Emva kokulahlekelwa imfazwe nomhlaza wekoloni, iintsuku zokugqibela zobomi ziya kuba zihluke kubo bonke abantu. Kwabanye bethu, isiphelo singafika ngokukhawuleza, okanye singakwazi ukuhlala ixesha elide. Siya kufa ngamnye njengomntu njengoko siphila. Nangona kunjalo, kukho ezinye iimpawu ezihambelana nokuphela kobomi kwaye zinokulindeleke ukuba zithuthuzele. Ukuba ukhetha, unokuxoxa ngenyameko yokunyamekela okanye ukulalana ne-hospice udibane nodokotela wakho omthandayo-aba baqeqeshiweyo baqeqeshwa ukuba balindele kwaye banikeze ukukhululeka kweempawu ngexesha lokugqibela lobomi kwaye bangenza umehluko kwiintsuku kunye neeyure zokugqibela.
Ubuhlungu
Enye yezona zinto eziphambili zokubandezeleka kukufa . Ukuba umntu obathandayo ufa ngenxa yomdlavuza wekoloni, banokuthi basasaze i- metastasis- okanye ukusasazeka komhlaza ngaphandle kwekoloni yabo kwezinye izitho kunye ne-lymph node, kunye neendumbu kunye neenxa zonke zazo. Ubunzima obulindelekileyo kunye nama-narcotics okanye i-opioid narcotics, okanye amayeza enhlungu kakhulu, aqhelekileyo alawulwa. Ukuba umhlobo wakho akakwazi ukugulisa amayeza ngeli nqanaba, amalungiselelo athile anokuyalelwa kwaye anikezwe ngokucatshulwa (ngaphantsi kolwimi) okanye ngokusemthethweni (njengento yokukhupha).
Abantu abaninzi bacela ukuba baxelele ukuba umntu unentlungu xa belele, njengabantu abaninzi bafikelela ekupheleni kobomi. Ngaphandle kokuphumla, kukho imiqondiso engathandekiyo abathandayo abanokuyilinda ukuba ba ndakanye:
- Ukuqhaqhaqhaqhaza nokukrakra
- Ukukhawuleza ukuphefumula
- Ukuhamba kweFidgety yeengalo, imilenze kunye neenyawo
Qiniseka ukuba ukhangele indawo endiyithandayo ngaphambi kokuba ucinge ukuba zintlungu.
Ngokomzekelo, kunokubakho izizathu ezilula zale miqondiso yokungahambi kahle, njengemigqoko yokulala emanzi okanye i-fever evolving.
Gcwalisa u ku rhoxiswa
Nangona ungabona le nkcazelo ye-wax kwaye uhamba ngeveki ngaphambi kokuphela kobomi, abaninzi abantu bangena elele okanye ephantse efana ne-state kwiintsuku kunye neeyure ezandulela ukufa .
Oku akukhethiyo ngokuzithandela-umthandayo wakho akakunaki. Ngokufanayo, oku kuhoxiswa akukona nomphumo wamachiza anikezelwa ngenduduzo, njengamalungu amaninzi entsapho ayamoyika ngephutha. Akuqondi kakuhle ukuba kutheni sikhoxisa, kodwa kucingwa ukuba kudibanisa ukuphelelwa ngumzimba nokugula kwengqondo ekulwa nokugula.
Utshintsho lokuPhepha
Utshintsho kwindlela othandayo ophefumula ngayo ingabonakalisa ukuba isiphelo sobomi sisondela. Ukuba uqala ukubona iiphambanweni phakathi kwendawo yokuphefumula okanye ukuva ingxolo ezwakalayo, eyaziwa nangokuthi ukufa , intanda yakho inokuthi ifikelele kwiiyure zokudlulela. Ukuze umenze ukhululeke ngakumbi, zama ukuphakamisa intloko yebhedi yakhe kwaye unganiki nawuphi na umbane kule ndawo. Amanzi ayeza kudibanisa kwi-saliva ehlanganiswe emva emqaleni kwaye ukwandise isandi sokutshitshisa-okukuthi, ngendlela, kubonakala kungabikho ukukhathazeka kumntu wakho othandekayo (ngokunjalo, unganikeli umbane kumntu ongaphenduliyo wena phantsi kweemeko). Isandi siyabandezela kumalungu entsapho ngenxa yoko kuthetha oko, kodwa akukukhathazi intanda yakho.
Ukuxhalaza nokudideka
Izimpawu ezicelomngeni ekupheleni kobomi kunokuquka ixesha lokudideka, ukuphazamiseka, kunye neengcamango .
Umthandana wakho unokubona iinambuzane egumbini, iingelosi, okanye nabantu ongenakuboni. Akunakuqatshelwa okanye umthandi wakho angabonakala ekhungathekile kwaye ngaphandle kweendlela ezingekho isizathu esicacileyo. Kukho amayeza anokunceda ukuzola nokunciphisa le mpawu, kunye neendlela zokungaqhubeki. Kungcono ukuba ungabambisani nomntu oyithandayo-uzama ukuzola, ukuqinisekiswa ngokunyanisekileyo, ngakumbi ukuba umbono lowo uyothusayo.
Rally
Akuyena wonke umntu oza kuba nama-rally ekupheleni kobomi, kodwa ukuba bayakwenza, kunokudideka kwintsapho. Ngexesha lomhlangano, abantu abaninzi bahlakulela ixesha lokucacisa okupheleleyo, ukuphaphazela, kwaye banokucela ukutya emva kokuyeka (kungekhona ngenjongo) iintsuku.
Amanye amalungu entsapho anokubona oku njengophawu lokuthembela ukuba umthandi wabo uphucula apho, ngokwenene, sisisipho sokugqibela. Asazi ukuba kutheni abanye abantu beva oku kunye nabanye abantu-kodwa mna ndibonele ngumbono wokugqibela ukuya kwiintsuku ezimbalwa okanye ube mfutshane njengomzuzu okanye ezimbini phambi kokufa.
Imithombo:
American Cancer Society. (nd). Xa ukufa ku kufuphi.
INational Cancer Institute. (nd). Imihla yokugqibela yoBomi.