Izindlela ezinenjongo zokubuyisela iintyatyambo zomngcwabo kunye namalungiselelo eentyatyambo
Ubu bungqina bubonisa ukuba ukusetyenziswa kokuqala kweentyatyambo kwiindawo zokungcwaba / zokungcwaba kwabantu kwenzeka kwiCave Raqefet, e-Mt. IKarmele, amaSirayeli, iminyaka engama-14 000 edlulileyo. Ngelixa abantu abasindileyo bebenzisa iintyatyambo ukuhamba emangcwabeni omntu oshonile, ukusetyenziswa kweziqhamo zeziqhamo kunye neenkqubo zokungcwaba kunye neenkonzo zokumangcwaba sele ziba nzima ngokubanzi-ukuya kuthi ezinye iintsapho zibandakanya iincwadana "Nceda ulahle izimbali" okanye "Endaweni lweentyantyambo ... "kwiindawo zokunyusa ezipapashwe ukwenzela ukunciphisa inani leempepho zentyatyambo ezifunyenweyo.
Nangona abahlali basoloko bexabisa ubuhle balezi ntyatyambo kunye nengcamango yabo, abaninzi abantu abazi nje ukuba bangenzani ngala malungiselelo emva kokungcwaba kunye / okanye iinkonzo zokungcwaba. Eli nqaku linika iindlela eziliqela ezinokuthi "uvuselele" iintyatyambo, izityalo kunye nokucwangciswa kweentyatyambo ezisetyenziselwa umngcwabo kunye neenkonzo zokungcebeleka kunokuba uzilahle nje.
Khanyisa Umhla woLuntu
Ekuphelelweni kwenkonzo yomngcwabo okanye ukunyanzeliswa, amalungu entsapho esondeleyo ngokukhethekileyo akhetha amalungiselelo ahlukeneyo ekuveliseni iimpawu ezindlini zabo kodwa ekugqibeleni aphelile ngeentyatyambo, izityalo kunye / okanye amalungiselelo okuvelisa ayenokuyisebenzisa. Esikhundleni sokushiya le nto emva kwendawo yomngcwabo kunye / okanye ukuvalelwa, ukulahlwa kamva ngemisebenzi yomngcwabo okanye kumangcwaba abasebenzi, cinga ukunikela iintyatyambo ezingafunekiyo kumngcwabo kubahlobo, izalamane okanye abasebenzi kunye nabo okanye ukuzinikela ebandleni, ikhaya lomhlalaphantsi, indawo yokusebenzela, i- hospice okanye ezinye izibonelelo zokukhathalela .
(Nceda uqaphele ukuba ngenxa yokungakhathazeki, ezinye izibonelelo zononophelo zezempilo zingamkeli umnikelo wakho.)
Kwimeko yokugqibela, xa unikela ngeentyantyambo zokungcwaba, izityalo kunye nokucwangciswa kweentyatyambo, kufuneka uqale ususe onke amakhadi, amanqaku, iidbhoni kunye nemihlobiso echaza injongo yangaphambili yesipho sakho kubantu abaqaphelisayo.
(Xa ususa amakhadi kunye namanqaku, kunjalo, kufanele ulandelele "othumele oko" ukuze ubathumele inqaku lokubulela kamva.)
Ngokufanayo, kufuneka uqikelele ukulungiswa kokugqibela ngaphambi kokuba unikele ngeentyantyambo zengcwaba, izityalo kunye nokucwangciswa kwezimbali . Ngexesha eliqhelekileyo i-wreath okanye izityalo eziluhlaza ziza kubonakala zifanelekileyo kwiimeko ezininzi, umzekelo, umgca wamaKristu omileyo okanye i-ribbon "ye-awareness-causing" (njenge-pink for cancer). , esibhedlele okanye kwindawo yokukhathalela.
Ekugqibeleni, ukuba amalungu omtshato osondeleyo uya kuziva ephazamiseke iinkcukacha ezininzi eziyimfuneko ekucwangciseni iinkonzo zokungcwaba kunye / okanye ukunyanzeliswa ngelo xesha - ngaphezu kweemeko zomzimba, zengqondo kunye neengqondo ezenziwe yintlungu ngokwayo - ukucinga ukuba yintoni oyenzayo kunye neentyantyambo zomngcwabo, izityalo kunye nokucwangciswa kweentyatyambo emva kokuba iinkonzo zihlala zinganakwa. Ngako oko, cela ilungu lentsapho okanye umhlobo, okanye umlawuli womngcwabo okanye ilungu labasebenzi bamangcwaba, ukuba athathe uxanduva lweentyantyambo zomngcwabo . Amalungu entsapho okanye abahlobo banokubuyela kwisayithi yesevisi emva kokushiya nokulayisha iintyatyambo ezingafunekiyo kwizithuthi zabo. Ukongezelela, abasebenzi benkonzo yomngcwabo ngokubanzi bazimisele ukuthatha uxanduva kulo msebenzi, okanye bakwazi ukuhambisa iintyatyambo ezingafunekiyo, izityalo kunye / okanye amalungiselelo eentyatyambo ngaphakathi, njengoko nje ilungiselelwe ngaphambili.
(Kodwa qaphela ukuba unokuhlawulwa kule nkonzo.)
Khumbula Omnye Othandekayo
Olunye uhlobo olumangalisayo lwemifuno engcwaba engafunekiyo, izityalo kunye nokucwangciswa kweentyatyambo ukuwashiya emangcwabeni , i-columbarium niche okanye enye indawo yokuphumla yomnye umntu othandekayo . Ngokuqhelekileyo, kuba iintsapho zivame ukusebenzisa amangcwaba afanayo, amanye amalungu omndeni, izalamane kunye / okanye abathandekayo baya kuthethwa ngezizathu. Ngoko ke, cinga ukuhambela indawo yabo yokuphumla kunye nokuhlonela imemori yabo kunye nelungiselelo eliqhakazileyo lembali eliya kuhlala lingasetshenziswanga kwaye ekugqibeleni lilahlwe.
Ukongeza, unokuthetha nomlawuli wakho womngcwabo kunye / okanye kumangcwaba abasebenzi kunye nokubuza ukuba unako ukunikela ngeentyantyambo zokungcwaba ezingafunekiyo kumsebenzi womngcwabo / ukukhulelwa komnye umntu . Nangona le ntshukumo ingabonakala inomdla, ngokwenene ayiqhelekanga kwaye inokunceda ukuba abo balila ukufa komntu ongazange uve ngeyona nto ibhetele kangcono kwixesha lakhe losizi - ngakumbi iinkonzo zokungcwaba kunye / okanye iinkonzo ezithe fumana ezininzi iintyatyambo, izityalo kunye nokucwangciswa kweentyatyambo. Kwakhona, cela umlawuli wakho womngcwabo okanye ilungu labasebenzi bamangcwaba; kufuneka akwazi ukunikela isiluleko.
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Ukuba uye walugcina ientyatyambo kwisiganeko esibalulekileyo ebomini bakho, okanye ukuba unomdla wokwenza imveliso, ke le ngcebiso yokugqibela iya kubonakala ibe yinto yesibini kuwe. Ukusebenzisa iipalali, iintloko okanye iiflethi ezipheleleyo ezivela kwiintyatyambo zomngcwabo eziseleyo, yenza ikhumbuzo lokushiya inhlonipho yothandekayo wakho . Indlela elula kakhulu ukubeka iipalali okanye intloko yeentyatyambo phakathi kwamaphepha aphepheni ezimbini uze uyicinezele isicatshulwa phakathi kwesigxina seencwadi. Xa usomile, ungafaka iipalali okanye intloko yentloko phantsi kweklasi kwisakhelo - mhlawumbi ukongeza i-quote oyintandokazi okanye igama lomntu oshonile ukuya kwi-matting - kwaye unike iintyatyambo ezifakwe kwiintsapho kunye nabahlobo.
Ukongeza, ungasebenzisa iintyatyambo ezomileyo ukudala amabhukumaka ekhumbuzo; iholide; magnetti; amakhandlela enkumbulo; isepha; ngokubanzi; okanye sebenzisa iintyatyambo ezomileyo ukuhlobisa izikhumbuzo zesikhumbuzo okanye iincwadana . Naluphi na lezinto - okanye into oyicingayo kwaye uziqhelise ngokwakho - uya kwenza isipho esihle kumalungu entsapho, abahlobo kunye nabathandekayo ababazi kunye nabathandekayo abafayo kwaye baya kubonakalisa ukusetyenziswa kangcono kweentyantyambo zomngcwabo, izityalo kunye nokucwangciswa kwembali kunokuba ukulahla.
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"I-Natufian yase-Raqefet yaseMaqefet, iMart Carmel, i-Israel," ngoDani Nadel, u-Avinoam Danin, uRobert C. Power, etl., Julayi 16, 2013 I-National Academy yeSayensi . Iqoqo loMbhali.