Umntwana wakho okanye umntwana ongasesikolweni uhlakulela ngokuhlukileyo. Intetho yakhe ibambezelekile, unemilinganiselo engavumelekanga, kwaye uthanda ukwenza izinto ezifanayo ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Unenkinga enzima kunye neengxolo ezinkulu kwaye unobunzima bokusebenzisana nabalingane bakhe bodwa.
Ngaba u-autistic? Impendulo, ngokuqinisekileyo, mhlawumbi.
Ingoku ixesha elifanelekileyo lokucela ukuvavanywa kwinqanaba lomntwana ophuhliso okanye iqela lezonyango elinokuthi likhokele kwilebula ye "autism" ekhonjiweyo kwisifuba somntwana wakho ubomi bonke?
Impendulo yaloo mbuzo iza kuxhomekeka kumanani amaninzi.
Umdala Wakho Umntwana Wakho?
Abantwana abaqhelekileyo bakhula ngokwenene kumaxabiso ahlukeneyo. Inyaniso yokuba umntwana wakho ummelwane akanakucacisa ukuba uthetha umntwana wakho! Tshekisisa ngenyameko ukuba uqiniseke ukuba oko ukuqonda ukuba ukulibaziseka akukona okwenene ukuphuhliswa kokuqhelekileyo.
Ziyimpawu Zibaluleke Kangakanani Kubantwana Bakho?
Ukuxilongwa kwe- autism akunikezelwa lula. Izimpawu zomntwana kufuneka zonakalise kakhulu amandla abo okuthetha , zithathe inxaxheba kwimisebenzi eqhelekileyo, kwaye zidibanise noluntu. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukukhathazeka okukhulu malunga nokuphuhliswa komntwana akuveli kuphela kumbono womzali kodwa nakwabafundisi, oogqirha, osapho olongezelelweyo, kunye nabanye ababona izinto ezibalulekileyo. Ukuba ukungafani okona kukuncinci, okanye ukuba ugqirha wezilwanyana awuboni isizathu sokukhathazeka, unokufuna ukuthatha "indlela yokulinda".
Wena, Ngokomntu, Uziva Njani NgeTekisi?
Abanye abazali bacinga ukuba ukubiza umntwana ngokuthi "autistic" kuyinkathazo, kwaye ukhathazeke ukuba iilebula ezinjalo zingabangela ingozi ngaphezu kokulungileyo. Basenokuvakalelwa kukuba iilebula ibeka ingxaki kwiimeko ezahlukileyo - kwaye zifuna ukunqanda ukubhalisa ngokukhawuleza ukuba zinokwenzeka.
Abanye abazali banomuvo wokuthi iileyile iyisitye esincedo sokuqonda, ukujamelana nokufumana inkxaso. Ngokunika "ulwahluko" igama, bazive, banokuqhubeka phambili ukubonelela abantwana babo ngeenkonzo ezixhasayo, unyango kunye namathuba.
Ngaba Kunenzuzo Ye-Autism Diagnosis?
Ngokuxhomekeka apho uhlala khona, i-autism i-diagnostic ye-spectrum ingaba yindlela efanelekileyo kakhulu yokufumana iinkonzo eziyimfuneko kunye neyeza kunyango yakho. Kwezinye iindawo, kunjalo, ukuxilongwa kufikeleleke kwiinkalo ezimbalwa zorhulumente okanye zendawo. Enye i-inshorensi yempilo inikeza inkxaso-mali yabantwana KUPHELA xa bane-diagnostic autism; abanye banikezela ngeenkonzo nangakhathaliseki ukuba ukuxilongwa.
Ngaba Unokufikelela kwiinkxaso ezifanayo kunye neeNkonzo kunye okanye ngaphandle koxilongo?
Uninzi lwezonyango oluqhelekileyo olunikezwa ngumntwana onogesi lungatholakala ngaphandle kokuxilongwa - ukuba unayo ixesha, imali kunye nomnqweno. Ngokomzekelo, kusemgangathweni ukuba kuqeshwe ukuziphatha okanye uphuhliso lobugcisa ngasese, kwaye kuyafana nokufunda ukubonelela uluhlu lwezonyango. I-RDI , i-Floortime, i-SCERTS, kunye nezinye ezininzi zophando zophando oluqhelekileyo zihlala zibonelelwa ngabazali abanakho okanye abangenayo inkxaso. Ukusebenza kwintsebenzo, inkulumo, kunye nonyango lonyango lunokumiselwa yonyango lwakho lwezilwanyana ngokusekelwe kwiinkxalabo ezithile ezingakhange ziphakanyiswe kumgangatho we-autism.
Ziziphi iZikolo Zakho Zasekhaya kunye / okanye Iinkqubo Zokungenelela Ngethuba Lokuqala?
Kwiingcamango, izithili zesikolo kufuneka zinikezele inkxaso yezikole okanye zesikolo ngamnye kumntwana ngamnye ngamnye ngokusekelwe kwiimfuno zabo kunokuba baxilongwe. Ngokwenza, nangona kunjalo, le ndlela ayinakukwazi ukuyilawula. Ukuba uneqela labantwana abaneminyaka efanayo kunye ne-autism i-diagnostic spectrum, kuyaqondakala ukuba kuqeshwe utitshala ngamava kunye noqeqesho oluthile kubantwana abane-autism. Ukuba umntwana wakho unokufumana inzuzo eklasini elinjalo - kodwa akanalo ukuxilongwa kwe-autism - ngaba isithili sakho siyavuma ukubeka umntwana wakho kwimeko?