"Ngaba uyazi ukuba yintoni ebangela ukuba umntwana wakho aphethwe yi-autism ?"
Ukuba ungumzali womntwana kwibala, uvile lo mbuzo ... ngokuphindaphindiweyo ... ukusuka kwintsapho, abahlobo, abaqhelana nabo kunye nabangamaziyo abagqibeleleyo. Uvile ukugijima njengevili le-gerbil ekhanda lakho - kwaye, mhlawumbi, ulivile kumaphupha akho.
Ngelishwa, ngaphantsi kwe-20% ye-autism inesizathu esaziwayo.
Enyanisweni, kukho izimbalwa ezimbalwa eziyaziwayo ze-autism. Ezi ziquka ukuphazamiseka kwemfuza njengeFragile X Syndrome, iziyobisi ezithile ezithathiweyo ngexesha lokukhulelwa (i-valproate ingomnye wezonyango ezinjalo eziye zafunyanwa), okanye impawu ecacileyo nelifa (kubakho abanye abantu abane-autism kwintsapho esondeleyo) . Iigonti , nangona zonke izidumbu ezibajikelezayo, azikho isizathu esaziwayo se-autism.
Ukuqonda ukuba imbangela ye-autism ayidla ngokungaqhelekanga, nangona kunjalo, ayigcini abantu ukuba babuze umbuzo. Mhlawumbi ngakumbi, ayibavumi abazali ukuba bakholwe ukuba bafumene impendulo - nangona, njengokuba kunjalo njalo, abanakho indlela yokuqinisekisa ngokwenene iingcamango okanye ukuqagela.
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Umzali wengane ene autism okholwayo ukuba uyazi impendulo kumbuzo (ngokufanelekileyo okanye ngokungalunganga) unokuphila ngokucinga ngesono esikhulu.
Ndingayivumela njani i-X ukuba yenzeke (okanye ingenzeki)? Ukubuza umbuzo - kunye nokucebisa isizathu-kunokukwenza ukuba uziva unamandla ngakumbi. Kungenxa yokuba, ngokuphindaphindiweyo, abazali abangenasiphelo baxhomekeke kwizinto ngenxa yenkcazelo yeendaba zokusasazwa, imibuzo ye-Facebook, okanye igalelo elihlaselwe ngumntu ongeyenazihlobo.
Umzekelo:
"Ndivile ukuba xa umama esidla ityhuna ngexesha lokukhulelwa, umntwana wakhe unokuzalwa nge-autistic."
"Ungamvumela njani umntwana wakho ukuba agonywe?" UJenny McCarthy uthi iigciwane zibangelwa i-autism? "
"Uhlala kwisixeko se-X? Awazi na ukuba kukho izityalo zamalahle apho, kunye nokukhutshwa kwamalahle kungabangela i-autism?"
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantu abachaphazelekayo yingxaki bafuna isizathu ngenxa yengxaki ukuze baqiniseke ukuba abayi kuqhuba ingxaki efanayo. Ngokomzekelo, abantu baya kubuza malunga nomntu osanda kutshatyalaliswa ngumhlaza wemiphunga, "Ngaba wayitshisa?" Okanye baya kubuza malunga nomntu onesihlungu, "Ngaba wayenomzimba ogqithiseleyo?" Ukuba impendulo ngu "ewe," kwaye abayi kubhema okanye bengaphezu komzimba, baziva beqinisekisiwe: abakunakwenzeka ukuba bahlangabezane nengxaki efanayo.
Kodwa nge-autism, kunjalo, ayisebenzisi ngaloo ndlela. Ekubeni asiyazi ukuba yintoni ebangela ukuba ingxaki, asikwazi ukuyiphepha okanye ayibekwe ityala.
Kanye nje, abantu abaphakamisa umbuzo abakuboni ngokwenene impendulo. Kunoko, bafuna ukuvula i-hawk ingcamango ethile yombono, unyango, imveliso, okanye inkqubo yenkolelo. Ngamanye amazwi, babuza umbuzo ngendlela efanayo nomthengisi we-inshorensi angabuza "Ngaba ucinga nge-inshorensi yobomi kungekudala?"
Ngenxa yoko, ukubuza umbuzo kungakhokelela kwiziphumo ezimbi; phakathi kwabo:
- Ukuvula kwakhona umcimbi oqhubekayo kunye nobuhlungu ongenakuze ulungiswe - kuba akukho mntu owaziyo imbangela yengqondo yomntwana;
- Ukuphakamisa i-specter (kwakhona kwakhona) ukuba umzali (ngokuqhelekileyo unina) wenza isigqibo esibi ngexesha elithile elibangele umntwana wakhe;
- Ukuvula iingcango kwintetho evela kumntu ongenalo ulwazi lokwenene okanye amava malunga nezizathu kunye nokunyanga kwengxaki apho izizathu kunye nokuphilisa zikhona, ngokubanzi, ezingaziwa;
- Ukuqinisekisile ngokuqinisekileyo omnye umzali ukuba umntwana wakhe akakwazi ukuba yi-autistic ngenxa yokuba uhlala kwindawo eyahlukileyo, udla ukutya okuhlukeneyo, okanye uhlala ubomi obuthile ngokungafaniyo kumntu onomntwana ozimele;
- Ungakhathazeki ngokungabalulekanga ngomnye umzali ukuba umntwana wakhe unokwenzeka ukuba yi-autistic ngenxa yokuba BABENZANA ngokukhetha izinto ezingafaniyo nendawo yokuhlala, ukutya, njl njl.
Ngaphantsi, ngaphandle kokuba umenywa ukuba ucacise ngezizathu zobomi be-autism ngabazali bomntwana - musa.