Uvakatye umhlobo okanye isihlobo okanye bakuvakashele. Unomntwana onokumthanda okanye ofundela esikolweni.
Uyabona ukuba umntwana wabo ubonakala ephethe iimpawu ezingavamile - mhlawumbi ababe besathetha xa befanele ukuba, okanye bahlala bebaninzi abangenakunqwenela okanye baqhayisa . Okanye mhlawumbi ba thethayo, kodwa baqhubeka bethetha izinto ezifanayo ngokuphindaphindiweyo.
Okanye baxoxa nabo kwaye bengabandakanyeki nabanye abantu. Esikhundleni sokudlala kunye nemidlalo, bayayifakela okanye badibanise phantsi kungekho njongo ecacileyo.
Abazali bomntwana babonakala bengaboni nto yokuba umntwana wabo uhlukile. Basenokuze baveze indlela aziphatha ngayo "njengelungileyo," okanye "onokuqhayisa." Umama angathi into efana neyo "Ngaba akuyithandeki indlela uBilly amthanda ngayo ukubeka zonke iilori zakhe ezincineni ?"
Noko ke, uyazibuza ukuba "ngaba lo mntwana autistic? Ngaba abazali bakhe banokuba neenkcukacha? Ndimele ndithethe into?"
Into enokuyenza Ukuba umntu oMntwana ubonakala njenge-Autistic
Ngaphambi kokuthetha ilizwi kubazali bomntwana, nantsi eminye imibuzo ofuna ukuzibuza yona.
- Uyayiqonda kakuhle kakuhle intuthuko yabantwana? Abantwana abaselula bahlakulela kumaxabiso ahluke kakhulu. Umntu oqhelekileyo-okhulayo oneminyaka emithathu ubudala unokuba ngumlomo, uqeqesho lwamanzi , kwaye akwazi ukuchonga iinombolo kunye neeleta ngelixa elinye lisezinqwelweni kwaye lithetha ngezivakalisi ezimbini. Ngaphambi kokuba ucinge ukuba ubona umntwana onomngeni omkhulu, khangela ulwazi lwakho lwezinto ezibalulekileyo zophuhliso.
- Uyazi kakuhle umntwana? Ukuba ubona umntwana kanye okanye kabini ngonyaka, usenokubona kuphela inxalenye encinci yempembelelo yomntwana. Unokuba noxhala okanye unamahloni phakathi kwabangamaziyo, kodwa uxhaphaze kunye kunye neentsapho kunye nabahlobo. Ngaphambi kokuthetha nantoni malunga ne-autism, ucinga ngokuqokelela ulwazi oluthe xaxa "Ndiza kubheja uBobby uninzi xa uthetha ukuba bonke aba bantu bengabazi!"
- Uqonda kakuhle i-autism? Kukho ezininzi iingcinga kunye neengcamango eziphosakeleyo malunga ne-autism, oko kuthetha ukuba ungaphulaphula ukungqubana komntu okanye ukukhathazeka kwintlupheko enkulu yophuhliso. Abanye bahlakulela abantwana ngokuqhelekileyo banamahloni kumaqela amakhulu, kwaye abantwana abaninzi banomdla onzima kunye nabantu abatsha, ukutya okutsha, izandi ezivakalayo, kunye nokuphazamiseka kwiziqhelo.
- Ulwalamano lwakho nabazali bomntwana? Ukuba ungumntatomkhulu, udade, okanye umhlobo ongcono, unakho ukuphakamisa umba onzima. Emva koko, ngokuxhomekeke kubuhlobo bakho, unokwenza iimvakalelo ezibi kunye nomphumo omhle.
- Aba bazali bangasabela njani? Ukuba uyazi kakuhle abazali bomntwana, unokukwazi ukuxela impendulo yabo kwisiphakamiso sokuba into ethile ingalunganga. Ngaba baya kuphulaphula? Okanye ngaba baya kuphosa udonga baze baqale ukukubona njengengxaki ebomini babo?
- Yintoni ongayinika abazali xa ukucinga kwakho kuchanekile? Yinto enye yokuvula ibhokisi yePandora yokukhathazeka nokuxhalabisa. Enye into ekuncedeni abazali ukuba babhekane nesiphumo kunye nezixhobo, indlebe yokuphulaphula kunye nezinye izibonelelo. Ukuba ucinga nje ukuba "kukho into engalunganga kumntwana wakho" kwaye uhambahamba, kungenokuba ubulumko ukuba ungathethi nto.
Akulungele ukuhlala uxolo xa uziva kukho into ebalulekileyo ekuthethwa ngayo. Kodwa ukuba ungumntu ongafanelekanga uthetha ngexesha elingafanelekanga okanye ukuba ulwazi lwakho aluchanekanga ungabangela ingozi ngaphezu kokulungileyo.