Xa indoda isweleka, unokufuna amagama enduduzo, induduzo, okanye ukuphefumlelwa njengoko uhamba nenkqubo yokulila . Ukukwazi oko abanye bakuboniswe kwimeko efanayo kunokukunceda ngexesha lusizi xa uhlala naye.
Ukuba ukhangele amagama afanelekileyo anikezela kumlingane osasalayo, nokuba ngaba ubhala incwadi ye-eulogy okanye i- condolence letter , ezinye iingcaphuno kunye neengoma ezivela kubantu abaphawulekayo ekufeni komyeni kunokunceda.
Thomas Campbell
"Ukuhlala ezintliziyweni esishiya ngasemva akuyi kufa."
William Penn
"Bathi uthando ngaphezu kwehlabathi alukwazi ukwahlukana nalo. Ukufa akukwazi ukubulala oko kungafi."
Anne Dudley Bradstreet
"Kumyeni Wathandekayo Nothando:
Ukuba ngaba babini babesinye, ngokuqinisekileyo thina.
Ukuba umntu wayethandwa ngumfazi, ke wena;
Ukuba umfazi wayenomdla kumntu,
Thelekisa nam, nina bafazi, ukuba unako.
Ndixabisa uthando lwakho ngaphezu kweemigodi zegolide
Okanye bonke ubutyebi obubekwe yiMpuma.
Uthando lwam lunjalo ukuba imilambo ayikwazi ukucima,
Akufanele ukuba uthando luvela kuwe lunike impindiselo.
Uthando lwakho lunjalo andinako ukubuyisela.
Amazulu akuvuza ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ndithandaza.
Emva koko siphila, ngothando masenze njalo [e]
Ukuba xa singaphinde siphila, sinokuphila. "
UHenry Scott Holland
"Ukufa akukho nto.
Ndiye ndatshintsha nje kwindlu elandelayo.
Ndinguwe kwaye nguwe.
Nantoni na ebenjalo,
Oko, sisekho. "
Ann Druyan
"Indlela endiphatha ngayo kunye nendlela endiphatha ngayo, indlela esayinyamekela ngayo kunye nosapho lwethu, ngoxa wayehlala.
Oku kubaluleke ngakumbi kunomxholo ndiya kumbona ngelinye ilanga. "
UJames Whitcomb Riley
"Andikwazi ukuthetha, kwaye andiyi kuthetha
Ukuba ufile. Ude nje.
Ngomomotheka wesandi, kunye nomtsalane wesandla,
Uye wagijimela kwilizwe elingaziwa kwaye wasishiya siphupha ngendlela efanelekileyo ngayo
Kufuneka ukuba, kuba uhlala apho.
Kwaye wena-oh wena, ngubani onqwenela kakhulu
Kwixesha elide, kunye nokubuya okulungileyo,
Cinga ngaye ehamba phambili, njengothandekayo
Ngothando lwalapho Luthando lwalapha.
Cinga ngaye ngokufanayo. Ndithi,
Akafanga-ude nje. "
Joan Rivers
"Umyeni wam wayefuna ukutshiswa. Ndamxelela ukuba ndiza kuchitha umlotha wakhe e-Neiman Marcus-ngaloo ndlela, ndiza kumtyelela imihla ngemihla."
Steve Carell
Umama wam omama wayengumfazi onzima, okhutheleyo kunye nomfazi onqabileyo olahlekelwa ngumyeni wakhe omncinane waza wakhulisa abantwana abathandathu. Yena wayehlala kwindawo yokumbiwa kwemigodi e-Upstate eNew York waza wagijimela indlu yokuhlala kwabasebenzi bamagada. intsapho kunye nabavukuzi ababehlala endlwini. "
Anna Nicole Smith
"Ndiye ndedwa kuba indoda yam iswelekile." Ndihlala ekhaya lam, andihlali. "Kunzima ukuba nomhlobo xa uhlala ekhaya.
UDonald Cargill
"Kude ndide ndibe nexesha elingenammiselo, ngenxa yenceba kaThixo kunye nozuko lukaKristu; kodwa ukufa kwahlala kwinto embi kakhulu, kwaye ngoku kuya kususwa; ngoku ngoku ukufa akusisona kum, kodwa ukuzithoba kumyeni wam, kunye nokulala naye. "
Joan Sutton
"Andiyalili iinyembezi ngenxa yokuba umyeni wam ufile. Ndilila iinyembezi ngenxa yeminyaka elahlekileyo. Ndilila iinyembezi ngenxa yamalungu entsapho abancinci abanjwe yi- Alzheimers ithuba lokuba bamazi ngokwenene.
Kwaye, ewe, ndiyalila iinyembezi, ngokuba ukuthula kwendlu-njani kunokuthula, xa kwakungekho nomsindo ngokwenene? Ndilila ngenxa yokungabi nalutho lweentsuku ezolule phambi kwam ngaphandle komntu onokunyamekela, ndililela ikamva eliqinisekileyo; Ndilila ngokubambisana. Andinasiphelo. "
Joyce Carol Oates
"Kwimisebenzi yokufa engaphantsi komhlolokazi kunokuba yinto enye ebaluleke kakhulu: ngomhla wokuqala wokufa komyeni wakhe, umhlolokazi kufuneka acinge ukuba ndigcine ndiphila ."