Indlela Yokuchaza Ukuhlinzwa Kwabantwana
Indlela Yokulungiselela Umntwana Wakho Ukuhlinzwa
Ukuncedisa ukulungiselela umntwana ukuhlinzwa (kunye nokukhetha ugqirha omkhulu ) ngenye yezona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu umzali onokuzenza xa umntwana efuna inkqubo yokucoca. Njengomzali kufikelelwe kuwe ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho ulungiselelwe kakuhle inkqubo, ngaphandle kokuthungelwa okanye ukukhathazeka ngolwazi olungalungile.
Ugqirha wakho angathatha inxaxheba ekutholeni umntwana wakho, kodwa uya kuba noxanduva lokuchazela ulwazi ngendlela eya kukuthintela umntwana wakho ukuba angasabi ngcamango yokuhlinzwa. Uthobekile wathini? Akunjalo. Abantwana badinga ukulungelelanisa kakhulu ukuvavanywa kwindlela yokuhlinzwa kunabantu abaninzi abadala, kwaye banokudideka kancinci ngolwazi olunikeziwe.
Iingcebiso ezilula apha zenza ukuba inkqubo ihambe kakuhle, ngaphandle komzamo omkhulu. Enyanisweni, umntwana owanikwe ulwazi olufanelekileyo ubudala kunye nokulindela kwangempela oko kuza kwenzeka kuba ngumntu ogqirhayo ogulayo. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukubonelela ngolwazi olungumntwana onokukuqonda ngokulula, ngaphandle kokunika ulwazi oluninzi, ulwazi olungalunganga okanye ulwazi oludidekayo.
Thetha noDokotela oPhezulu
Ukuba umntwana wakho akaqapheli ukuba unyango luya kwenzeka, thatha ixesha lokuthetha nodokotela ohlinzayo ukuze ufumane ulwazi olusisiseko ngaphambi kokuba uchaze oko kwenzeka kumntwana wakho. Ngale ndlela, unemibuzo yemibuzo yabo xa uxoxa ngokuhlinzwa. Ngaphambi kwengxoxo yakho kunye nodokotela ohlinzayo, funda kabanzi malunga:
Xa unalo ugqirha, kukho izinto ezibalulekileyo ozifuna ukuxelela ugqirha wakho malunga nempilo yengane yakho . Khumbula ukuba imbali yonyango yomama ingabaluleka njengempilo yomntwana. Imibuzo ephathelele ukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi ingabonakala ingaqhelekanga kwisigulane sesana. Kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo le mibuzo iphathelene nemikhwa yomama, ngokungafani nentombazana, othe wayeza kusebenzisa iziyobisi esikhathini esidlulileyo.
Xa ulungiselela ukuhlinzwa, ulwazi oluqhelekileyo luncedo olukhulu, ngaphezu kwenkcazelo ecacileyo kwiminyaka yomntwana. Ukuqonda ingozi yokuhlinzwa kunokukunceda wenze isigqibo esineenkcukacha ezifanelekileyo. Thatha ixesha lokufunda malunga ne-aneshesia, kuquka naluphi uhlobo lwe-anesthesia oluya kusetyenziswa, ngubani oza kunika i-anesthesia nolunye ulwazi.
Oko Kuthetha (kwaye Akuthi!) Kumntwana Wakho Ngobuchopho
Abantwana banokujonga ukuhlinzwa ngokugqithisileyo kunabantu abadala. Ngomguli omdala, ugqirha akayi kufuna ukuba achaze ukuba isiguli asizange senze into engalunganga kwaye i-appendectomy yabo ezayo ayiyiyo isohlwayo ngenxa yokubi. Ngabantwana, kukho izinto ezifuneka zichazwe ngokucacileyo ukuba kunokumangalisa umntu omdala.
- Izinto Umntwana Wakho Ufuna Uwazi Ngaphambi Kokuphanda
- Izinto ezifanele ziphephe ukuthetha ngokuphathelele ukuphanda
Amaqela aBantu ahlukeneyo, Iinkcukacha ezahlukeneyo
Ukulungiswa kunye neengxoxo oza kulufuna ukuba nazo kunye nomntwana wakho zihluka kunye nobudala babo. Ngokomzekelo, abantwana banokuqonda ngokulula xa utyando luye lwacwangciswa ngeveki kwangaphambili. Kodwa umntu onokufunda esikolweni unokubuza, "Ngaba ukuhlinzwa kwam kusasa?" Kwiiveki ukuba uxelelwa ngokukhawuleza, kufana ne "ngaba silapha" imibuzo onokuyazi ngayo. Ngokwahlukileyo, umntwana osemncinci angayixabanga ukuba nenkqubo echazwe ngokuthi "ugqirha uya kukhangela kwisisu sakho kwaye akwenze uzive ungcono," kwaye kufuneka uqaphele malunga nokufumana ulwazi oluvela kwiindawo ezisemgangathweni ezisemgangathweni ezingabonelela ngolwazi olungalunganga.
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Isinyathelo sokugqibela-Ngaphambili nangethuba loPhando
Emva kokuba wenze i-leap kwaye ulungiselele umntwana wakho ukuba utyunjiswe lixesha lokubuyela emva kwaye ucinge ngawe ngomzuzwana. Ungalibali ukuzilungiselela ukuhlinzwa komntwana wakho . Ukuze ukwazi ukubonelela ngenkxaso engcono kakhulu kumntwana wakho, unakekele ngokwasemzimbeni, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ngokwenyama (ewe, kufuneka ulale ngisho nokuba umntwana wakho utyunjwa), iimfuno ngexesha lingaba lixesha elixinzelelekileyo. Njengomzali, unokufumana inzuzo ekufundeni indlela yokujamelana nokuxhalabisa ngokukodwa njengomntwana wakho.
Kwiintsuku ezikhokelela ekuhlinzekeni, umntwana wakho uya kuba nokuvavanywa kwegazi. Unokuzibuza ukuba kutheni ezi zinto ziyimfuneko kwaye zeziphi iziphumo zithetha. Ungayifumana le ngcaciso apha: Izivivinyo eziqhelekileyo Ngaphambi kokuvuthwa .
Imithombo:
> Iiminyaka kunye namaNqanaba. Invest in Kids Canada. 2007.
> Isikhokelo soPhando. Isibhedlele seSizwe sabantwana. > http://www.nationwidechildrens.org/gd/templates/pages/pfv/PFV.aspx?page=242