Ngaba Ingqondo Yami Ingumqondiso We-Autism?

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Ngaba Ingqondo Yami Ingumqondiso We-Autism?

Le mihla, kubonakala ngathi i-quirk encinane ingabhalwa "uphawu lwe-autism." Umntwana ukhetha ukudlala yedwa - ngoko kufuneka abe yi-autistic. Akabukeli abantu kwiso - yi-autism. Uthobekile ukuthetha-kufuneka ukuba yi-autism.

Ngokuqinisekileyo, akukho nanye yalezi ziphatha ngokwabo zibonakalisa iimpawu ze-autism, nangona zingabonakalisa nantoni na ekubunzima nombono okanye ukuphulaphulwa kwintlupheko yokucwangcisa ingqondo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuziphatha okuthile (okanye ukudibanisa kweendlela zokuziphatha) kudla ukubonisa ukugqithisa kwe-autism - kwaye kunokubonisa ukuba uvavanyo luya kuba yinto efanelekileyo.

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UkuLungisa, ukuTwitling, Pacing

I-short is short for "self-stimulation." Wonke umntu - autistic okanye hayi - uphazamise. Abanye abantu baluma izipikili zabo, abanye bathabathe umunwe wabo. Abanye abantwana banamathela zabo izithupha. Izibilini zisinceda siphumelele ukukhathazeka, ukuze sikwazi ukugxila kwimeko phambi kwethu. Uninzi lwethu lukhetha izithintelo ezamkelekileyo ngokwenkcubeko (ukubetha ngeesilumko kunokuba ugubungele phambili nangaphandle, umzekelo). Akukho sizathu esihle sokuba ukubetha kweehayili kufuneke kube ngaphezu koko "Kulungile," kodwa ... kukho.

Abantu abane-autism, nangona kunjalo, abaqhelanga ukuba babone oko abanye abakwenzayo ngaphambi kokuba benze into evakalelwa ngayo. Ngaloo ndlela, iinwele eziqhelekileyo zokubambisa kunye nokubethelelwa kwepiki zixhaphake kakhulu kubantu abane-autism. Esikhundleni saloo nto, ezinye izithintelo ezibandakanyekayo, kubandakanywa ukuhamba, ukugubungula, ukubetha izandla, ukutshiza, nokuhamba ngokukhawuleza, kubonakala ngathi zixhaphake kubantu abane-autism kunokuba ziphakathi kwabantu bonke.

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Ukungabikho "Ukuqwalasela"

Ubonisa umntwana wakho indlela ovuthela ngayo izibhulu, kwaye uyaziqhawula. Uzazisa intombi yakho kwinja yomhlobo, kwaye uyayilinda aze ayiphinde inja njengoko wenzayo. Ufunda kumncinci wakho, kwaye uyayibamba incwadi, aphendule amaphepha, athetha amagama akhunjulwe kakuhle nawe. Le mizekelo yonke "ingqalelo ngokubambisana," oku kuthetha ukuba ubeka ingqalelo into ethile kunye, ukwabelana ngamava.

Umntwana ongekho ngokwenene ukuba uzama ukunaka, okanye obonakala engakwazi ukubona okanye ukuva oko ubonayo okanye ukuva, unokufumana umba kunye nokubona okanye ukuva. Kodwa ukuba le micimbi iye yahlolwa kwaye umcimbi uyaqhubeka, kuyafaneleka ukuphonononga uvavanyo kunye neengcali zonyango okanye uphando olufanayo.

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Ukudinga kakhulu ukulingana

Wonke umntu unemikhwa kunye nemigqaliselo, kwaye abanye abantu banqwenela ukuba nobomi obuqhelekileyo. Abantwana ngokubanzi zizidalwa zomkhwa, kwaye bayavuya xa beva amabali afanayo, bebukela iifilimu ezifanayo, baphinde baphinde baphinde baphinde baphinde baphinde baphinde baphinde baphinde baphinde baphinde baphinde bahlaziye.

Abantwana abane-autism, nangona kunjalo, bahlala befana ngokugqithiseleyo. Basenokwenza, umzekelo, ukungavumi ukutya okutsha, izambatho ezintsha, umboniso omtsha weTV, okanye ibali elitsha lokulala - kwaye usabele ngokuphazamiseka okanye ukuphazamiseka xa uhlaziyo luya kutshintshwa. Baya kuba nexhala kakhulu xa becela ukuba banxibe ingubo ebusika, okanye iingubo zokugqoka kwisiganeko esikhethekileyo. Esikolweni, ukutshintshwa phakathi kweeklasi kunokuba nzima kakhulu, kwaye utshintsho kwimihla ngemihla lunokuba lukhulu.

Nangona iimfuno zokufana zingekho uphawu lwe-autism ngokwazo, abantwana abane-autism banqwenela ukufuna kwaye bancike kwixesha elide kunabantwana abaqhelekileyo (nangaphezulu, kunoko, kunabantwana abaninzi abanexhala lezenhlalakahle ezingezona i-autism).

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Ukuphinda kwakhona amagama, iNgcamango, okanye iiNto ezifanayo

Abantwana bayakujabulela ukudlala imidlalo efanayo ngokuphindaphindiweyo - kodwa nabantwana abaqhelekileyo, umdlalo ngamnye uhlukile kancinci. Abantwana abane-autism, nangona kunjalo, bathambekele ekunyamezeleni (bambelela) kwiingcinga ezifanayo, izenzo, okanye amagama-phantsi kuyo yonke into yokugqibela.

Ngokomzekelo, umntwana ophethe i-autism angavula kwaye avalile umnyango ngendlela efanayo, ngokuphindaphindiweyo ... Buza umbuzo ofanayo, ngelizwi elifanayo, ngamaxesha angama-50 (nangona xa eyazi impendulo) ... okanye uchaza iqhinga elifanayo le-movie ngamazwi afanayo, ngeyoni enye, ngamaxesha amaninzi. Ukunyamezela kwaloo hlobo akuyona into eyingqayizivele kwi-autism, kodwa ngokudibanisa namanye "amaflegi obomvu" kuyimpawu emihle yokuba uvavanyo luyafaneleka.