Ukubekwa kunye nezinye iindlela zokunyamekela abantwana abakhulu abakhubazekileyo
Kubazali abanabantwana abakhubazeke kakhulu, kunokubonakala ngathi akukho nanye inxaxheba kunokubeka umntwana wakho kwikhaya elinobuhlengikazi. Ngelishwa, amakhaya anamahlengikazi (okanye amaziko okunyamekela njengamaxesha amaninzi adluliselwa kuwo) ayenzelwe ngokukhethekileyo abantwana kunye nabaselula abasencinane kwaye baphakathi. Isimo esona sikhulu kukuba umntwana okanye umntu osemdala usekwe kwikhaya elikhulayo labahlengikazi ukuze banakekele unyango.
Yintoni eqhubeka icacile nangona kunjalo ukuba ikhaya elikhulile labahlengikazi alikho indawo yomntwana kunoma yiphina iminyaka, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ukhubazekile. Ngaphambi kokuba udimazeke kakhulu, makhe sixoxe ngamanye amanyathelo angcono anokufumaneka kubazali.
- Ukuzala umntwana onokukhubazeka
Ukufakwa kwiKhaya loMhlala-phantsi okanye kwiZiko loKhathalelo
Kutheni umzali onothando engambeka umntwana kwikhaya lokunyamekela? Ngokuqhelekileyo umzali akanakho ukhetho. Umntwana unokukhubazeka kangangokuthi umzali ufuna uncedo lomnye umntu, okanye umntwana udinga ukunakekelwa kweeyure ezingama-24. Umzali, ingakumbi ukuba bengenabanye inkxaso yentsapho, banokuyifumana imali kunye nempilo nzima okanye akunakwenzeka ukuba banakekele umntwana rhoqo. Abanye abantwana badinga unyango olufunekayo ukuba lulawulwe kwangaphakathi kwaye umntu ongazifundanga akakwazi ukubonelela olu hlobo lonyango. Ngamanye amaxesha, ukunakekelwa okufunekayo kumntwana okhubazekileyo kuphazamisa kakhulu umntu okwazi ukunyamekela abanye abantwana ekhaya.
Kule meko, ikhaya labahlengikazi linokubonakala ngathi lona khetho olukhoyo.
Iingxaki ngezindlu zoLondolozo lweNdabuko okanye iiNkonzo zokuNakekela
Indlu yonakekisayo inokunyamekela umntwana okhubazekileyo okanye umntu omdala osemdala, kodwa kukho imfuno ezininzi ezingagqithwanga xa umntwana efakwa kwikhaya lokunakekelwa kwabakhulileyo. Ikhaya elikhuselekileyo labadala kunye nabagulayo lijongene nokunyamekela izigulane zokugqibela.
Ikhaya elikhusela abantwana abakhulileyo alisoloko lijolise kwiimfuno zentlalo yoluntu osemtsha, okanye imfundo yabo. Ngamaxesha amaninzi ingqalelo kuphela umntwana eyayifumanayo ukunikezelwa kokutya, amayeza kunye nokuqwalasela iimfuno zokucoceka. Eminye ixesha bangasala bodwa.
Kubantwana abayaziyo indawo abahlala kuyo, ukuhlala kwikhaya lokunakekelwa ngumntwana kungabangela uxinzelelo kwaye kuphazamisekile. Akunabani othethayo, balahlekelwa ngabahlobo kunye nosapho babo, kwaye ngokugqithiseleyo bayaphuthelwa uthando kunye nenkathalo ababeyenayo ekhaya.
Amaziko oLondolozo lolutsha okanye iZiko lokuNakekela
Ikhaya lomntwana onomdla liqhutywa ngentswelo yomntu osemtsha engqondweni. Umntwana unako ukusebenzisana nabanye abantu bakhe ubudala, unako ukufumana iindwendwe, kwaye unokuba neendwendwe ngokuhlwa. Ukuqwalaselwa kunikezelwa ekusebenzisaneni kwezentlalo, ngokucwangciswa kwintsimi rhoqo. Ngokuxhomekeke ekukhubazekeni komntwana, iiklasi ezizodwa zemfundo zikhoyo, okanye iiklasi ezingakwazi ukufundisa isakhono somsebenzi ukuba umntwana unako. Ngokubanzi, ixesha elide lichithe ukondla umntwana, ngokwenyama, ngokomoya, nangokomzwelo, kunokuba ungayi kutholakala kwiziko lokugcina.
Ukuba ukhetha ukubeka umntwana wakho kwikhaya lononophala, unokuba nomoya odibeneyo.
Thatha umzuzwana ukuba ufunde ngendlela intsapho yakho inokujamelana ngayo nokudabuka, ityala, kunye nentlungu yeziko lokunyamekela .
Izinketho zabazali
Kukho intshukumo ekhulayo e-US nakwamanye amazwe ukuba unikeze ezinye iindlela zokunyamekela, ngaphandle kwekhaya lomhlengikazi okanye kwindlu yokunakekela abantwana, kubazali bezingane ezikhubazekile. Amakhaya omncedisa ulutsha kuphela. Olunye ukhetho lwangaphandle lwekhaya luyinkathalo yosuku. Izinketho zokunakekelwa kweso kwintlanganiso kwalabo abakhubazekileyo maxa wambi ngamanye ambalwa kwaye aphakathi. Indawo enokuqala ukukhangela iinqunto kukuqhagamshelana nezibhedlele zezingane zakho zendawo.
KwiNkxaso yoLondolozo lwaseKhaya okanye iNkxaso
Ezinye iinketho ziquka ukufumaneka kwezimali kunye neenkqubo ezibonelela ngononophelo lwentsikelelo kubantwana abakhubazekile.
Umzekelo, i-Children's Freedom Initiative yaseGeorgia ibambelela ekuncedeni abazali ekufumaneni uncedo abayidingayo ukuze banakekele abantwana abakhubazekile emakhaya abo. Injongo okanye umbutho "ukudala iGeorgia apho kungekho mntwana ohlala khona kwisibonelelo." Kuthemba ukuba amanye amazwe aya kulandela umzekelo wawo kwaye anciphise imfuno yokuba abantwana babekwe kwiindawo zokuqala.
Ukufumana inkxaso kwiNkxaso yeKhaya okanye kwiNkxaso yabantwana
Nangona amaninzi amazwe angenayo inkqubo njengendawo yaseGeorgia, kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuncedisa inkxaso kwi-home care okanye isikhungo sokunakekela ulutsha kumntwana wakho. Izinketho zokuxhaswa kwabazali ziphononongwa ngolu hlobo lulandelayo karhulumente kunye nee-arhente karhulumente, kunye nemibutho yokunceda eUnited States. Ezinye iindlela ongathanda ukuyihlola ziquka:
- IiNkonzo zeBantwana
- ISebe lezeMpilo kunye neNkonzo zoLuntu
- Inkqubo yoNgeniso loLwangaphambili
- I-Ofisi yokuLawula kwengqondo kunye nokukhubazeka kweNtliziyo
- I-Children Aid Aid (eNew York)
Ezinye iinkqubo zenkxaso-mali
Ezi zilandelayo ziminye yeemibutho ezininzi ezincedisayo ezixhasa ngemali ukunyamekela abantwana abakhubazekile:
- Ulawulo lwabantwana kunye neentsapho
- IsiKhwama seNkxaso yabantwana abakhubazekile
- Iimpawu zePasika
- I-Kaitlin Marie Bell Foundation
- I-Midwest Special Needs Trust
- INgxowa-mali kaMongameli weNgxowa yabantwana
- I-Fund yabantwana abakhubazekileyo
- Project MORGAN
- UnitedHealthcare Children's Foundation Inc.
Le yinto nje isampula kwezinye zeemibutho ezinika inkxaso ezikhoyo. Enye imibutho inikezela ngezibonelelo kunye nezibonelelo kwimimandla ethile yelizwe, kanti abanye banokunceda ngoncedo lonke.
Izinketho zokunakekela abantwana kwabantwana abakhubazekileyo
Ngamanye amaxesha abazali abadingi ukubekwa okanye bafumaneke ngoncedo lwasekhaya lokunyamekela abantwana babo. Kukho ukhetho oluninzi olukhoyo kule nanjalo. Funda malunga neendlela eziphezulu zokunakekela abantwana kubantwana abakhubazekileyo . Nazi ezinye iingcebiso kunye nokufumana umntwana wezingane ezinemfuno ezizodwa.
Ngaphantsi kweNkathalo yokuNakekela umntwana wakho ukhubazekile
Ukuba ucinga ngokunyamekela kwikhaya lokunakekelwa ngumntwana wakho ukhubazekile, unokuvakalelwa ngathi uphelile kwintambo yakho. Unokuziva unokwenyama nangokwemvakalelo ongenako ukunyamekela umntwana wakho, okanye endaweni yoko, unokuziva ngathi ukunyamekela umntwana wakho ukhubazekile okanye ukubeka abanye abantwana bakho engozini. Ukufika nje kweli nqanaba linyathelo elilukhuni.
Noko ke, kukho ezininzi iinketho ezikhoyo. Ukuba unomhlobo okanye usapho olukhoyo ukunceda, unokuba ufuna ukucela ukuba bancede uhlolisise ukhetho. Kungathatha umzamo omkhulu kwaye ube nzima ukukwenza njalo, kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha abaninzi abazali bayakhululeka ukuba batyala ixesha lokuba bafikelele kwaye bafumane iinketho ezikhoyo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi lomfanekiso, kukho imibutho emininzi enqwenela ukunceda abazali njengakho, kodwa awazi ukuba ungaphila ekukufumaneni.
Kungathatha ixesha elithile. Kuze kube yinto efanelekileyo kunye necacileyo kwindawo, ukufumana oko kukufunayo kungaba yinkqubo ende yokubetha okanye ukuphosakela kunye namanqanaba amathathu-phambili-amanyathelo angaphambili. Cinga malunga namaqela obawo. Ukuba usebenza kwintlangano yonqulo okanye icawa, kunokubakho abantu abanokukunceda wenze ukumbumba okuyimfuneko. Kukunjalo, nangona kunjalo, ukubuza imibuzo kwaye uqale inkqubo.
Nangona kungathatha ixesha, abazali abaninzi abanezingane ezikhubazekileyo baye bafumanisa inkxaso yenkathalo eyenziwe yintsapho yonke.
Imithombo:
Gibson, B., uKumkani, uG., Kingsnorth, S., noP. McKeever. 'Ukubekwa' kwabantu abanobunzima obukhulu kwiNkcazo yokuPhila: Iimpawu zokudala zeCandelo lokuCinga. BMC Medicine . 2014. 12:83.