Indlela yokuyiqonda xa umntu wakho othandekayo efa
Inkqubo yokufa ihlala iqala kakuhle ngaphambi kokuba ukufa kuvele, kwaye ukuqonda le nqubo ngezinye iimeko kunokukunceda ukuba uqaphele xa umhlobo wakho efa. Kukho utshintsho olwenzekayo ngokwenyama, ngokuziphatha, nangokwengqondo kwindlela eya ekufeni, ezibonakalisa ukuba ukuphela kobomi kunokusondela.
Ukufa uhambo lomntu ngamnye umntu oza ngendlela yakhe ekhethekileyo.
Akukho nto ikhonkrithi, kwaye akukho nto ifakwe kwisitye. Kukho iindlela ezininzi ezinokuthatha kulolu hambo kodwa zonke zikhokelela kwindawo enye. Kwenzeka ntoni ekuhambeni kokufa, ukuqala enye ukuya kwiinyanga ezintathu ngaphambi kokufa, kwiiveki ezimbini zokugqibela ngaphambi kokufa, kunye neentsuku ezimbalwa zokugqibela zobomi? Kule nkqubela, ungazi njani xa umhlobo wakho efa?
Inkqubo yokuDala
Njengokuba umntu esondela kufuphi nokufa, inkqubo yokufa iqala; uhambo oluvela ebomini obuwayo beli hlabathi ukuya kwizinto ezingaziwa kwizinto ezizayo. Njengoko le nkqubo iqala, umntu uqala kwindlela yengqondo yokufumanisa, eqonda ukuba ukufa kuya kwenzeka ngokwenene kwaye bakholelwe ekufeni kwabo. Olu hambo luya kukhokelela ekuhambeni komzimba.
Kukho iindwendwe kule ndlela. Ngenxa yokuba wonke umntu uhlangabezana nokufa ngendlela yabo ekhethekileyo, kungekhona wonke umntu uya kumisa kwixesha elibalulekileyo. Abanye bangabetha kuphela ezimbalwa ngelixa elinye lingayima nganye, lichithe ixesha labo endleleni.
Abanye bangathabatha inyanga ukufikelela kwindawo yabo, abanye baya kuthatha iintsuku nje. Siza kuxubusha oko kufunyenwe ngophando ukuba lube luhambo oludlulileyo, uhlale ukhumbula ingqalelo ukuba uhambo luhambelana nomhambi ngamnye.
Uhambo luyaqala: enye ukuya kwiinyanga ezintathu ngaphambi kokufa
Inkqubo yokufa iqala ukubonakala kubantu abaninzi ngexesha eliphakathi kwenyanga neenyanga ezintathu ngaphambi kokufa.
Njengoko sixoxa ngale nguqulelo, sinokusebenzisa amagama athi "yena" okanye "yena," kodwa inkqubo iyafana ngokungakhathaliseki ukuba isini.Izizinto ezahlukeneyo.Abasetyhini banokukwazi ukuphinda bahlaziye ubomi babo baze bacinge ngokuzisola. kunokwenzeka ukuba uyeke ukuyeka, ungafuni ukubonakala ungenakunceda okanye uneswele.
Ukuziphatha kunye neengqondo zenguqu: Njengoko umntu eqala ukuvuma ukufa kwabo kwaye uyaqonda ukuba ukufa kusondela , bangase baqale ukuhoxisa kwiindawo ezikuzo. Baqala inkqubo yokwahlula kwihlabathi kunye nabakuyo. Umthandana wakho unokunciphisa ukuhambela kwabahlobo, abamelwane, kunye namalungu entsapho. Xa esamkela iindwendwe, kunokuba kunzima ukusebenzisana nokunyamekela . Eli lixesha apho umntu eqala ukucinga ngobomi bakhe aze aphinde abuyele enkumbulo ezindala. Xa ephonononga ubomi bakhe, unokuhlaziya ngokunye ukuzisola. Unako ukwenza imisebenzi emihlanu yokufa .
Utshintsho lomzimba: Umntu ofayo unokufumana unxiliseko oluncitshiswayo kunye nokulahleka kwesisindo njengoko umzimba uqala ukuthoba. Umzimba awudingi amandla ukusuka ekudleni okwenziwayo. Umntu osweleyo usenokulala ngoku kwaye akabandakanyeki kwimisebenzi ayeyidla. Akusekho isidlo sokutya.
Umzimba wenza into emangalisayo ngeli xesha njengoko i-chemistry yomzimba ishintshi ivelisa ukuthobeka kwengqondo. Abalambile okanye abanxanwe kwaye abahluphekanga nangayiphi indlela ngokungadli. Ingxenye ekulindelekileyo yohambo abaye baqala.
Elinye kwiiveki ezimbini ngaphambi kokufa
Inkqubo yokufa idla ngokukhawuleza ekugqibeleni ukuya kwiiveki ezimbini zobomi, kwaye inokuyikrakra intsapho. Ukutshintsha kwengqondo, ingakumbi, kunokuphazamisa amalungu entsapho. Ngeli nqanaba ohambweni, akucebisekanga ukuba "ulungele" wakho umthandayo xa ekuxelela into engenzi kakuhle. Mamela ngenyameko, kwaye umxhase kwiingcamango zakhe.
Ukuba uthe ubabone abathandekayo abafayo, makhe vumele akuxelele. Ngokuqinisekileyo asinayo indlela yokwazi ukuba ngaba ziyi-hallucinations, okanye ukuba abathandekayo bethu babone into esiyibonayo. Mthande nje.
Iinguqu zengqondo: Eli lixesha ngexesha lohambo uqala ukulala ixesha elininzi. Ukuphazamiseka kuyinto eqhelekileyo kwaye iguqulwe ingqondo yokujonga ingalindelwa. Omnye unokufumana ubuqhetseba, njengokwesaba izitha ezifihliweyo okanye ukuziva kungekhona.
Umntu ofayo unokufumana ama-hallucinations, ngamanye amaxesha abone okanye athethe nabantu abangekho. Amaxesha amaninzi aba bantu sele bafile. Abanye banokukubona oku njengokuba isigqubuthelo siphakanyiswa phakathi kobu bomi kunye nolandelayo. Umntu angakhetha kwiimakhishithi kunye nezambatho kwiimeko zokuphazamiseka. Iimpawu kunye nezenzo zinokubonakala zingenangqiqo kwaye zingabi ncamango kwabanye. Bahamba besuka ebomini kulo mhlaba.
Utshintsho lomzimba : Umzimba unzima kakhulu ukuzinzileyo, kwaye umhlobo wakho unokufuna uncedo malunga naluphi uhlobo lomsebenzi. Unokuba neengxaki zokugwinya amayeza okanye angenalo ukuthatha imichiza ebekiwe. Ukuba uye wasebenzisa iipilisi ngentlungu, unokufuna i-morphine yamanzi ngeli xesha. Kukho imiqondiso ukuba umzimba ungabonisa ngeli xesha:
- Ubushushu bomzimba buyancipha ngezinga okanye ngaphezulu.
- Uxinzelelo lwegazi lusehlisa.
- I-pulse iyaba yinto engafanelekanga kwaye inganciphisa okanye isantya.
- Kukhona ukunyuka kwengqondo.
- Umbala wesikhumba uguquka njengoko ukusasazwa kwancipha. Oku kudla ngokuphawulekayo emlonyeni nasemibhedeni yeethonkwane njengoko ziba zibala kwaye ziluhlaza.
- Ukutshintsha okutshatshayo kwenzeka, ngokukhawuleza kukukhawuleza kwaye kusebenze. Ukudibanisa kusenokwenzeka nokuba kubangele isandi kunye nokukhwehlela.
- Ukuthetha kuyancipha kwaye ekugqibeleni uyeke ngokupheleleyo.
- Iimitha zokuhlala zithule zingaphazanyiswa ngokuhamba ngokukhawuleza kweengalo zomntu okanye imilenze.
Ekupheleni kohambo: Iqabane leentsuku kwiiyure ngaphambi kokufa
Iintsuku ezimbalwa zokugqibela ngaphambi kokufa ngamanye amaxesha unomangaliswa ngamalungu entsapho. Umthandana wakho unokufumana amandla amaninzi njengoko esondela ekufeni. Unokufuna ukuphuma ebhedeni, ukuthetha nabathandekayo, okanye ukucela ukutya emva kweentsuku zesantya. Abanye abathandekayo bathabatha ukunyuka kwamandla ukuba abe ngumqondiso ukuba umntu uphucula, kwaye kuya kuba buhlungu xa amandla eshiya. Yazi ukuba oku kuqhelekileyo, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo ngumqondiso wokuba umntu uhamba ngokubhekiselele ekufeni, kunokuba akude. Olu hlobo lwamandla lunokuba luphawu olungaqondakali kangangoko kodwa luqhelekileyo lusetyenziswe njengomntu oswelekileyo wokubonakalisa umzimba ngaphambi kokuhamba.
Ukugqithisa kwamandla kudla ngokufutshane, kwaye iimpawu zangaphambili zivakaliswa ngakumbi xa ukufa kusondela. Ukuphuza kuya kuba nzima kwaye kudla ngokukhawuleza. "I-Cheyne-Stokes" ukuphefumla, ukuphefumula ngokukhawuleza okulandelwa ngamaxesha okungaphefumli nonke, inokwenzeka. Ukudibanisa kwindlela yokuhamba ngomoya kungandisa ukwanda okukhulu, ukuphefumla. Kwakhona, olu tshintsho lokuphefumula lunokuba lukhulu kakhulu kubantu abathandayo kodwa alubonakali lungathandeki kumntu ofa.
Izandla kunye neenyawo ezinokuthi ziyi-blotchy and purplish (i-mottled). Le ntshukumo ingase isebenzise ngokukhawuleza indlela yokuphakamisa iingalo nemilenze. Imilomo kunye nemibhede yepiyilethi ibomvu okanye imisonto kwaye imilomo inganciphisa. Umntu ngokuqhelekileyo akaphendulanga kwaye unokuba amehlo akhe avule okanye avulekileyo kodwa angaboni iindawo ezikuzo. Kukholelwa ngokubanzi ukuba ukuva kuyona ndlela yokugqibela ukuhamba ngoko kuyacetyiswa ukuba abathandekayo bahlale kunye bathethe nomntu othandekayo ofayo ngeli xesha.
Ekugqibeleni, ukuphefumla kuyaphela ngokupheleleyo kwaye intliziyo iyayeka. Ukufa kuye kwenzeka.
ILizwi Elivela Ekuzileni Xa Uthandekayo Wakho Ufa
Abantu abaninzi bayazibuza ukuba baya kuqonda ukuba umntu othandekayo uyafa, kwaye kukho impawu eziqala inyanga kwiinyanga ezintathu ngaphambi kokufa. Ukuqonda le miqondiso kungekhona nje kukunceda ulungiselele ukufa komntu osithandayo kodwa kunokukuthuthuzela njengoko ujamelana nalezi zinguqu zenyama kunye nengqondo. Ukuba umthandayo uhlala esibhedlele, umongikazi wakho wokubeletha, unontlalontle, okanye unqulo unokukunceda uqonde kwaye uqonde ezinye zeenguqu, kwaye kukuncede ukwazi ukuba kukunceda ntoni ukuxhasa umhlobo wakho othandekayo ngokusemandleni akho.
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