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Ukuphelelwa kwezilwanyana: UkulungiselelaUgqirha lwezilwanyana naluphi na utyando olwenziwe kwisigulane esingaphantsi kweminyaka eyi-18. Nangona inkcazo yokuhlinzwa kwabantwana ilula, ukuba yinyani yokuba nomntwana ofuna unyango uhlukile kakhulu.
Ukuzala umntwana ogulayo okanye okudinga inkqubo yokuhlinzwa kunokuba nzima kakhulu. Imibuzo ingaba nzima, kwaye ungazi ukuba ungathini okanye uchaze oko kuza kwenzeka ntoni. Umntwana wakho unokwesaba ngombono wokuhlinzwa (kwaye unokuba unjalo, kwaye) kwaye ufuna ukuthuthuzelwa nokuqinisekiswa.
Thatha ixesha lokuqonda unyango umntwana wakho adingayo, kutheni bawufuna kwaye zeziphi ezinye iindlela ezifumanekayo. Ukongeza kwendima yakho yokunika induduzo kumntwana wakho, uya kuba ngummeli wabo wezokwelapha kwaye uya kubazenza izigqibo zabo, ngoko kuya kufuneka ufundise malunga namava okugqitywa.
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Ukuchaza Ukuhlinzwa NgoMntwana WakhoUkunika ulwazi oluchanekileyo ngolwazi lwakho xa ulungiselela ukuhlinzwa kuyabaluleka ukuba bezolile ngaphambi nangemva kokuhlinzwa. Cacisa inkqubo kumntwana wakho ngokuchanekileyo ngokunokwenzeka, xelela umntwana wakho "Andizi kodwa ndiya kufumana" ukuba awukwazi impendulo yombuzo. Umzekelo, musa ukuxelela umntwana wakho ukuba uya kubahamba nabo kwigumbi lokusebenza ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba oku kwenzeka.
Inxalenye eqhelekileyo yokuhlinzwa, njengokutsho kwendlovu kwindawo yangaphambili yokuhlinzwa, inokukhathazeka xa kulindelwe ukuba i-goodbyes iya kwenzeka emva kokungeniswa kwigumbi lokusebenza.
"Andizi" kunqwenela ukubonelela ulwazi olungalunganga, olubangela ukukhathazeka okukhulu kumntwana xa ukulindela kwabo kuhluke kwizinto abazifumanayo. Khawukhumbule ukufumana impendulo echanekileyo, ingakumbi ukuba umntwana wakho ubuza umbuzo ofanayo ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngelixa ulindele impendulo.
Ezinye izakhiwo zinika ityelelo phambi kokuhlinzwa, oku kunceda ukulungiselela umntwana ukuba utyunjwe ngokubakhombisa apho baya kuba khona kwaye bazise esibhedlele. Oku kunokuba luncedo olukhulu xa uzama ukulungiselela umntwana wakho ukuba abe nesibhedlele kunye nesigumbi sokusebenza.
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Imibuzo Ebalulekileyo Yokubuza Ngaphambi Kokugqithwa Kwezingane Zakho- Luhlobo luni lwe- anesthesia oluya kusetyenziswa? Ngaba umntwana wam uya kulala ngexesha lotyando?
- Nangona umntwana wam evukile baya kufumana iyeza ngokuphefumula, i-IV okanye zombini?
- Ngaba ndiyakwazi ukuhambisa umntwana wam egumbini lokusebenza? Abazali bobabili baya kuba nako?
- Ngaba unayo naziphi na iingcebiso malunga nokulungiselela umntwana wam ukuhlinzwa?
- Ngaba umntwana wam uya kunikwa udumo phambi kokuhlinzwa?
- Ingaba kukho i-shots yam umntwana eya kunikwa ngaphambi kokuhlinzwa?
- Umntwana wam uya kuvela kuphi ekutyunjeni? Ndingaba khona?
- Luhlobo luni lweentlungu umntwana wam emva kokuhlinzwa?
- Umntwana wam unokutya okanye aphuze ngaphambi kokuhlinzwa ? Ngaba umntwana wam uya kudla okanye aphuze emva kokuhlinzwa?
- Ngaba umntwana wam uya kuba neendwendwe zobusuku emva kokuhlinzwa ?
- Ingaba kutyelelwa kweso sikhungo, kubandakanywa igumbi lokusebenza?
- Ingaba umntwana uya kuba ne-IV, izixhobo okanye ityhubhu yokuphefumula emva kokuhlinzwa?
- Luhlobo luni lokufumana kwakhona umntwana wam ukuba abe nalo?
- Ngaba umntwana wam uya esibhedlele emva kokuhlinzwa? Ixesha elingakanani?
- Umntwana wam uza kukhishwa ngokukhawuleza emva kokuhlinzwa ngonyango ?
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Izinto Ezingumntwana Wakho Okufanele Azi NgobucholoAbantwana baqaphele ngokuhlinzwa kwaye banokuba nemibuzo okanye iingxaki ezingazange zikhankanywe. Ezi zibalulekileyo izihloko onokufuna ukulungisa phambi kokuba umntwana aphethwe, ngokuxhomekeke kwiminyaka yabo.
- I-Anesthesia ivimbela intlungu xa kutyunjwa.
- Awunalo utyando ngenxa yokuba wawubi, utyando aluyisohlwayo.
- Ukuba kukho intlungu emva kokuhlinzwa, amayeza atholakalayo ukwenza kube ngcono, ngoko kufuneka uxelele umzali wakho, ugqirha okanye umongikazi xa uhlungu.
- Ukuhlinzwa kwakho akufani no-____ (umkhulu, umzalwana, umhlobo, umntu onTV).
- I ____ yakho inokulimaza ngaphezulu (okanye ngaphantsi) emva kokuhlinzwa.
- Emva kokuhlinzwa, i-_____ yakho (inxalenye yomzimba) iya kuba ne-(ukukhishwa, ibhanki, IV, i- stitches )
- Siza kukubona xa wena (vuka, ushiye i-OR, utyando luphelile, ubuyela kwisibhedlele sakho).
- Oogqirha kunye nabahlengikazi baya kugqokelwa kwiinqanawa kunye nemaski kunye nabanye baze bagqoke iziglasi ezimnandi ukuze babone ngcono ngexesha lotyando.
- Uphando ngobomi bokwenene luhluke kwindlela yokuhlinzwa kwiTV.
- Uza kufumana unyango olukhethekileyo ukukwenza ulale ngexesha lokuhlinzwa, iyeza liqinisekisa ukuba awuvuki ngaphambi kokuba unyango luphelile.
- Uya kuvuka emva kokuhlinzwa xa ugqirha ugqityiwe.
- Abanye abantu bacinga ukuba baya kuphosa emva kokuhlinzwa. Kukho iyeza lokunceda ngale nto, ngoko ukuba ucinga ukuba ufanele uphonse, vumela i- _____ (Umama, uTata, umongikazi) uyazi ukuba sinokukunceda. Isisindo kunye nokuhlanza kuyaqheleka emva kokuhlinzwa kwaye kunokuthintelwa kwiimeko ezininzi.
- Ukulala kunokuba nzima emva kokuhlinzwa, ngakumbi xa ulala esibhedlele. Okuqhelekileyo. Kwakhona kunzima ukulala ngenxa yokuba uyalimaza. Qinisekisa ukuba utshele umntu ukuba uyalimaza. Kwabanye abantwana, unyango olunomdla olunceda ubuthongo, olunjengeBenadryl, lunikelwa .
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Izinto Ezingakuphepheli Ukuthetha Kubantwana Bakho Ngaphambi KokuphandaAbantwana banentlonelo kumazwi asetshenziselwa ukucacisa ukuba yintoni ukuhlinzwa, oko kuza kwenzeka kunye nendlela yokuhlinzwa eyenziwa ngayo. Ezi zezinye iibhloko eziphambili ukuphepha ukuzisebenzisa, njengoko abantwana banelungelo lokungachazwanga into ekuthethwa ngayo.
- Baya kukunika "igesi" - Kubantwana, igesi yinto esiyifake kwiimoto okanye into ekhohlakeleyo evela kumntu osezantsi.
- "I-Anesthetize" - Leli gama lizwakala ngathi li-euthanize kwaye linokubangela iingxaki ukuba umntwana wakho uyazi igama li-euthanize, uphando kwi-intanethi okanye uva ilizwi elisebenzisiweyo kwenye indawo. I-Anesthesia yizwi langaphandle kubantwana kwaye kufuneka lichazwe.
- Bakukunika iyeza "kukukhupha ngaphandle" - Kwabantwini abaninzi, bebanjwe ngaphandle kwendlela yokubetha nzima ngokwaneleyo ukuba bangabi nantoni.
- "Ugqirha uya kukubamba" okanye "Kufana nexesha lokulala" - Zama ukuthintela ukuhlinzwa ngokudideka ngesithethe esiqhelekileyo kwimihla ngemihla ekhaya. Ukuba umntwana wakhoyika ukwenziwa kotyando, banokuyika ukwesaba ukulala ekhaya. Kwakhona kunokukhokelela ekwesabeni ukuvuka ngaphambi kokuphela kokuhlinzwa.
- "Uya kulala" - Abantwana abaninzi bayazi ukuba xa sibeka izilwanyana ukuba balele bafe kwaye banokucinga ukuba nabo baya kufa.
- "Awuyi kuvuswa" - Kubalulekile ukugxininisa ukuba baya kulala ngophando ngaphandle kokuva intlungu, kodwa ukuba baya kuvuka emva kokuhlinzwa. Abantwana bayesaba bobabini abangazange bavuke baze bavuke ngexesha le nkqubo.
- "Yiba yinkwenkwe enkulu kwaye ungalili" - Abantwana kufuneka bakhuthazwe ukuba bakhulume ngoloyiko lwabo ngaphambi kokuhlinzwa kunye nentlungu yabo emva kokuhlinzwa. Uphando luyavakala kwaye abantwana kufuneka bakhuthazwe ukuba baxoxe ngeentloni zabo ukuze baxoxwe kwaye banciphise.
- "Kufana neTV" - Utyando alufani nokuhlinzwa kwiTV, apho abadlali abaxhamla phezulu kwizigulane baze benze i-CPR kunye nezigulana zife emva kwamaqhawe aphumelelayo abasebenzi beqhinga.
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Ukulungiselela Iintsana kunye nabantwana abasenkonzweni yokuPhephaKwintsana kunye nomncinane wesigaba sokuphuhliswa ukulungiselela utyando ikakhulukazi ngokulungiselela abazali ukuba kwenzeke ntoni na oko kufuneka silindele emva kokuhlinzwa. Iintsana ziza kufuna iinkcazo ezilula kwaye zichanekileyo zento eyenzekayo ngolwazi oluncinci. Umzekelo, unokuba ufuna ukuthi "ugqirha uya kwenza ukuba umlenze wakho ube bhetele", kunokuba uchaze ngokucacileyo okuza kudibanisa umntwana wakho.
Ngaphambi kokuhlinzwa abantwana banokukhalazela okanye bexakeke, njengoko kuya kufuneka bahambe ngaphandle kokutya okanye basele ngaphambi kokuhlinzwa njengokuba umntu omdala. Isibhedlele, ngeengxolo ezahlukeneyo, ubuso kunye nemisebenzi inokukhubaza, kwaye umntwana wakho angadinga uninzi olududuzayo kwaye ufuna ukugcinwa ngaphezu kwexesha eliqhelekileyo.
Njengabalingani babo abadala, abantwana baya kuthatha ukujonga isimo sabo sengqondo sabazali babo, ngoko ke ukuba ubonakala bexhalabile kwaye bexhalabile, baya kukhwankqiswa. Ukuzisa umoya ozolileyo, ovuyayo xa ujikeleze umntwana wakho uya kunceda xa uzama ukuzigcina ezolile kwaye ukhululekile.
Emva kokuhlinzwa, unokulindela ukuba umntwana wakho abe ngumntu ongekho, kwaye kwezinye iimeko, kunzima ukudizela. Ukudibanisa intlungu evela kwinkqubo, isisu esingenalutho, kunye nokuziva engaqhelekanga ngenxa ye-anesthesia ngokuqhelekileyo kubangela umntwana okhulayo oya kufuna ukuba abanjwe aze aduduze. Qiniseka ukuba usebenzisa amayeza enhlungu njengoko ugqirha ekucebisa, njengokuba abantwana abancinci abakwaziyo ukuvaza imfuno yabo yokuphucula intlungu kwezinye iimeko.
Ukuba utyando lolunye luya kuthatha ixesha elide, ungadinga ukucela uncedo lwabahlobo kunye nosapho ukuze uguqule umntwana wakho, ukuze ukwazi ukulala xa umntwana enenkathalo abayidingayo.
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Ukulungiselela Umfundi Wakho Wokufundela UkuhlinzwaAbantwana kwinqanaba le-early school of development badala ngokwaneleyo ukuba babeswe ngcamango yokuhlinzwa. Abantwana abanamava asekuqaleni basolokoyika ukwesaba ukuhlukana nabazali babo, ukutyunjwa kwemizimba yabo kunye noyiko lobuhlungu kunoma yimuphi umthombo.
Ezi nkalo ziyakwazi ukukhokela incoko yakho nomntwana wakho, kukunika ithuba lokuchaza ukuba uya kuba nabo, ukuba utyando luya kubabangela ngcono kwaye lungalimazi umzimba wabo, kwaye loo mayeza aya kufumaneka xa ababa neentlungu.
Gcina ukhumbule ukuba wakho umntwana onokufundela unokuthuthuzelwa ngokuba nezinto eziqhelekileyo ezikhoyo kunye nabo, njengembali yabo eyintandokazi kunye nesilwanyana esinyeneyo. Cinga ukuzisa imisebenzi yabo eqhotyoshelweyo esibhedlele, njengokufunda incwadi phambi kwexesha le-nap okanye ukuxubha amazinyo ngaphambi kokulala.
Emva kokuhlinzwa, lindela ukuba isikolo sakho sokufundela esikolweni sibe nesicatshulwa kwaye kunzima kakhulu ukujongana nokuqhelekileyo. Njengoko kunzima kunokwenzeka, kubalulekile ukuba ubonise umonde nomntwana wakho ngeli xesha elilingayo. Oku kufanele kube yisesigaba sexeshana, ukunciphisa njengoko inqanaba lomvandalo lomntwana likhululekile kwaye ubomi buyabuya kwindawo eqhelekileyo. Unganqikazi ukucela uncedo lokunyamekela umntwana wakho kumhlobo okanye kwiintsapho ngeli xesha elixinzeleleyo.
Ukuba umntwana wakho ujabulisa umbala, unokufuna ukusebenzisa i- Printable Surgery Coloring Books ukuze uncede uchaze ukuhlinzwa kwabantwana.
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Ukulungiselela Umntwana Okhulileyo Okhulileyo UkuhlinzwaAbantwana beminyaka yobudala baneminyaka eyaneleyo yokufuna ulwazi olucacileyo nolucacileyo malunga nokuhlinzwa. Nangona bekhulile ngokwaneleyo ukuba babe nokwesaba okukhulu malunga nokuhlinzwa, bathambekele ekuziphatheni zabo iingxaki kwaye baya kuxhalabisa ngokuxhalabisa ngezinto ezinokubonakala zingalindelekanga kumntu omdala. Umntwana wakho oneminyaka engama-10 ubudala oneminyaka engama-100 ubudala uya kufuna ukuqinisekiswa ukuba abagwetywa, ukuba baya kusinda ekutyunjeni kwaye intlungu yabo iya kulawulwa.
Ngokuxhomekeke kwiminyaka yengane yakho, banokhathazeka ukuba baya kushiywa bodwa kwaye banokubuza ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuba uza kuba nini ngexesha le nkqubo. Basenokungena "kwi-syndrome", ngoko ke ukunika abantwana ngaphezu kwesaziso seveki kungeke kube yinto efanelekileyo, ngokusekelwe ekuvuthweni komntwana.
Emva kokuhlinzwa, abantwana beli lizwe baya kufuna ukuthintana nabahlobo babo, kwaye ukutyelelwa kufuneka kukhutshwe xa kulungile. Kule ngxaki ekubuyiseleni, umntwana wakho unokubanjwa phakathi kwentswelo enjengomntwana kwaye ufuna ukukhula ngexesha elifanayo. Ama-Hugs kunye nokuqinisekiswa kubalulekile kuwo onke amaqela, kodwa abantwana abaneminyaka engama-10 ubudala abanokufuna ngaphezu kwamanye abantwana kodwa bangafuni ukubonisa intswelo.
Ukuba umntwana wakho ujabulisa umbala, iincwadi zokubala eziprintwayo zingabangela ukuphendula imibuzo yazo kwaye zibonelele ngokuzonwabisa ngexesha elifanayo. Eli qela leminyaka liya kuba lamkelekile ukuba nohambo lwebhedlele kunye namagumbi okusebenza xa zikhoyo.
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Indlela Yokulungisa Umntwana Oyingxaki Yomntwana okanye Umntwana OkhulileyoAbantwana abakhulileyo, njengalezo zonyaka ophezulu kunye nezikolo eziphakamileyo, babelana ngeengxaki ezifanayo malunga nokuhlinzwa. Ngokubanzi, abantwana beli qela elibudala besaba ukufa ngexesha lotyando, bekhutshwe okanye bahluke ngokucacileyo kwiontanga zabo emva kokuhlinzwa kwaye babonisa ubuthathaka okanye ukulahleka kolawulo.
Umntwana wakho usemdala ngokwaneleyo ukuqonda oko kwenzekayo ngexesha lotyando kwaye uya kufuna ingcaciso ecacileyo kunabantwana abaselula. Bafanele babe nethuba lokubuza imibuzo yonyango lwabo kwaye kufuneka bafakwe kwiingxoxo malunga nokuhlinzwa xa benqwenela. Abantwana beli lizwe banokuva ukuba ulwazi lugcinwa kubo xa bengabandakanywa kwizigqibo kunye neengxoxo malunga nempilo yabo.
Eli qela leminyaka liyakwazi ukukhanyela ukuba naluphi na intlungu xa benentlungu emva kokuhlinzwa , ekuzame ukulawula imeko. Basenokwenzeka ukuba bayaphika ukuba banayo nayiphi na impawu yeengxaki zokugonywa , ingakumbi ukuba inkcenkcesha inokuba yintloni njengobungqina okanye ukungakwazi ukuvuthwa.
Enye indlela yokunceda eli qela leminyaka lijongene noxinzelelo lwentsebenziswano phambi kokuqala nangemva kokuba inkqubo ivumeleke ukuba bazise i-headphone, iincwadi okanye ezinye izinto ezibaphazamisayo.
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Ukulungiselela Umntwana Wakho Ngophando lwe-AnesthesiaUkulungiselela umntwana ukuhlinzwa ngemoya ngenye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu abazali abangayenza xa umntwana ejongene nenkqubo yokuhlinzwa. Ugqirha, ngaphandle kweenkcazelo ezifanelekileyo kunye nokulungiselela, kunokukhathaza abantwana.
Ukulungiselela umntwana ukuhlinzwa kungenzima, kodwa kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba abaninzi abantwana baya kuba nesimo sengqondo somzali malunga nokunyanga kwezempilo kunye nokuhlinzwa. Ukuba umzali uyothuswa okanye uhlaziyekile, umntwana unokuba noloyiko okanye ukhathazeka.
Kubalulekile ukuba ulwimi lwakho lomzimba lufanisane namazwi akho. Ukuba umzali uthe, "Kuya kuba kuhle," kodwa ulwimi lwabo luthi, "Ndiyothuka," umntwana uya kuba nesimo sengqondo sokwesaba. uloyiko xa umntwana efuna ukuhlinzwa, kodwa ukuqonda ngolu hlobo kunokuba luncedo.
Into eyona nto umzali angayenza ngaphambi kokuhlinzwa ukuba angayilungiseli umntwana, ngoko utyando luyamangaliswa kwaye abaqondi ngokupheleleyo into eyenzekayo kubo. Abantwana abathuthunyiswa yinto abaye bayisebenzisana ngayo, bahlala bekhala, bekhala, bezama ukuluma, ukukhaba okanye ukubetha abasebenzi kunye namalungu entsapho. Aba bantwana banokushiywa ukwesaba izibhedlele, ukuhlinzwa, oogqirha, oongikazi kunye nokunakekelwa kwempilo ngokubanzi.
Ingakanani ulwabelana ngayo nomntwana wakho kunye nendlela oqala ngayo ukwabelana ngolwazi yisigqibo somntu siqu. Nabani na oye wakhwela ngemoto ende uyazi ukuba abantwana bahlala bengena "ngaba silapha?" kwimodi, kwaye unenkxalabo ngcamango yokuba ukuphela kohambo kuhamba ngeeyure ezininzi. Kuyafana neemeko ezizayo, abantwana bahlala bekulwela ukuqonda ukuba usuku lokuzalwa okanye iholide okanye iKrisimesi inokuba yinyanga. Ngoko isigqibo sokuqala ukuthetha neentsuku zakho zomntwana, iiveki okanye iinyanga ngaphambi kokuba utyunjwe ngumntu ngamnye.
Abantwana abaxhatshazwa ngugqirha baye baboniswa ukuba baphinde bagxilwe kwiiveki kunye neenyanga emva kokuhlinzwa. Abantwana abaqeqeshwe ngamathambo bangaqala ukucoca umbhede, okanye bafuna ibhotile emva kokuba batyelele ukutya okuqhelekileyo. Kule meko, umonde ubalulekile, unika uthando kunye nenkxaso ngenkathi umntwana esebenza ngamava.
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Ukuzilungiselela Ingqondo Yomntwana WakhoA
Ukuba nomntwana ogulayo ofuna ukuhlinzwa kunokunyamezela kakhulu umzali. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba awuyedwa kwaye abazali abaninzi banokujamelana noxinzelelo lomntwana onokuhlinzwa rhoqo ngosuku. Unenkxaso kwinkqubo ngeli xesha elinzima linokukunceda kakhulu wena nomntwana wakho, njengokuba abantwana baqaphela kakhulu isimo sengqondo somzali. Ezinye izibhedlele zinika amaqela enkxaso kubazali ngexesha lokubhedlelelwa ngumntwana wabo, nokuba ingaba umntwana akadingi ukuhlinzwa.
Awudingi ukwenza yonke into yakho, yonke iminithi yosuku. Ukuba unenkqubo yenkxaso yentsapho kunye nabahlobo, qwa lasela ukucela uncedo phambi kwenkqubo ekulungiseleleni ixesha elilandelayo lonyango, ingakumbi ukuba umntwana wakho kulindeleke ukuba azilawule kwaye kufuneka ukuba abanjwe aze aduduzwe emva kokuhlinzwa.
Khumbula ukuba umntwana wakho uya kunyamekelwa ngabaqeqeshi ngelixa esibhedlele kwaye kukukhuthazwa ukuba uthathe ixesha lokuba ulale, uhlambe uze udle. Ukunyamekela kwakho kuya kukunceda ukubonelela ngenkxaso yakho umntwana.
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