Ncedisa Umntwana Wakho WokuziThuthukisa Ukuphucula izakhono zoCwangciso lweNtlalo

Ukunxibelelana kwezentlalo ngenye yeengxaki ezingundoqo (imingeni) ye-autism. Ingaba umntu kwi-spectrum usemncinci okanye umdala, umlomo okanye ungabonakali, uyindoda okanye ibhinqa, uya kuba nexesha elilukhuni ukuqonda nokuphendula kulwimi loluntu kunye neengongoma.

Kubantu abasemagqabini amaninzi kumnxeba, unxibelelwano loluntu lunzima kakhulu.

Ukusetyenziswa kolwimi olubhaliweyo okanye olubhaliweyo lunokuba lukhulu okanye alukho. Ukuqwalaselwa ngokubodwa-ukukwazi ukunyamekela into ethile nomnye umntu-unokuthi uncitshiswe. Kubantu abanolwazi olunxibelelwano olubanzi, imiba ibandakanya ubunzima ngolwimi lomzimba, ukuhlambalaza, intetho encinci, ubudlelwane boluntu, nokuqonda imithetho engayibhalwanga malunga nexesha lokuzibonakalisa njani kwiimeko ezithile.

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Nangona uluntu olunxibelelwano lufanele lujolise ngokusisigxina kubo bonke abantwana abane-autism, "ukucinga ngentlalo" kufundiswa ngokufanelekileyo kubantwana abakhulume ngomlomo kwaye banakho ukuthetha ngokuzithethayo kunye nentlalo kunye neontanga eziqhelekileyo.

Ngoko ... yintoni intsalelo "ekucingeni kwentlalo" kubonakala ngathi? Khawucinge ngolu hlobo:

Umntwana uhamba kwindawo yokutya. Uhamba emgceni wexesha lasemini ngokufanelekileyo, mbulela abafazi basemini, uhlawule imali yakhe kwaye uthathe utshintsho lwakhe. Uhlala phantsi, uqala ukutya, kwaye ubonakala eqhelekileyo ukuba enye iqela lezingane lihleli phantsi kuye.

Nangona ngokucacileyo abazimisele ukumbandakanya, uqala ukuthetha nabo. No kuthetha. No kuthetha. Bayeke ngokukhawuleza, kodwa uyabagatya - ukuxoxa ngokuqhubekayo malunga nezibalo ze-baseball. Ekugqibeleni, abanye abantwana bayahamba, bevula amehlo abo.

Lo mntwana, mhlawumbi uxilongwe nge-Asperger syndrome-okanye ephezulu esebenza nge-autism-unokuqonda kakuhle kakuhle "kwezakhono" zentlalo. Uyazi indlela yokulawula umgca wesidlo sasemini, ukuba uthini, indlela yokuphatha imali.

Unako ukukhetha isihlalo aze adle ukutya kwakhe kwasemini. Kodwa xa kuziwa ekulawuleni ubudlelwane babantu, uhlala olwandle.

Into elahlekileyo, ngokutsho kwengcalikazi uMichelle Garcia Winner, ukucinga ngentlalo kunye nezakhono zentlalo ehlobene. "I-Autism yinto yokukhubazeka yokufunda ngentlalo. [Unokufundiswa ukuba] uvelise isakhono, kodwa akwanele," kusho uMninimzi. "Thina ... sidinga ulwazi loluntu oluphantsi kwekhono."

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Ufundisa njani umntwana ukuba "afunde" iziqendu zentlalo ezifana nolwimi lomzimba, ukukhanya kwamehlo, ithoni yezwi, okanye ukusondela kwenyama? Kukho inani lezixhobo abazali, ootitshala kunye nabafundisi abangasebenzisa ukunceda.

Iingcamango zentlalo sisihloko esinzima kakhulu, kwaye bambalwa abantu - autistic okanye hayi-baziva beyifumene kakuhle. Ngokusebenza kunye nabaphengululi kunye nezicwangciso zendalo, usebenzisa izixhobo ezibonakalisiweyo, kunye nokunceda umntwana wakho ukuba athole amaqela axhasayo kunye namandla akhe, nangona kunjalo, unokunceda umntwana wakho ukuba aphucule kakhulu amandla akhe okucinga kakuhle kwintlalo imeko.

Izibonelelo:

Omkhulu, iTempile noBarron, uSean. Imithetho engabhaliweyo yoBudlelwane beNtlalontle. Ixesha elizayo i-Horizons: Arlington, TX. C 2005

Udliwano-ndlebe noMichelle Garcia Winner, ngo-Oktobha 2007.

Umninimzi, uMichelle G. Cinga ngeNtlalo! IKharityhulam yeCandelo loCwangciso loLuntu kwiBanga labaFundi beSikolo. UMichelle Garcia Winner: eCalifornia C 2005