Iingcaphuno zokufa, ukufa kunye nentlungu ebangelwa ukulahlekelwa nguodade
Nangona amagama angenakuze acacise ngokucacileyo indlela umntu athetha ngayo kuthi, ulwimi lunokuthi lunikeze induduzo, induduzo, ithemba kunye nokuphefumlelwa emva kokufa komntu othandekayo. Apha, uya kufumana iqoqo ekhethiweyo yemilayezo, izingcaphuno, kunye namazwi malunga nentlungu ebangelwa kukulahlekelwa udade, nokuba yeyakho okanye loo mntu owaziyo.
Unokufumana le miqolo iluncedo xa ubhala incwadi ye-eulogy okanye ye- condolence letter , ngakumbi ukuba unenkathazo yokufumana amagama afanelekileyo kwaye udinga ukuphefumlelwa.
U-Emily Dickinson , umbongi waseMerika (owayenodade omnye)
Ndingathanda oodade abaninzi, ukuba ukukhishwa komntu kungenakukushiya ukuhlala okunjalo.
Umbhali aziwa
Iingcambu zethu zithi siodade, iintliziyo zethu zithi sihlobo.
UVictoria Secunda , isazi sengqondo seMerika kunye nomlobi
Ukuba nobuhlobo obunothando noodade akukhona nje ukuba ube nomhlobo okanye uqinisekile ... kukuba nomphefumlo womphefumlo.
UJames Boswell , ummeli waseScotland nomlobi
Mna, ongenalo oodade okanye abazalwana, jonga ngesantya esingenasiphoso kubo abo banokuthiwa bazelwe ngabahlobo.
Isadora James , umbhali waseMerika
Udade isipho entliziyweni,
Umhlobo womoya,
Intambo yegolide enentsingiselo yobomi.
UBenjamin Disraeli , osombusazwe waseBrithani kunye nomlobi
Nandi lizwi loodade ngexesha losizi.
ULinda Sunshine , umbhali waseMerika
Ukuba awuyiqondi indlela umfazi onokumthanda ngayo udadewabo ngokukhawuleza kwaye ufuna ukuwubetha entanyeni ngexesha elifanayo, ngoko mhlawumbi ungumntwana kuphela.
UCharles M. Schulz , umdwebi waseMelika
Oodade abakhulu yi-crab yengca ebomini yobomi.
Toni Morrison , umbhali waseMerika
Udade unokubonwa njengomntu ophakathi kwethu kunye nathi kakhulu - uhlobo oluthile oluphindwe kabini.
Umbhali aziwa
Udade kudade siya kuhlala sihlala,
Isiqhelo samantongomane esivela kumthi wentsapho.
USusan Scarf Merrell , umbhali waseMelika, umhleli kunye noprofesa
Abazalwana kunye noodadewethu bakhona kunye nathi ukususela ebusweni bamabali ethu kubusuku obusingenakwenzeka.
Jodi Picoult , umbhali waseMerika
Ukuba unodade kwaye uyafa, uyayeka ukuthetha ukuba unayo? Okanye ngaba usoloko ungudade, nangona xa esinye isiqingatha se-equation siphelile?
UBarbara Alpert , umbhali waseMerika
Uyisibuko sakho, ukhanyisa kuwe ngehlabathi lamathuba. Nguye ubungqina bakho, obona wena kwiyona nto ibe yimbi kakhulu, kwaye uyakuthanda njalo. Ungumlingani wakho kulwaphulo-mthetho, umlingane wakho wezambane, umntu owaziyo xa uyamomotheka, nangona ebumnyameni. Nguye utitshala wakho, ugqwetha lakho lokhuselo, ummeli wakho weendaba, nokuba uhlawule. Kwezinye iintsuku, nguye isizathu sokuba unqwenela ukuba ungumntwana kuphela.
UMargaret Mead , wase-American anthropologist kunye nomlobi
Oodadewabo mhlawumbi unxulumano olukhuphisana kakhulu phakathi kwentsapho, kodwa xa odade bekhulile, kuba luhlobo oluqinileyo.
Umbhali aziwa
Udade ungenye yezinto ezintle kakhulu ezinokuthi zenzeke kunoma ubani.
Pam Brown , umbhali waseAustralia nomlobi
Oodadewethu bacaphukisa, baphazamise, bagxeke. Ukuzibandakanya kwi-sulks enkulu, kwiindawo zokuhlambalaza. Borrow. Ukuphuka. Yenza indawo yokuhlambela.
Zihlala ziphantsi. Kodwa ukuba intlekele ibetha, oodade balapho. Ukukhusela kuzo zonke iindawo.
UMaya Angelou , umbhali waseMerika kunye nomlobi
Andikholelwa ukuba ingozi yokuzalwa yenza abantu odade okanye abazalwana. Ibenza babazalwana babo, banikeze umxholo womzali. Udade kunye nobuzalwana ngumqathango abantu kufuneka basebenze kuwo.
Umbhali aziwa
Oodadewabo iintlobo ezahlukeneyo ezivela kwimiyezo efanayo.
UMary Mary Wortley Montagu , umbhali waseNgesi
Ayikho imeko ebomini apho intetho yam udadewethu othandekayo ayinakuyithuthuzela kwam.
UWilliam Shakespeare , umdlali waseNgilandi
Ingelosi ekhonzayo yoba dadewethu.
Charlotte Gray , umbhali waseNgesi kunye noprofesa
Unako ukubhala ihlabathi, kodwa kungekhona udade wakho.
UMarion C. Garretty , "umbhali"
Udade uyingcinane yobuntwana obungenakuze bulahleke.
UCarol Saline , intatheli yaseMerika, umsasazo kunye nomlobi
Oodadewethu basebenza njengeenqwelo zokukhusela kwihlabathi elixhatshazelisayo nje ngokuba bekhona.
Umzekeliso waseVietnam
Abazalwana noodade basondelene kakhulu ngezandla kunye neenyawo.
Unako kwakhona :
• Amazwi okuphefumlelwa: Mzalwana
• Amazwi okuphefumlelwa: umntwana
• Amazwi okuphefumlelwa: Ukufa nokuxhalaba
• Amazwi okuphefumlelwa: Baba
• Amazwi okuphefumlelwa: Ukwesaba ukufa
• Amazwi okuphefumlelwa: Mhlobo
• Amazwi okuphefumlelwa: Utatomkhulu
• Amazwi okuphefumlelwa: Intlungu, Ukulahlekelwa, nokulila
• Amazwi okuphefumlelwa: Umyeni
• Amazwi okuphefumlelwa: Insana
• Amazwi okuphefumlelwa: Ukuhleka ekufeni
• Amazwi okuphefumlelwa: Mama
• Amazwi okuphefumlelwa: Intlanzi
• Amazwi okuphefumlelwa: IMizekeliso kunye namazwi abantu
• Amazwi okuphefumlelwa: uShakespeare
• Amazwi okuphefumlelwa: uSolomon
• Amazwi okuphefumlelwa: Umfazi
• Amazwi okuphefumlelwa: Indawo yokusebenzela
• Ukubhala njani i-Eulogy: Iingcebiso ezi-5 zokuphumelela