Ingabangela uxinzelelo xa omnye wabazali bakho ene- stroke . Ukuba unyoko okanye ubaba wakho usandul 'uhlangothi olutshanje, unokukhathazeka kakhulu ngomzali wakho kunye nendlela aza kuhamba ngayo ebusweni bokukhubazeka okutsha. Ukuba uhlala kude nomzali wakho, unokuba ukhathazeka ngakumbi malunga nendlela onokukunceda ngayo xa ungasondeli.
Imiba ekufuneka uyiqwalasele xa umzali wakho ehlengahlengayo emva kokuphazamiseka kubandakanya impilo, ukhuseleko, ukuthutha kunye nemali.
Unokufunda indlela yokulawula izinto eziphambili ekujonganeni nobomi emva kokuphazamiseka ukuze ulungele ukukhokela abazali bakho ngexesha lokuguqulwa kwesigxina kunye nokuhlaziywa, nokuba uhlala ngaphandle kwedolophu.
Ukuhamba ngeStroke
Ukuqhuba ukuhamba ngenye yezinto eziphambili zokulungiswa kwendlela yokuphila kunye nemiba yokhuseleko emva kwesifo. Uninzi lwabantu lufanele luqhube ukuze lufike kwiindawo ezingaphandle kwekhaya.
Ukuba umzali wakho akakwazi ukuqhuba, unokudinga ukuxhomekeka kwabanye ukuba ahambe kwaye kufuneka ukuba acwangcise ukuphuma kwangaphambili. Umzali wakho unokuqala ukuziva ekhulile kwaye ecindezelekile ukuba kufuneka achithe ixesha elithile ekhaya kunokufuna.
Kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuba abantu abaninzi abasindayo banobuhlungu abakwazi ukuqhuba. Umbono utshintsho emva kokuphazamiseka kunokubandakanya ukulahleka kombono wendawo okanye ukulahleka kombono kwelinye iliso. Izibetho zingabangela ubuthathaka kwelinye icala lomzimba, okwenza umatshini wokuqhuba umngeni.
Ezinye izibetho zithintela isigwebo, kwaye ukuphazamiseka kunokuphazamisa ukuqwalasela ngakwesobunxele okanye kwicala lasekunene kwimeko engqongileyo, imeko eyaziwa njengekungahoxiswa.
Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha, nangona i-stroke ingenzi ukukhubazeka okusemzimbeni okuphazamisa ukushayela, inxeba inokubangela ukutshatyalaliswa kwe-post-stroke , enokubangela ukuba umntu osindayo ahlasele xa eqhuba, mhlawumbi ulahlekelwa ngumlawuli.
Imiphumo yokubethelwa kwesithintelo kuthintela abasindileyo besifo ukuba bakwazi ukuqhuba ngokukhuselekileyo. Ezi zikhuhlane emva kokuphazamiseka zingalimaza umqhubi, abagibeli bakhe, abanye abaqhubi kunye nabahamba ngeenyawo.
Sekunjalo, umama okanye utata wakho angenakufuna ukuyeka ukuqhuba ngenxa yokungabikho kokuzimela. Ngoko, kufuneka uyenze ntoni xa unenkxalabo yokukwazi ukuqhuba umzali wakho, kodwa awuqinisekanga ukuba unokukwazi ukuyisebenzisa? Ukuba ukhathazekile, kuya kuba yinto efanelekileyo yokubuza umbelethi wakho womzimba okanye uchwepheshe weengcali ukuba ahlolisise ngokucacileyo umzali wakho ngokukwazi ukuqhuba.
Ukuba umzali wakho uthathwa engafanele ukuqhuba, umzali wakho uya kudla ngokuya kuthobela loo myalelo wonyango. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umzali wakho ugxininisa ukuqhuba ngaphandle kwee-odolo zezokwelapha, ngoko uxanduva olungathandekiyo lokunyanzelisa le mingcipheko lunokuwela emagxeni akho.
Inokukunceda ukuba ukhumbuze umzali wakho ukuba imoto, ukugcinwa, iindleko zegesi kunye neendleko zomshuwalense zibiza. Mhlawumbi unako ukubonisa umzali wakho ukuba indleko yemoto kunye neebhasi, izitimela, iikhabhi kunye nezinye iindlela zokuhamba zilingana ngokubhalwa kwamanani okwenyani ukuze umzali wakho abone ukuba ukuba umgibeli angabi yindleko.
Kwaye unokukunceda ngelixa ude ukuqesha umntu ngenani elithile lokukhwela okanye inombolo ekhethiweyo yeeyure zokuqhuba kunye nokuzihlawula ngokwakho. Amaxesha amaninzi, xa abazali beyazi ukuba abantwana babo abadala baye 'bahlawula' into ethile, abayithandi ukubona ukuba inkokhelo iya kwi-inkunkuma.
LweKhaya loKhuseleko
Emva kokuphazamiseka, ezinye izakhiwo zekhaya ziza kuba nzima ukuba zihambe, kwaye zi nokuba zikhuseleke. Ngokomzekelo, izitebhisi zingaba nobungozi obuyingozi xa umzali wakho enenkathazo yokulinganisela okanye unobuthakathaka bomlenze. Isimbofu esinezinkani zesitofu okanye intambo evulekileyo eyayisicasulayo ngaphambi kokuba kuqhutywe isifo sinokuba yingozi entsha emva kwesifo.
Abaninzi abasindileyo bahlala kwindawo ephephile kwikhaya elilodwa okanye kwigumbi. Nangona kunjalo, xa loo nto ingenakwenzeka, umzali wakho unokukwazi ukuhamba ngokukhuselekileyo kwaye wehla ezitebhisini, kodwa unako ukukwazi ukuhamba ngokukhuphayo kwaye wehla ezitepeni ngelixa uphethe umthwalo onzima, njengenqabileyo yokuhlamba.
Eminye imisebenzi yokulungisa ikhaya, njengokutshintsha ibhetri ye-alarm okanye ibhuloyi yelitsha, kufuna ukuma kumanqanaba, okungenzeka kubekho umzali wakho ukuba asebenze.
Kukho iinkalo ezininzi ekufuneka ziqwalaselwe xa kuziwa kumalungiselelo okuphila emva kokuphazamiseka. Kukho nenani lezinketho zokuqwalasela ngokubhekiselele kwiindawo zokuvuselela.
Kuqhelekile ukuba umzali athukuthele aze azikhusele xa abantwana bakhe bethetha ukuba bathuthele kwiimeko ezizimeleyo. Ukuba isigwebo sakho sitsho ukuba umzali wakho kufuneka ahambe, ungamangalisi ukuba umzali wakho unempendulo. Esi sigqibo kunye nenkqubo ehambelanayo yenye yeyona mingeni ebalulekileyo yendima yakho njengendodana okanye intombi yomntu osindayo.
Abanyulwa kwizonyango
Ukuba uhlala kude nomzali wakho, unganakho ukuya kumanyanisiweyo okonyango lomzali wakho. Kungathi ngathi izinto ziya kuba lula kakhulu ukuba unokuxelela nje ugqirha into oye wambona kwaye uyiva izimvo kunye neengcebiso zogqirha.
Nangona kunjalo, ngenxa yemigaqo ye-HIPPA, ubumfihlo bakho bomzali njengesigulane sonyango lukhuselekile, kwaye awunawo amalungelo okufikelela kwiirekhodi zonyango lomzali okanye ukufumana ulwazi kwiqela lonyango lomzali ngaphandle kokuba ufumene igunya lokubhalwa ngumzali wakho.
Wonke umntu osindayo ulwa nesimo sengqondo kunye nesigqibo esimalunga nolwazi oluninzi lwezokwelapha afuna ukwabelana ngalo nokuba ngaba abantwana abadala kunye neentombi kufuneka banikwe imvume yokungena kwiirekhodi zonyango. Abanye abasindileyo besifo bafuna abantwana babo abadala ukuba bave ulwazi oluvela ngqo kugqirha baze 'baguqulele' kwiintetho zomhlaba, ngelixa abanye bekulinda ngokulondoloza ulwazi lwabo lwezempilo kubantwana babo abadala.
Abazali bakho banokuthi bawele kwindawo ephakathi kwezi zimbini kwaye mhlawumbi baya kukunika ulwazi oluthile, kodwa akusiyo yonke into. Ingqiqo enhle ukuba ufikelele ugqirha womzali wakho ngokuchanekileyo ukuba unomdla okwenene malunga nomsebenzi wakho wokwenza izigqibo, ukhuseleko kunye nokukwazi ukuqonda nokulandela ngokufanelekileyo imiyalelo yonyango.
Imigaqo
Imimiselo yomzali wakho ibalulekile. Xa ude kude, unako ukukwazi ukuqinisekisa ukuba unyoko okanye utata uyazalisa imiyalelo njengoko ihleliwe. Ukuba awucingi ukuba umama okanye utata wakho uya kufumana iyeza kwixesha, kunokukunceda ukuba ubhalise abazali bakho kwinkqubo yokuhambisa okanye ubuncinane uhlobo lwenkqubo yokukhumbuza.
Xa kuziwa ekuthabheni iyeza elicwangcisiweyo ekhaya, kulula ukuba umzali wakho akhohlwe ukuthatha iipilisi njengoko kulandelwe. Amachiza ayenokubangela ukuba kube neempembelelo ezinzulu xa kuthathwa ngokungalunganga. Kukho inani leepilisi zokubala kunye neepilisi zokuncedisa umama okanye utata wakho ukugcina iipilisi. Kwaye ezinye iinkonzo zinokukunceda ukubeka iipilisi kwiibhodi zeepilisi zomzali wakho.
Enye into ebalulekileyo ongayenza nomzali wakho kukuba wenze isicwangciso ngokufanelekileyo ukuze umzali wakho ayazi ukuba wenzeni xa ekhumbula ipilisi. Umzekelo, ukuba umzali wakho ubalekele ukuthatha iipilisi ezithile ngosuku, akafanele athathe enye eyongezelelweyo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ngamanye amayeza, kubalulekile 'ukubamba' kwiimilinganiselo ezingekho phantsi. Ugqirha womzali wakho okanye umkhemistiki unokuyipela le ngaphambi kwakho kunye nomzali wakho, onokukunceda ukuphepha uxinzelelo kunye nokukhahlela iimpendulo emva koko.
Ukutya
Emva kweminyaka yomzali wakho ekutsheleni ukuba uyidle impilo, emva kokuba umzali wakho enesihlungu, unokuba nguye oxhalabileyo malunga nokuba umzali wakho udla ngokuphilileyo. Ininzi yexesha, emva kokuphazamiseka, ukukhathazeka okukhulu kunesondlo kubandakanya ukulahleka kwesidlo kunye nokungabikho kwamanyathelo okufumana ukutya.
Ukuba uhlala kude, unokulungiselela ukuba umhlobo a tyelele umzali wakho ukuhambisa ukutya okunempilo. Unokulungiselela ukuba unikezelo lweenkonzo zokuhambisa ukutya okanye ukhethe izitya ezilungiselelwe abazali bakho ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nokudla kwekharori yomzali wakho.
ZeMali
Ukuba ngaba umzali wakho engayithobeli ingqalelo kwiinkcukacha okanye mhlawumbi akakwazi ukuhlala phezulu kwimiba yezemali kunye neebhili, unokufuna ukuba ungene. Mhlawumbi ukwenza ezinye iindleko kwaye uzibekelele kwizaziso ze-imeyile kunokukunceda ukukhawuleza i-gap ekunyeleni komzali wakho kwimicimbi yezemali.
Abanye abazali baba yimiba yezinto eziphathekayo ngemali, echaphazelekayo ukuba abantwana abadala baya kudala 'bazuze' imali. Njengendlela yokuqinisekisa umzali wakho, unokwenza inkqubo evumela ukuba ufumane izilumkiso kwaye uhlawule iibhilidi ukuba ziphelile, kodwa ukuba 'ungathathi' nantoni kwiakhawunti yomzali wakho.
Imiba Yokunakekela
Umnakekeli wakho unina okanye umzali unokuba ngumlingane womzali wakho, umntakwabo okanye esinye isihlobo. Nangona iyakunika iqondo lokukhulula xa umntu othembekileyo enakekela umzali wakho, kubalulekile ukuqwalasela umthwalo womncedisi.
Kukho iindlela ezininzi onokufikelela kuzo kubazali okanye umnakekeli womama. Unokuqwalasela ingxoxo yevidiyo, i-imeyile okanye imidiya yoluntu njengendlela yokuncedisa ukunyaniseka komncedisi kwaye unikele ngenkxaso kwaye uqhube incoko.
Ukuthathwa Ngenzuzo
Ewe, ukuba umzali wakho akagcinwa rhoqo ngonxulumana nesithembekileyo, unokukhathazeka ngokunyaniseka kwabantu abanyamekelayo umzali wakho. Indlela efanelekileyo kakhulu yokujongana nalokhu kukuhlakulela ubudlelwane obuhambelanayo nabantu abaninzi abakho kwimpilo yomzali wakho ngokusemandleni ukuze bonke bazive bekulungele ukudibanisa nawe nayiphi na inkxalabo. Kwaye ukuba uyaphawula nayiphi na into enokukrokra, kukunceda ukuba ufumane unxibelelwano okhulile ukuba uthembele ukuba unako ukufikelela kuwo.
Impilo Yengqondo
Ukudandatheka kunye nokuzihlukanisa yiengxaki zangempela eziphuhliswa emva kokubetha. Ukuxubusha ngokutsha ngeziphumo eziqhelekileyo kunokuncedisa ukunyaniseka kwabazali bakho. Incoko malunga namanyathelo okuthintela kunye nesicwangciso sendlela yokufikelela kwiingcali zonyango ukujongana nokudakumba xa kuvela indlela efanelekileyo yokunciphisa ubunzima nefuthe lokudakumba.
Iinguqu zokuziphatha
Ukuba uhlala kude, usenokuba yinxalenye yobomi bomzali wakho kwaye ujonge ngokucophelela utshintsho lokuziphatha ngaphambi kokuba abe yingozi.
Ukuxoxa ngeVidiyo yindlela engcono yokufumana isibambiso ekuphatheni ngaphandle kweefowuni okanye iifayile okanye i-imeyile. Ukuqhagamshelana rhoqo nabantu ebomini okanye ootata ubomi bakho kunokukwenza abo bantu bakuthembele kwaye bazive bekhululekile ukufikelela kuwe xa izinto zivela. Uninzi lweenguqu zokuziphatha oluchaphazelekayo lubandakanya ukungabi nangovelwano , umona ongenangqiqo kunye nomoya ongcolileyo . Ezi zinguqu zinokuchaphazela ulwalamano lwemihla ngemihla ngendlela eninzi ukuba ngabahlobo kunye nosapho bathabatha utshintsho lomuntu ngokwabo kunokuba baqonde ukuba ezi tshintsho zibangelwa yi-stroke.
ILizwi
Ukuba ungekho umzali oye waba nesifo, unokufumana uxinzelelo olukhulu kwaye uzive unetyala kwaye ungancedi malunga nendlela yokunceda umzali wakho. Nangona kunjalo, unokuba yinxalenye yomvuzo womzali wakho xa uhlala kude.
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