Isitayela sakho somzali asinakubangela i-autism, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yiziphi iingcali ezazikholelwa ngaphambili.
Igama elithi "umama wefriji" liye laqulunqwa ukuchaza umzali onobubele obandayo, obengenakukhathalela kangangokuthi umntwana wakhe wamkhathaza kangangokuthi waphinde wangena kwi-autism. Le nkulumo yayiqale iqulunqwe nguLean Kanner, owanika igama lakhe nge-autism. Le ngcamango yabangela intlungu eninzi kwiintsapho ezininzi kwiminyaka emashumi ngaphambi kokuba idibanwe ngawo-1960.
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USigmund Freud, uyise weengqondo zanamhlanje, wayekholelwa ukuba phantse zonke iingxaki zengqondo zibangelwa ukuxhwala komntwana.
I-Autism yayikholelwa ukuba yindlela yokugula kwengqondo, kwaye ke kwakuqiqweni ukucinga ukuba kubangelwa ukuxhatshazwa kwangaphambili.
Kamva, njengoovulindlela be-autism uLoan Kanner noHans Asperger baqalisa ukuhlola ingxaki leyo, basebenze phantse ngokubodwa ngabazali abangaphantsi kweklasi ababenokuzibonakalisa bazibonakalisa bebonke bebonke bebanda.
ULanner Kanner utyhilwa ngokuba sele equlunqa ibinzana elithi "Umfrijini," mhlawumbi ngawo-1930. Nangona wayekholelwa ukuba i-autism mhlawumbi yayingenangqondo kumntwana, waphinde wabona ukubonakala kubanda kubomama bakhe abagulane kwaye bacinga ukuba oku kwongezwa kwingxaki.
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UBruno Bettelheim, uprofesa owaziwayo wokuphuhlisa abantwana, wayevelele kakhulu phakathi kwama-1940 nakwa-1970. Kwakhona wayengumgqugquzeli omkhulu, kwaye wayehlala echazwe kumaphephandaba. Wabamba ingcamango yeFriji yeFriji waza wafanisa laba bazali kubagcini kwinkampu yoxinaniso yamaNazi.
Incwadi yaseBhetelheim I-Empty Fortress: Infantile Autism kunye nokuzalwa kwe-Self, kunye nokubonakala kwakhe kwiimpawu zethelevishini yelizwe eliphambili kunye namaphephancwadi athandwayo kunceda ukuguqula umqondo "umama" wefriji kwindawo eyaziwayo.
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UDkt. Bernard Rimland, umsunguli oshonile kunye nomlawuli we- Autism Research Institute , ubizwa ngokuba yi-debunking le ngqungquthela.
Njengomzali womntwana one-autism, wayenomdla ekuhloliseni nasekuqondeni kangcono izizathu ze-autism-kwaye ekutshitshweni kwengcamango eyaziwayo yokuba umzali ohluphekileyo wayemele abekwe ityala. Uphando lwakhe, kunye nomsebenzi wakhe ekuveliseni abazali ndawonye njengabazimela, batshintsha ukucinga ngeengcambu ze-autism. Ngasekuqaleni kwee-1970, ingcamango yokuba "oomama befriji" yayingasamkelwa, kwaye iindlela zokubeletha zazingasayi kugxininisa uphando kwizinto ezibangelwa yi-autism.
Abazali ne-Autism Namhlanje
Namhlanje, kuvunyelwene ngokubanzi ukuba i-autism ibangelwa yintlangano yemfuza kunye neyendalo-kwaye ingabandakanyeki "nokuzala okubandayo." Nangona kunjalo, abazali basesesikhundleni esishisayo. Nangona bengabangelwa ukuba babangele abantwana babo, bahlala bekulindeleke ukuba baphathe okanye bafumane unyango . Ingaba njengabaphengululi kunye nabameli okanye ngabaphandi kunye nezigqibo zonyango, abazali basesimweni esinomthwalo onzima.
Ukujamelana Neentlungiso
Ukuzala umntwana nge autism ngumsebenzi onzima. Enye yezona zinto zinzima kakhulu ukulawula ulwaphulo lwezono eziza kuxilongwa . Ngaba siye sabangela ingxaki ngokuvumela ukugonywa ? Ngokutyhila umntwana wethu kwi-toxin?
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