Emva kokusindiswa kwesifo, umntu osindayo angasayi kuba novelwano kwabanye. Imfesane yikhono lokubona izinto ezivela kumntu womnye umntu. Uvelwano lubaluleke ngakumbi xa kuziwa ekuqondeni indlela omnye umntu ozivakalelwa ngayo. Xa umntu engabi nabubele, uhlala ephethe izinto ngokungenakukhathazeka kwabanye, kwaye oku kwenza abanye bacaphuke.
Ngoko ukungabi nangovelwano kunokuba nemiphumo emibi kakhulu xa kuthelekelana nolwalamano oluthile. Ekubeni ezininzi zokusebenzisana kwethu nabanye kuxhomekeke ekugcineni ubudlelwane obaneleyo, ukungabi nangovelwano kuyinto ebalulekileyo. Xa ukubetha kubangela umntu ukuba alahlekelwe olu buchule obubalulekileyo bokuba novelwano, luchaphazela ukusinda komzimba kwaye wonke umntu adibana nawo, ngokukodwa amalungu omtshato osondeleyo.
Luhlobo Luni Lwe-Stroke Ebangelwa Ukungabi Nesihe?
Hayi yonke imivimbo eyenza ukulahlekelwa nguvelwano. I-stroke ingaba ngumcimbi owonakalisayo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha unokwenza ukuba umntu osindileyo osisigxina ahlale egxilile kuye kwaye engagxininisekanga kwabanye ngexesha elithile. Kodwa, emva kokulungiswa kwexesha emva kwesigxina, umntu osindayo uya kubuyela emva kokuba abe novelwano kunye novelwano njengoko wayekho ngaphambi kokubetha-ngaphandle kokuba abe nesifo esibuhlungu kwindawo yengqondo elawula uvelwano.
Ngokubanzi, ukulimala ngakwesokunene kwengqondo kunokwenzeka ukuba kuthintele uvelwano ngaphezu kokulimala kwicala lasekhohlo lobuchopho.
Ngabantu abanesandla sokunene, icala langasekhohlo lokulawula iilwimi kunye nabantu abasesigxina, icala elifanelekileyo leengqondo okanye kwicala lasekhohlo lobuchopho lingakwazi ukulawula ulwimi. Ngoko ingaba usaphila uhlangothi oluya kulwa necala, uya kuba neliphulo kulwimi kuxhomekeke ekubeni uye washiywa okanye wanikwa ilungelo. Kodwa akucaci ukuba ukunikezelwa kuthatha icala kwicala elilawula uvelwano.
Imimandla yengqondo eyona nto ingabangela ukusilela kwintembeko yile ye-correx ye-prefrontal efanelekileyo, i-insula efanelekileyo, kunye ne-gyrus yexesha elifanelekileyo. Ezi ndawo zixhomekeke kwiimvakalelo, imemori, nokulawula ukuziphatha. Ubuchwepheshe obutsha buye benza ukuba kube lula ukufumana kwaye zichonge le mimandla njengengaphantsi kwentsholongwane yabantu abangenalo uvelwano. Yonke le nkcazelo esitsha efunyenwe ngokufunda abaxhamli bezilonda zinokuba luncedo kwixesha elizayo ngokubhekiselele ekuqondeni kangcono iimeko ezifana ne-Asperger kunye ne-autism, ebonakalayo, ngokwengxenye, ngokungabi nangovelwano.
Yintoni enokuyenza ngokulahlekelwa nguvelwano
Abantu abangenako uvelwano bafumana ngokungaziveleli iimvakalelo zabanye, abantu bangenakucingca okanye bangenangqondo. Okumangalisa kukuba, abantu abonakalisa ukuziphatha okunjalo-ukubeka imbeko ngenxa yokukhathazeka kwengqondo abanokukhubazeka bahlala benqatshwa ngabantu abakuzungezile kuba nokuba 'abaqhelekileyo' ngabanye abavumi ukuvelana novelwano. Oku kukukhokelela ekuzihlaleni koluntu kunye nenkathazo yokufikelela kwabanye ekuxhaseni. Umncedi (ngokuqhelekileyo umlingane okanye umntwana okhulileyo) unokuziva ecinezelekile kwaye angayithandabuzeki ngumntu osindayo ongenakuziva.
Abaxhasi kunye nabathandekayo banokuba nzima ukujamelana nokuziphatha okudidekileyo ngaphandle kokuqonda ukuba kutheni intsholongwane isifo 'sithetha.'
Ukunciphisa ukungabikho kovelwano kunzima. Abantu abaninzi banamaqondo aphantsi avelwano, ukuqala, kwaye lukhuba okunzima kakhulu ukunqoba, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuphucula. Enye yemingeni xa kufikeleleka kwenzakalo 'yendawo yentsilelo' emva kokuphazamiseka kukuba inxalenye efanayo ye-Lobe yangaphambili elawula uvelwano nayo ikhona kufuphi nommandla wengqondo elawula ukukwazi komntu ukuqonda isifo sakhe . Ngoko umntu osindayo onokungaqondi udla ngokungaqondi kakuhle ukuba unesifo, kwaye ke akunakwenzeka ukuba enze umgudu wokuphucula ingxaki.
Ukucebisa kunganika isicatshulwa sengqiqo kubantu abanonophelo kunye nabasindayo abathile. Ulwaphulo lwezonyango luya kunika izikhokelo ezifanelekileyo kwizigulane kunye nabanonophelo. Ngokomzekelo, iindlela ezilula zokuthetha ngokucacileyo kwaye ngokuchanekileyo kunokuthintela ukungaqondani.
Izindlela eziqhelekileyo zokuzibuza rhoqo ngeemvakalelo zabantu zingabangela ukuba ulwalamano olungcono kunokuba luye lugxininise ngokupheleleyo le sifundo. Iimvavanyo ezilungiselelwe ukubiza iimvakalelo zabantu kunye nezimpendulo ezifanelekileyo kuloo mvakalelo zinokukunceda ukuvuselela ezinye izakhono ezilahlekileyo xa isithintelo sichaphazela i-corrox ye-prefrontal efanelekileyo. Oku kunokukunceda ukukhulula ezinye iintlalo, ubudlelwane kunye nemiphumo ehambelana nomsebenzi evela kuba namaqondo aphantsi avelwano.
Imithombo
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