Nangona amagama angenakuze acacise ngokucacileyo indlela umntu athetha ngayo kuthi, ulwimi lunokuthi lunikeze induduzo, induduzo, ithemba kunye nokuphefumlelwa emva kokufa komntu othandekayo. Apha, uya kufumana iqoqo ekhethiweyo yezibongozo ezikhuthazayo, ezikhuthazayo ngokufa, intlungu kunye nokulahleka.
Unokufumana ezi zinyameko xa ubhala incwadi ye-eulogy okanye i- condolence letter , ngakumbi ukuba unenkathazo yokufumana amagama afanelekileyo kwaye udinga ukuphefumlelwa.
UMary Hall , ummeli waseMerika, 1843-1927
Ukuba ndiza kufa ndikushiye apha isikhashana,
ungafani nabanye ababuhlungu,
abahlala belinde ngothuli oluthuli.
Ngenxa yam ndibuyele ebomini ndivele,
Ukukhathazeka intliziyo yakho nokuthuthumela ngesandla
ukwenza into yokuthuthuzela ezinye iintliziyo kunam.
Gcwalisa le mi sebenzi yam engathandekiyo
kwaye mna ndiyakhuthuzela.
Emily Dickinson , umbongi waseMerika, 1830-1886
I-Bustle kwiNdlu
Kusasa emva kokufa
Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kumashishini
Yenziwe kwiMhlaba -
Ukuhlaziya Intliziyo
Ubeke uthando
Asiyi kufuna ukusebenzisa kwakhona
Kuze kube ngonaphakade
UHenry Van Dyke , umbhali waseMelika, 1852-1933
Ndimi elwandle. Inqanawa, ecaleni kwam,
usasaza iinqwelo zakhe ezimhlophe ukuya emoyeni ohamba phambili kwaye uqala
olwandle oluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka. Uyinto enhle kunye namandla.
Ndimi kwaye ndijonge kuze kube yilapho, ekude, ixhomeke njengedaka
ifu elimhlophe nje apho ulwandle kunye nesibhakabhaka zixubana kunye.
Emva koko, umntu osesecaleni lam, uthi, "Kulapho, uhambe."
Uhambe phi?
Ndishiya emehlweni am. Yiyo yonke. Ufana nje omkhulu kwibala,
hula kwaye ucoce njengoko wayekho xa eshiya lam.
Kwaye, unako ukunyamezela umthwalo wakhe wokuhlala kwiindawo ezisemgangathweni.
Ubungakanani bakhe obuncitshisiweyo buphakathi kwam - kungekhona kuye.
Kwaye, nje ngomzuzwana xa umntu ethi, "Kulapho, uhambe,"
zikhona ezinye amehlo ezibukele ukuza kwakhe, kunye namanye amazwi
Ulungele ukuthabatha umemeza, "Ulapha uya!"
Yaye iyafa ...
UMariya Elizabeth Frye , umtsalane waseMelika, 1905-2004
Musa ukuhlala ethuneni lam kwaye ukhale.
Andikho; Andilali.
Ndiyimimoya engamawaka evuthelayo.
Ndiyidayimane eneqhwa kwikhephu.
Ndiyilanga ilanga lokuvuna okusanhlamvu.
Ndiyindla yamandla ekwindla.
Xa uvuka ekuseni
Ndiyiphuthuma ngokukhawuleza
Iinyoni ezizolileyo zijikeleza.
Ndiyinkwenkwezi ezithambileyo ezikhanya ebusuku.
Musa ukuhlala ethuneni lam kwaye ukhale;
Andikho; Andizange ndife.
UThomas Bailey Aldrich , umhleli waseMerika, 1836-1907
Ndabamba ileta esandleni sam,
Kwaye nangona ndifunda
Umbane wanyuka kulo lonke ilizwe
Igama lokuba wafa.
Yeka indlela evelele ngayo! Lakhe ilizwi eliphilileyo
Ngaba wayethetha ukusuka kwiphepha
Ezi ziqendu ezintle, ezikhethekileyo,
Intliziyo ekhanyayo, ingqiqo, ingqondo.
Ndazibuza ukuba yintoni efile!
Lo mntu ngokwakhe ulapha,
Ukuthozama kwakhe, ukuziqhenya kwakhe,
Umphefumlo wakhe uphawule kwaye ucace.
Le nto ayiyi kufa, nexesha,
Sekunjalo le nto ibuhlungu -
Kungoko andinakuthetha naye,
Nangona akwazi ukuthetha nam!
UHarry Scott-Holland , utitshala waseBritani, 1847-1918
Ukufa akukho nto.
A yibala.
Ndiye ndaya kwiqumbi elilandelayo.
Akukho nto eyenziwe.
Yonke into ihlala ngokufana nangoko.
Ndinguye, kwaye nguwe,
kunye nobomi obudala esasihlala kunye ngokuthandanayo, abuguqukanga.
Nantoni na into esabelana ngayo, ukuba sisaphila.
Ndibize ngegama elidala eliqhelekileyo.
Thetha ngam indlela ngendlela elula ohlala uyisebenzisa.
Musa ukumahluko kwi tone lakho.
Ungagqoki nomoya onyanzelisiweyo wesibindi okanye usizi.
Hlaka njengoko sasisoloko sihleka ngeentlanzi ezincinane esazithandayo.
Dlalani, mncoma, cinga ngam, thandazela.
Vumela igama lam libe lizwi lasemakhaya elihlala lihlala njalo.
Makukhulunywe ngaphandle komzamo, ngaphandle kwesimo somthunzi kuso.
Ubomi kuthetha konke oko kwakuthetha.
Kuyafana nokuqala.
Kukhona ukuqhubekeka okungapheliyo kunye nokungapheliyo.
Iyintoni le nto yokufa kodwa ingozi engenzi lutho?
Kutheni ndifanele ndikhumbule ngenxa yokuba ndingaboni?
Ndikulindele nje, ngelixesha,
ndawo kufuphi kakhulu,
nje ngeenxa zonke.
Konke kulungile.
Akukho nzakalo; akukho nto ilahlekileyo.
Omnye umzuzu omfutshane kwaye bonke baya kuba njengakudala.
Siza kuhleka njani ingxaki yokuhlukana xa sihlangana kwakhona!
UDavid Harkins , umculi waseBritani, ngo-1958-
Unako ukukhalisa iinyembezi ukuba uhambe,
okanye unokumomotheka ngenxa yokuba uphile.
Unokuvala amehlo uze uthandazele ukuba abuyele,
okanye ungavula amehlo uze ubone konke okuseleyo.
Intliziyo yakho ayinanto ngenxa yokuba awukwazi ukuyibona,
okanye unokuzaliswa uthando olwabelane ngalo.
Ungabuya umva ngomso uze uphile izolo,
okanye ungonwabile ngomso ngenxa yezolo.
Uyakhumbula nje kuphela ukuba uhambe,
okanye ungayithanda imemori yakhe kwaye uyivumele iphile.
Unokukhala nokuvala ingqondo yakho,
ungabi nalutho uze uphenduke.
Okanye unokwenza oko akufunayo:
umomotheka, uvule amehlo akho, uthande kwaye uqhubeke.
Ehlelwe kwaye ihlaziywe nguChris Raymond
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