Umva wokuzihlaziya uphezulu kwaye ufuna amandla amaninzi engqondo kunokuba abaninzi bethu bayaziqonda. Enyanisweni, ngamanye amaxesha izibetha zidibene nokuhla okanye ukulahlekelwa ngumntu osindileyo esichengeni.
Kodwa, kuvela ukuba akuyiyo yonke imivimbo echaphazela ithambo lomntu, kwaye abaphandi bezonyango baqala ukufumanisa ukuba zeziphi iingqondo zobuchopho ziba nefuthe ekuhlaziyeni kwaye zeziphi iintlobo zesifo sengqondo ezichaphazela umonakalo womntu.
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Okuthakazelisayo, amahlaya athetha ngokuphindaphindiweyo okuphindwe kabini kunye neempondo, okokuqala, kubonakala sengathi kuhambelana nolwimi. Phantse i-90% yabantu bonke emhlabeni banamalungelo kwaye abantu abanamalungelo amaninzi banendawo yabo yomsebenzi weelwimi ekhoyo kwi-parietal ne- left looral temporal yengqondo .
Kodwa i-humor ilawulwa kakhulu yi-lobe yangaphambili yeengqondo, ngokubhekiselele kwicala lolwimi. Oku kuthetha ukuba ukuhlaziywa yizakhono ezibandakanya izakhono zobuchopho ezahlukeneyo ngaphaya kokuqonda okuqhelekileyo okuthethwa ngamazwi kunye neempondo.
I-Stroke Impact kwi-Humor
Ukuphazamiseka kunokutshintsha ubuntu bomntu osindileyo, kwaye enye yeendlela ezifihlakeleyo zokuguqula ubuntu kukunciphisa ukuhlaziya. Umntu osindayo kunye nabathandekayo abanokungaqondi ukuba ukubetha kubangelwa yenguqu yenguqu, ngokusoloko ibeka iliso kwezinye iimeko, ezifana nokuguga.
Uphando kwiYunivesithi yaseToronto eCanada liqhathanise amavolontiya asebekhulile asempilweni kunye nezigulane ezalimala kwi-lobe yangaphambili. Kwaye kwenzeka ukuba amavolontiya aqhelekileyo asebekhulile azuze ngcono kwiimilinganiselo zokuqonda ukuhlaziya kunabantu ababenobungozi kwi-lobe yangaphambili yengqondo.
Oku kuqinisekisa iziphumo zezinye izifundo ezininzi ezibonisa ukuba ukuguga okuqhelekileyo akuhambelani nokuhla kwezinto zokuhlaziywa kwabantu.
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Ukuzihlaziya kwakho kubandakanya ukukwazi kwakho ukuvelisa amahlaya amahlaziyi okanye ukuthabatha imizimba yomzimba kunye nokukwazi kwakho ukubambelela kunye nokuqonda amahlaya kunye nokuhleka kwehleko 'okuhlekisayo' xa abanye abantu benza amahlaya. Ingqiqo eqinileyo yokuzihlaziya iye yadibaniswa nobunzulu obuphezulu kuba ifuna ukukwazi ukukhawuleza ukubona ukufana kunye neengqungquthela ezifihlakeleyo.
Umkhwa wokubonakalisa uhlaziyilo ngokwenza abanye abantu bahlekise badibana nezinga eliphezulu lokuzithemba. Kuthatha ukuzithemba ukuthetha ihlaya ngokuvakalayo okanye ukwenza isenzo esingenangqondo kuba wonke umntu owenza intloni ubeka umngcipheko wokugatywa ngabanye abangenakuvuma ukuba ihlaya lihlekisayo.
Ukuba nolwaphulo kunceda abantu baqonde abanye amahlaya abo kwaye banceda abantu abanxulumene kwiimeko zoluntu. Nangona abantu abangasichitha ixesha elide kunye beva uhlazo olufanayo kumboniso wethelevishini, kunokunceda ukwakha uxhulumaniso phakathi kwabantu xa babelana ngesithethe esifanayo, nokuba i-joke ayibalulekanga.
Ngoko ukuhlaziywa kukuxhamla kwentlalo nangokomzwelo, ngethuba, unokuphazanyiswa ezinye iintlobo zesifo.
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Intsapho kunye nabahlobo banokudanisa xa babona ukuba umntu othanda ukutshintsha ngokukhawuleza emva kokuba ahlaselwe. Ukuba uhlangabezana nomoya wakho wokulahleka xa umhlobo wakho elahlekelwe yimvakalelo, kubalulekile ukuba uchaze kakuhle umhlobo wakho ukuba uyazi ukuba kutheni utshintshile kwaye uyakuphepha ukukulindela okuphezulu xa kufike ekuphumeni.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, utshintsho lomntu emva kokubetha akusilo lonke ixesha, kwaye unokubona ubuncinci benkqubela okanye mhlawumbi uphuculo olubalulekileyo ngaphezu kwexesha.
Ukugcina ubudlelwane obuhle kunye nobungqina bomoya kubalulekile kwi-stroke recovery, ngokukodwa xa kuziwa kwimeko yesimo sengqondo kunye nobuntu.
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> Ukuhlolisisa iinjongo kunye nenjongo yokuthetha emva kwesilonda sokunene, i-Cheang HS, i-Pell MD, i-Clin Linguist i-Phon. 2006 uAgasti; 20 (6): 447-62.
> I-Neural correlates yokuhleka nokuhleka, i-Wild B, i-Rodden FA, i-Grodd W, i-Ruch W, i-Brain, ngoOktobha 2003
> I-neural basis of processing humour, i-Vrticka P, i-JM yase-Black, i-Reiss AL, i-Reiss AL, i-Reiss AL