Iintsana zizalwe ngenkqubo ebonakalayo ebonakalayo, kodwa kufuneka zifunde indlela yokuzibona. Umbono womntwana uya kuphuhliswa kunyaka wokuqala wokuphila. Ukuphuhliswa kombono wakho komntwana kuya kuhlolwa kwelinye ilungu lokutyunjwa kwabantwana, kuqinisekiswe ukuba iimpawu ezibalulekileyo zidibeneyo. Ngezantsi zingundoqo ezintlanu ekuphuculweni kombono.
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Ukugxilwa kwamandla2 -
Ulungelelaniso Lamehlo nokulandelelaUmntwana ngokuqhelekileyo ukhulisa amandla okulandelela nokulandela into ehamba ngokukhawuleza ngeenyanga ezintathu. Ngaphambi kwesi sihlandlo, usana luya kulandela izinto ezinkulu, ezihamba ngokukhawuleza zihamba ngokunyakaza kunye nokunyakaza kwamehlo . Inyanga eneminyaka emithathu inokukwazi ukulandelela into ngokufanelekileyo. Umntwana kufuneka aqale ukulandela izinto ezihambayo kunye namehlo kwaye afinyelele izinto kwiinyanga ezi-ezine ubudala.
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Ubunzulu bePhepha4 -
Ukubona umbalaUmbono wombala wengane awuxhomekekanga njengomntu omdala. Kunzima ukuxelela ukuba iintsana ziyakwazi ukuhlukanisa imibala kuba amehlo abo angatsalwa kukukhanya, ubumnyama, okanye ukungafani nento echasene nayo, kwaye kungekhona ngumbala wedwa. Kodwa iiveki ezimbini ukuya kweyesithandathu ubudala, nangona kunjalo, umntwana usenokuhlukanisa imibala emibini ehluke kakhulu, njengomnyama nomhlophe.
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Injongo kunye nokuqwalaselwa ubusoUsana luzalwa ngokukwazi ukubona ubuso obunobungakanani kwisalathisi kodwa lutsaliswe endaweni endaweni eyahlukileyo kwimida. Ngokomzekelo, umntwana uya kujonga emgceni wobuso okanye inwele yeenwele xa ekhangele ubuso bomntu. Kwimizuzu emibili ukuya kweyesithathu ubudala, umntwana uza kuqala ukubona ubungqina bomzimba, njengengxolo kunye nomlomo. Kwiinyanga ezintathu ukuya ezintlanu, ininzi intsana iyakwazi ukwahlula phakathi kobuso bomama kunye nobuso bolunye uhlanga. Umbono wengane uqhubeka nokuphuhlisa.
Umthombo:
ILeb yeBon's Vision, i-Eunice Kennedy Shriver Centre. Okubalulekileyo kwiNtuthuko yeZibonelelo. IYunivesithi yaseMassachusetts Medical School. 08 Juni 2007.