Kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukukhathazeka ngempilo yengane yakho, ingakumbi ngexesha leminyaka eliselula. Xa ulutsha lufumana ukuzimela, awukwazi ukujonga yonke imisebenzi encinane. Kunoko, uya kufuneka enze izigqibo - ezininzi ezinokuchaphazela impilo yakhe-eyedwa.
Ngoko kubalulekile ukuba abazali bazi ngeyona nto inobungozi bempilo yabantwana abajongene nayo. Emva koko, gxininisa ekuqinisekiseni ukuba umntwana wakho unolwazi kwaye uxhotyiswe kangcono ukwenza ukhetho oluhle.
Gxininisa kwimingcipheko yempilo echaphazela ubomi bakhe bonke.
1. Iingozi
Izingozi zeemoto ziyimbangela ebangela ukufa kwabantwana abase-US Amagumbi okuLawula nokuThengisa izifo ukuba i-7 eneminyaka ephakathi kweminyaka eyi-16 no-19 ifa imihla ngemihla ngenxa yokulimala kweemoto kwaye ngaphezulu iphathwa ngamagumbi aphuthumayo imihla ngemihla nzakala. Abantwana abaneminyaka eli-16 ukuya kwe-19 banomngcipheko omkhulu wokufa okanye ukulimala kwingozi yemoto kunanoma yiphi enye iqela leminyaka.
Ngaphambi kokuba umntwana wakho athathe emva kwesondo - okanye abe ngumgibeli ongumqhubi weselula - kubalulekile ukuqonda izingozi ezinkulu ezikhokelela ekuphazamiseni imoto yeselula. Zifundise malunga nemingcipheko yangempela uze uthethe kwintombazana malunga nabo. Yakha isicwangciso ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho uya kukhuseleka emva kwesondo kwaye uya kunciphisa ingozi yengozi.
2. Ubundlobongela
Ubundlobongela buya kwesibini kwimingcipheko yempilo yakho yintsholongwane, njengokuba abantu abaneminyaka engama-16 000 abaneminyaka engama-12 ukuya kwe-19 e-US bafa ngonyaka ngenxa yobundlobongela.
Abafana banokujamelana neemeko ezinobundlobongela.
Kwenye uphando lwabafundi ukusuka kwibanga lesi-6 ukuya kwibanga lesi-10, phantse enye yesithathu ibhengezwe ngokuxhatshazwa okanye ukuziphatha ngokuxhaphaza ngokwabo, ngokwe-CDC . Ubungaphantsi kwe-33 ekhulwini yabafundi kwiphononongo kazwelonke yabika ukuba bephethe isikhali - isela okanye isibhamu - ubuncinane kanye kwiintsuku ezingama-30 zangaphambili kwisifundo.
Zifundise kwimingcipheko yobundlobongela bentsha. Xoxa ngeengozi kunye nentombazana yakho kwaye uthethe ngeendlela zokunceda umntwana wakho ahlale ekhuselekileyo. Qinisekisa ukuxubusha ubudlova obusondeleyo, njengokuba ulwaphulo-mthetho nobudlova lunokuthi bube nobuhlobo obunothando.
Ukuzibulala
Le yeso sihlandlo sesithathu sokufa kwabaselula, malunga nabafundi abayi-11 esikolweni esiphakeme bazama ukuzibulala. Abaninzi abaselula bacinga ngokuzibulala kodwa bangenzi nto. Iziganeko zokuzibulala kunye nokuzama ukuzibulala kuyahluka, kodwa kubandakanya uluntu, ukuxinezeleka, iingxaki zeentsapho kunye nokusetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi. Imiba iyinkimbinkimbi kwaye ayisiphumo sesinye okanye ezimbini. Iintsholongwane ezinxibelelwano ezintle kunye nomntu omdala omnye abanako amathuba okuba bazibandakanye eziphatheni ezinobungozi kwaye bancitshiswa kakhulu.
4. Ukukhulelwa kwentsha
Iindaba ezilungileyo kukuba izinga lokukhulelwa kwentsha liye lancipha kwiminyaka yamuva ukusuka ekuphakameni kwayo kuma-1980s naku-1990. Ngo-2012, kuphela malunga ne-29 kwabafazi abayi-1 000 phakathi kweminyaka eyi-15 no-19 ubudala abakhulelwe, ngokwe-CDC. Kubonakala ukuba abaninzi abatsha basebenzise ukulawula ukuzalwa kunamashumi eminyaka edlulileyo, kubangele ukukhulelwa okungaphantsi kokulungelelaniswa. Kwaba bafana abakhulelweyo, nangona kunjalo, ingozi inokubandakanya iingxaki zokukhulelwa, mhlawumbi kubangelwa ukugula okanye ukulimala kumama okanye umntwana, kwaye ithuba elilahlekileyo loqoqosho ngokukhulelwa kwentsha luhlala lubalulekile.
5. STDs
Nangona intsha ibonisa iipesenti ezingama-25 kuphela zabantu abanobulili, zimelela iipesenti ezingama-50 zazo zonke izifo ezitshatyalaliswa ngokwesondo, ngokwe-DoSomething.org. Malunga nama-20 amatyala amatsha amathambo esandulela ngesondo avela e-US ngamnye ngonyaka. Phantse ama-46 ekhulwini kwabafundi bezikolo eziphakamileyo zase-US babike ukuba balala ngesondo ; Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba intsha iqaphele ingozi yokusuleleka ngu-HIV kwakunye ne-gonorrhea phakathi kwezinye ii-STD.
6. Iisigaretti, Utywala kunye neMichiza (kuquka iMichiza yobisi)
Ngonyaka ophezulu, ngaphezu kweyesibini kubathathu abadala baye bazama okanye bahlala besebenzisa iimveliso zecuba.
Uphando lwelizwe luchaze ukuba i-28 ekhulwini yabafundi bezikolo eziphakamileyo okwamanje basebenzisa iimveliso zecuba. Ukusetyenziswa kweemveliso zecuba kudibene neendlela ezininzi zokuziphatha, kuquka ukusetyenziswa kotywala. Abafundi abayi-9 kwabasesikolweni esiphakeme babika ukuba basela utywala, ngokweMentoring.org.
Ukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi kusemngciphekweni omkhulu kumntwana, kunye neepesenti ezingama-6 zolutsha ezitshiweyo zisebenzisa i-cocaine ubuncinane kanye, ngokweMentoring.org. Ipesenti ezintathu zamadoda aphakamileyo esikolweni asebenzisa ingxelo ye-steroids. Kukho inani elinyukayo lokufa kwabaselula abasuka kwii-painkillers.
7. Ukutya kweengxaki kunye nokukhululeka komzimba / ubunzima
Phantse iipesenti ezingama-87 zabafundi bezikolo eziphakamileyo abayidli i-servings ezinconywayo ezintlanu zezityalo kunye nemifuno ngosuku, kwaye ngaphezulu kwama-25 ekhulwini badla ngaphezu kweebini kwiivenkile zeemveliso ezinamafutha aphezulu ngosuku. Iintsholongwane zinokuvelisa iziphazamiso zokutya apho zingadli ngokwaneleyo, kwaye zilambele ngamabomu ngokwabo, ezifana ne-anorexia, okanye ziza kuzihlamba, njenge-bulimia, okanye ziyakudla ngokugqithiseleyo kwaye zibe zikhulu kunene okanye ziphele. Phantse iipesenti ezingama-33 zabafundi bezikolo eziphakamileyo azifumaneki ngokwaneleyo , kwaye malunga neepesenti ezingama-36 babhalisiwe kwiinkqubo zemfundo zemihla ngemihla.