Indlela yokwenza isigqibo malunga Nokuba utshintshe oogqirha
Abanye abantu abanenhlanhla baye bamisela ubudlelwane babo bonke oogqirha. Baye bazi kakuhle oogqirha babo, kukho intlonelo kunye nokwethemba, kwaye abazange bajonge ukutshintsha oogqirha . Abanye abantu abanalo inhlanhla. Ngamanye amaxesha, isigqibo sokutshintsha oogqirha silawulwa yimpembelelo ngaphandle ngaphandle kokuzikhethela.
Kukho izizathu ezininzi ezinokuthi ungacinga ukutshintsha oogqirha:
- Wena nentsapho yakho nishukuthela kwindawo entsha ekude kude nogqirha wakho wangoku.
- Inkampani yakho ye-inshorensi ayisekho izivumelwano kunye nodokotela wakho wangoku. Oku kunenjongo enkulu yokutshintsha iinkampani zomshuwalense njengoko kukutshintsha oogqirha. Ukuba unelisekile ngonyango lwakho, unokukhetha ukuhlaziya i-inshorensi yakho endaweni yokutshintsha.
- Ukukhetha kwakho ubomi kukunyanzela ukuba wenze utshintsho. Ukutshata nokukhetha i -inshorensi yakho entsha ye-inshorensi yakho ngokwakho, okanye ukuqhawula umlingane wakho unokufuna ukuba ufumane ugqirha.
- Umsebenzi wakho ugqirha, okanye ugqirha wakho uhamba nomsebenzi wakhe. Oogqirha bashiya umhlala-phantsi, batshintshe imisebenzi, balahlekelwa iilayisensi zabo, banqatshelwe i- inshurensi yokungasebenzi , baze bagqithise, baxinzelele izigulane ukuba bafumane enye indlela.
- Akunakuvakala ukuba oogqirha baya "kutshisa" isigulane . Ngamanye amaxesha ulwalamano lunzima kangangokuthi ugqirha okanye isigulane asinelisekile ngawo. Ugqirha unokuba ngowokuqala ukufumanisa ingxaki ebuhlotsheni, kwaye ungashiywa ngaphandle kogqirha.
- Unengxaki yezokwelapha efuna uluvo lwesibini . Kule meko, awuyi kuba utshintsho oogqirha; ufuna nje omnye ugqirha ukuba ukhangela imeko yakho yezokwelapha ngokusondeleyo.
- Ufika ekuqinisekiseni ukuba "kuhle" kunye "nendlela efanelekileyo yokulala komgca" akafaneki ngokufanelekileyo. Unokuba unqika ukutshintsha, kodwa uzive unokunyamekela kwenye indawo.
- Ufumana ukungaxakeki kwimeko evela kugqirha. Kungenokuba nzima ukukhomba, kodwa ukuba ugqirha unokukwenza uzive ukhululekile, uthembela ukuba uzive kwaye wenze utshintsho. Ukususela kwiingxaki zokusetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi ukungakwazi ukulawula umsindo kwimikhwa emibi, kwiingxaki zokucoceka - awukwazi nokuba unokwazi ukuphawula ingxaki, kodwa nokuba yintoni, ayiyi kubonakala ilungile kuwe.
- Unesiva sokuba omnye ugqirha uyakunxibelelana kangcono, ahloniphe ngaphezu kwakho, okanye umlingane wakho ngempumelelo. Esi sinesizathu esihle sokuba naliphi na ukufuna ugqirha omtsha . Ukuthembela kunye nokuhlonipha kubaluleke kakhulu phakathi kogqirha kunye nesigulane. Ukungaqondisi kakuhle izilindelo zakho, ukusebenzisa i-med-speak, ukungaphumeleli ukubonelela ngeziphumo zokuvavanya okanye ezinye izimpendulo, izigulane zinokukhungatheka ngeengxaki zokunxibelelana. Kunesizathu esininzi sokutshintsha oogqirha.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuba ucinga ukwenza utshintsho, ungathathi isigqibo ngokulula. Wena kunye nogqirha bakho batyalomali kulwalamano, kwaye utshintsho olunjalo aluyi kuba lula kumnye wenu. Ixesha, iphepha kunye neenkcukacha ziya kufuneka zihlulwe.
Emva kokuba ugqibe ekubeni ukutshintsha oogqirha kuyinto efanelekileyo yokwenza, uya kufuna ukulandela iziphakamiso zokuqinisekisa ukuba utshintsho lusebenza kakuhle.
Kubulumko ukuseka ubudlelwane obutsha ngokwenza utshintsho ngaphambi kokuxakeka okanye ubunzima bezempilo.