Enye yeenjabulo ezininzi zentsana esandula kuzalwa zibona ukuphuhliswa kweengqondo. Usana luzalwe ngezakhiwo zamehlo ezifunekayo kumbono, kodwa kufuneka ufunde indlela yokuzisebenzisana ukuze ukwazi "ukubona." Nangona iintsana zingaboni kakuhle, ziyakwazi ukubona.
Ukubona imibala
Iintsana ezisencinane ziyakwenza izinto ngokuphambene kakhulu, njengemizekelo emnyama-kunye-emhlophe, amabhodi okuhlola, kunye neminye imibala embala.
Qinisekisa ukuba unike umntwana wakho izinto ezahlukeneyo ukuba zijonge ezo zimibalabala kwaye zihluke kakhulu. Ngo-utero, umntwana wakho wayesemgangathweni omnyama, kodwa ukususela ekuzalweni, uyakwazi ukwahlula phakathi kokukhanya kunye nomnyama. Ngeke akwazi ukubona yonke imibala kancinane, kodwa umbala wakhe wombala uya kuphucula ngokukhawuleza. Ubuninzi bembala engakwazi ukuyibona abuyazi, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo akayi kukwazi ukubona ama-pastel okanye imibala elula ukuya kwiinyanga ezi-2 ukuya kwezi-3 ubudala.
Ukhangelelaniso
Iintsana ezisandul 'ukuzalwa zikhangeleka kakhulu, oku kuthetha ukuba izinto ezikude zidibene. Enyanisweni, usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa alukwazi ukugxila ngaphaya kwama-6 okanye 10 intshi. Oku kukhangeleka kunokucacisa ukuba kutheni iintsana zibonakala zijonge kwizinto ezikufuphi. Ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuba iintsana zijongayo zikhangele ubuso, kodwa mhlawumbi abakwazi ukufumana inkcazelo ebanzi. Umntwana wakho unokubonakala egxininisa ebusweni bakho, kodwa mhlawumbi ufunda isicatshulwa sakho seenwele okanye ucwangco lobuso bakho.
Nangona umntwana wakho angenza izinto ezikufutshane naye, ukuqonda okujonge kuthatha ixesha elingakumbi ukuphuhlisa. Ngenyanga yesithathu ukuya kweyesihlanu, amehlo anako ukusebenzisana kunye nokwenza imbonakalo yezinto ezintathu zehlabathi.
Iimbono ezibalulekileyo
Usana alukwazi ukubona iinkcukacha ezilungileyo, kodwa njengoko ekhula amehlo akhe aya kuphucula ngokukhawuleza.
Uza kubona iimbono ezibonakalayo njengoko ukubona kwakhe kwenyuka kwandula kwaye uqala ukuqaphela indawo engqongileyo. Ngethuba leenyanga ezithandathu, ububona mhlawumbi buya kuba yindlela yakhe ebaluleke kakhulu. Kwiinyanga ezintandathu ezincinane, ezinye iintsana zibona amehlo angcono kunabantu abadala.
Ngexesha leenyanga zokuqala, misela umntwana wakho ubuso malunga no-6 ukuya kwe-10 intshi ukusuka kwakho. Uyakwazi ukubona umboniso wobuso bakho, kwaye ubuso bakho mhlawumbi izinto azizithandayo. Kwimizuzu emibili ukuya kweyesithathu ubudala, umntwana uza kuqala ukubona ubungqina bomzimba, njengengxolo kunye nomlomo. Kwiinyanga ezintathu ukuya ezintlanu, ininzi intsana iyakwazi ukwahlula phakathi kobuso bomama kunye nobuso bolunye uhlanga. Amehlo ebusana aqhubeka nokuhlakulela nokutshintsha kunyaka wokuqala wokuphila.
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> Iziko lezeMpilo laseYunivesithi yaseVirginia. Iintsholongwane eziqhelekileyo, iintsholongwane ezisanda kuzalwa, ngo-12 Feb 2004.