Yintoni ukufa? Ukuba ukhathalela umntu obathandayo kwiintsuku zokugqibela zobomi unokukhathazeka emva kokufunda malunga nokufa. Okanye, mhlawumbi unokuva ukuphefumula kokukrakra kwaye uzibuze ukuba kuthetha ukuthini. Makhe sithethe malunga nokufa kokuthini, nokuba kukukhathaza umntu ofa, indlela ekuchaphazela ngayo abathandekayo kunye nendlela yokuphathwa ngayo.
Inkcazo
Okuthiwa "ukufa ngokubhekiselele" kubhekisela kwisandi sokugcoba abantu abahlala besenza ngexesha lokufa . Xa abantu bengasakwazi ukugwinya okanye ukukhwehlela, umquba uyakhela emva emqaleni kwaye umoya womoya uqhube "umsindo" xa umoya uhamba. "Ukufa ngokufa" kwenzeka kwinqanaba elithile malunga nesiqingatha sabantu abafa, kuxhomekeke kwisifundo. Kubonakala ngathi yinto eqhelekileyo ngakumbi kubasetyhini kodwa mhlawumbi iyakubonakala kubantu abaluphi na ubudala ababulawa yiphina isizathu.
Izizathu
Ukufa okubakho kwenzeka ngenxa yokwakhiwa kwemfihlo yamanzi emva komphefumlo womntu ofayo. Xa izihlunu ebusweni, umphimbo, nesifuba ziba buthathaka kakhulu ukucima izifihla, zihlala emqaleni
Ngaba Akunakulungeleki?
Ngelixa ukufa komzimba kungenzima kakhulu ukuba amalungu omndeni aphulaphule, ngumcimbi oqhelekileyo wokuphela komsebenzi ongenakukhathazeka kwabo bafa .
Kungaba nzima ukukholelwa ukuba ukufa kwabantu akukhathazi ngomntu, ngakumbi xa kwenzeka kumntu ophapheme okanye owaziyo. Uphando lufumene ngokuphindaphindiweyo, nokuba kunjalo, ukuba ukufelwa kokufa akukhathazi Izifundo ziye zafumanisa ukuba abantu abafelwa ukufa xa befa abanalo nantlukwano kwintlungu yokuphefumula kunabo abangenakufa.
Ngokufanayo, ubunzima bokufa (ukuba lukhulu kangakanani kwaye alukhululekile) aluhambelani nomlinganiselo wokuphefumula okuphefumulayo umntu ofayo.
Ngokuchasene nomntu ofayo, nangona kunjalo, ukuxhwala kungabonwabi kakhulu kubathandekayo abakhoyo. Kwisifundo esisodwa, ubuncinane ama-66 ekhulwini abathandekayo bomntu ofayo bafumanisa ukuba ukuphulaphula ukufa kwintlungu kunzima kakhulu.
Ukuba amalungu entsapho axinekile, kukho imishanguzo engasetyenziselwa ukomisa ezinye izithintelo ezingaphezu kwezinto ezifaka isandla ekufeni. Kubalulekile ukuphinda uphinde uchaze ukuba uphando luye lwagqiba ukuba ukufa ngokufakela akuyona into enganelisiyo okanye eyethusa umntu ofa. Inxalenye eqhelekileyo neqhelekileyo yenkqubo yokufa, kwaye umthandayo akanakuvakalelwa kukuba unxiba xa ephefumula ngale ndlela. Ukongezelela, i-agents e-antiretecretory echazwe ukufa kwe-deathtle ayisoloko isinciphisa izandi. Ukuqaphela ukuba ukufa kuqhelekile kwaye akungakhathazeki mhlawumbi yonyango olungcono.
Ingaba ithetha ntoni?
Ukufa ngokubhekiselele kuthetha ukuba ukufa kusondele kakhulu kwaye umzimba uqale ukuvala.
Ngexesha elidlulileyo sicinga ngokufa "njengento eyenzekayo" ngoku sifunda ukuba ukufa kukusebenza-umzimba uhamba ngamanqanaba amaninzi kwenkqubo yokuvala. Ngokuqhelekileyo, xa kuvezwa ukufa komntu kubakho kwiiyure zokugqibela zobomi.
Ngaba Kukhona Unyango?
Ukuphulaphula ukufa kweentloba kungabonakali kakhulu kumalungu entsapho. Nangona uzixelele ukuba kuyinto eqhelekileyo kwaye ukuba ayikukhathazi kumthandekayo wakho, kunokusenza uzive uxhalabile. Ngokungafani nalowo ofa, akunakukhathazeka kwabo balapho. Ukuba ukufa kukubangela ukuba ungakhathazeki kukho izinto ezimbalwa ongazama ngazo:
- Amachiza okuMfihlo - Ukuba unesifo sokukhusela i- hospice uya kuqaphela ukuba kukho imithi yokomisa imfihlo engayinceda. Oku kudla ngokuba yi-atropine okanye i-scopolamine.
- Ukutshintsha isikhundla sakho somthandayo - Ngokuqhelekileyo ukugqithisa umthandwa wakho ngaphezu kwancinci kunokunciphisa i-rattle edlalwa kakhulu xa izigulane zilele zinyameko kumqolo wazo. Unokuzama ukuphakamisa intloko kwaye ujike kwelinye icala ukuze uncede ukucima izikhuseleko.
Kufuphi Ukufa?
Abantu abaninzi bayazibuza ukuba kuza kube nini kube sekufeni xa umntu ehlakulela ukufa. Ngelishwa, ihluka kakhulu kumntu kumntu okwenza kube nzima ukuqikelela oko kuthethwa ngokuthe ngqo. Unokuzibuza ukuba yini enye ongayilindela kwiinqanaba zokugqibela zokufa . Into ebizwa ngokuba yi- terminal engapheliyo iqhelekile ngeli xesha, kwaye wakho umthandayo unokubonakala engenakho ukuphumla. Kukho umqondo wokuqwashisa okukufutshane nokufa kwaye unokukuxelela ukuba uyafa. Abantu abaninzi ngeli xesha bathetha ngokubona abantu abathandekayo abafa ngaphambili, kwaye abanye abantu baqala ukumomotheka. Musa ukulungisa umhlobo wakho, mthande nje.
Yintoni Okufanele Uyazi?
Ukuba kunye nomthandayo xa befa kunzima kakhulu, kodwa yinto enothando kakhulu nabani na onokuyenza kumntu othandekayo. Xa abantu bethetha ngoloyiko lwabo olukhulu ebomini, ngokuqhelekileyo baya kufela bodwa. Ubukho bakho buyisipho esikhulu kunazo zonke ongasinika.
Kodwa nangona ukwazi oko, kubalulekile ukuba uzikhathalele. Wonke umntu udinga ukuphuka kanye emva kwexesha, kwaye kwimeko yokufa, oku kubaluleke kunanini ngaphambili.
Musa ukuthetha nomthandayo. Kucinga ukuba ukuphulaphula ukuphela kokuqonda, kwaye nangona ebonakala enyanzelisayo, unokucinga ukuba ukhona okanye uva oko utshoyo. Akudingeki ukuba uthethe nantoni na ngakumbi-vumela ukuba wazi ukuba ukhona. Abanye abantu bayesaba ukuba bathathe ixesha elilodwa ngenxa yokuba bayesaba ukuba wabo othandekayo uya kufa ngelixa ehamba. Ziyinyamekele njengoko wakho othandekayo enqwenela. Enyanisweni, kubonakala ngathi abanye abantu balinde umzuzwana xa abathandekayo babo bephuma ukuze bathathe ukuphefumula kwabo.
Ukulungiselela Ukufa
Ukufa kokufa kukuphela komgangatho wokufa owanceda ukuqonda ixesha elide ngaphambi kokuba lenzeke. Unokuba nomdla ekufundeni malunga nokulungiselela ukufa ekhaya lakho .
Eminye i-Spellings: i- death-rattle
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