenziwa nguwe kuphela owenzayo, mhlobo wam)
UHelen Keller
"Into esiyithandayo kwaye siyithandayo kakhulu asikwazi ukulahlekelwa, kuba konke esikuthanda kakhulu kuba yinxalenye yethu."
Umbhali ongaziwa
"Ukuba iinyembezi zingakha izitebhisi kunye neenkumbulo ngendleleni, ndiza kufikelela ezulwini ndikubuyisele ekhaya."
UBarbara Kingsolver
Ukutshatyalaliswa kwesisu kungumcimbi wendalo kunye oqhelekileyo.Konke oku xelelwe, mhlawumbi abaninzi abafazi baye balahlekelwa ngumntwana kweli hlabathi kunokuba bengenalo. Abaninzi abakuthethayo, kwaye bayaqhubeka imihla ngemihla ngokungathi kwakungenzekanga , ngoko abantu bacinga ukuba umfazi kule meko wayengazi okanye wayemthanda oko wayenayo.
Yaye uyazi. "
Umbhali ongaziwa
"Abanye bathi uyabuhlungu ukukhumbula. Ndithi uyigugu kakhulu ukulibala!
Charlotte Brontë
"Kukho, ndiqinisekile, akukho mfanekiso ohambisa kuyo yonke into eyoyikisayo, umbono wokudabuka, ukuphelelwa lithemba, ukuguguleka, ophakamileyo. "U
John DeFrain
Ukufa komntwana kufana nelitye eliphonswe ekuphumeni kolwandle oluthulileyo; ukugqithisa okuphelelwe yithemba kuphelela kuyo yonke into, kuthintela abantu abaninzi. "
Umbhali ongaziwa
"Ndacinga ukuba siya kuba nexesha elingakumbi."
CS Lewis
"Ukungabikho kwakhe kufana nesibhakabhaka, usasazeka ngaphezu kwayo yonke into."
Umbhali ongaziwa
"Ukuba uthando lungakusindisa, ubuya kuhlala uphila ngonaphakade."
AA Milne
"Ukuba kuya kufika imini xa singenako ukuhlala kunye, ndigcine entliziyweni yakho. Ndiza kuhlala apho ngonaphakade."
ILizwi
Ukulahlekelwa yintsana kunokuba buhlungu kwaye buhlungu. Wena kunye nentsapho uya kuhamba ngezigaba ezininzi zentlungu . Unokufumanisa ukuba iqela lokuxhasa ulusi lunokukunceda wena kunye nosapho. Usizi lunokuba ngumvandulu obunzima kwaye unokufuna uncedo olongezelelweyo ukwenzela ukuba ungadlulela intlungu kwaye usebenze kwiingxaki ezingaphendululwanga.