Ukuphendula xa umntu onomdemokhrasi ufuna uMama wakhe okanye uTata

Enye yeempawu zeengqondo ziphazamisa ixesha, indawo okanye umntu . Amabhangqwana ukuba kunye nokulahlekelwa kwememori , kunye nokukwazi ukudideka.

Ngamanye amaxesha, oku kudideka kuboniswa ngokubizela unina okanye uyise. "Mama, uphi na?" "Tata, eze apha!" Umntu onomdemokhrasi angafuna ubukho bomzali ukuba anikeze ukhuseleko kunye nokuqinisekiswa kwisimo esingaqhelekanga, kwaye ukhohliwe ukuba umhlobo wakhe ufile iminyaka edlulileyo.

(Nangona eso sihlalo sihlala kwikhaya lomntu, kusenokungaqhelekanga kuye.)

Iyiphi indlela efanelekileyo yokuphendula le kholi? Yintoni ongayithethayo ukuze uqiniseke kwaye uyithuthuzele loo mntu?

Nazi iindlela ezintathu zokuzama:

• Ukuqinisekiswa

Qinisekisa iimvakalelo zomntu ngokuchitha ixesha kunye naye, ubuze imibuzo kwaye uyamqinisekisa. Unokuzama into enjengale: "Sawu Fran, ukhangelele umntu? Ndivile ukuba ufuna uncedo. Ndingakukunceda ngento ethile?"

Ukuba ubuza apho unina, unokwenene uthi, "Andiqinisekanga. Ukuba uFran uyaqhubeka ecela unina, ungazama le mibuzo: "Umama wakho wayebukeka njani? Ngaba wayengumpheki omhle? Yayinjani imboya yakhe? Wayekufundise ntoni? Uthandani ngaye? "

Ngamanye amaxesha, xa usebenzisa ukuqinisekiswa, umntu unokuthuthuzelwa ngokuthetha ngoomama okanye uyise olahlekileyo.

Ezi zikhumbuzo zanele ngokwaneleyo ukuzola kunye nokuqinisekisa loo mntu. Ngamanye amaxesha, ukuqinisekiswa kunokunceda umntu eze kwindawo ekuthethwa ngayo, "Uyazi, ndikhumbula kakhulu umama wam." Wafa iminyaka embalwa edlulileyo. "

• Ukuphazamiseka

Ukudibanisa imfuno yesigulane okanye umthandayo ngokumqinisekisa ngendlela eyahlukileyo.

Ncedise ugxininise kwizinto ezahlukeneyo kwaye zizonandipha. Zama oku: "Mama, sinokuhamba ngokuhamba kunye? Ndifuna nje ukunweba imilenze kwaye ndiqinisekile ukuba wenza njalo, Masifumane umoya omtsha. Ngaba ndingakufumana i-cookie ukuzonwabisa ngaphandle? Mama, ndinombulelo kukuba ndinokuchitha ixesha kunye nawe. "

• Uhlobo loBomi

Ngamanye amaxesha, imeko ikhula apho kulungele ukuthetha ngokuthe tye, nangona xa kunokulimaza. Umzekelo, ukuba umthandayo unenkxalabo malunga nonina okanye uyise kwaye ukholelwa ukuba bayagula okanye basengozini, kunokuba luncedo, ukuba baqhubeka nokukhathazeka kwabo, ukuba baxelele ukuba umntu sele sele efile abasayi kubaxhala malunga nabo.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, le ndlela ayilunconywanga kuba inokubangela ukuba umntu aqale inkqubo yosizi kwakhona ngokulahlekelwa ngumzali. Nangona kunjalo, kwimeko yam ekliniki, kukho amaxesha apho kunikezela ngokukhululekileyo umntu onomdemokhrasi ngenxa yokuba babeke ukuxhalabisa iingxaki zabo.

Funda ngokugqithisileyo

Ulwaphulo lokuQinisekisa ngokuBhekiswa koBomi boLwazi kwi-Dementia

Yintoni ongayithethayo xa uthandekayo kunye ne-Dementia Accuses Umfazi okanye uMlingani wokungathembeki

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