... Xa UYAZI into ephosakeleyo!
Zingaphi izihlandlo ugqirha athi, "Akukho nto iphosakeleyo kuwe," emva kokukhangela iziphumo zokuhlolwa kwegazi okanye izicatshulwa?
Kuqhelekile ukuba thina kunye ne- fibromyalgia kunye nesifo esingapheliyo sokugula ukuva oko, ekubeni ezi zigulo azifumaneki ngumsebenzi wegazi okanye ukucinga, kodwa kunoko zifumanisa ukukhutshwa.
Uninzi lwabantu bacinga ukuba zonke iziphumo ezimbi ziindaba ezilungileyo.
Nangona kunjalo, xa uyazi into ephosakeleyo, xa iphazamisa ubomi bakho, xa unenkxalabo yokuba ayiyi kuhamba okanye - yimbi - ingaba yinto ebulalayo, into yokugqibela ofuna ukuyizwa kukuba, "Yonke into ibonakala kakuhle. "U
Xa ubhekene naloo nto, kunokuba nzima ukuqhubeka ugxotha ugqirha wakho ukuba ufunde oko kwenzekayo. Nangona kunjalo, abaninzi bethu bafumanisa ukuba kubalulekile ukwenza oko kanye, kuba yintoni ekhokelela ekuxilongweni nasekunyangeni.
Xa ivela kubahlobo okanye kwintsapho
Singaba yingxaki yangempela xa amalungu omndeni okanye abahlobo bethatha "akukho nto iphosakeleyo kuwe". Oku kwenzeka rhoqo kuba banzima ukukholelwa kwinto xa kungekho bungqina bokuba bayakubona. Abantu bafuna ukukwazi ukubheka into ethile bathi, "Kukho ingxaki, khona apho."
Ngale miqathango (kunye nabanye abaninzi), akunakwenzeka. Ngaphezulu koko, iimpawu zethu zivame ukuguquka. Xa uvakalelwa njani, kwaye ngoko ke ukuziphatha kwakho, akuhambelani, kwandisa ukungathandabuzeki kwabo.
Ukuba ujamelene nemeko enjengale, unokuba ufuna ukucinga ngeendlela ezimbalwa. Imfundo inokunceda, kubandakanywa amanqaku achaza ukugula okanye ukuba ahambe kunye noqeshwe ugqirha.
Ukuba ubuhlobo obuphambili ebomini bakho (umlingane, umzali, umntwana, iqabane lomlingani), unokufuna ukufumana iingcebiso zomtshato okanye intsapho ukubanceda ukuba baqonde kakuhle imeko.
Ukuba ubuhlobo obuncinci kunye nemfundo ayisebenzisekanga, cingisisa ukuba ngaba ulwalamano luyimfuneko. Ulwalamano olunobungozi lunokwenza umonakalo omkhulu, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha sinokuba ngcono ngaphandle komntu othile ebomini bethu.
Xa kuziwa kwabanye abantu, njengabasebenzi abambisene nabo, asikwazi ukulawula ubukho babo kubomi bethu kwaye akufanelekanga ukuba uzame ukufundisa ngeengxaki zempilo zakho. Kwizo zihlandlo, unokwenza isigqibo sokuba uya kumphathi okanye umntu onobuncwane uya kuba luncedo.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba uluphi uhlobo lweminye imibono yabantu kwiimeko zakho, qiniseka ukuba ezi zinyani, izifo zengqondo kunye neminyaka emininzi yophando emva kwabo. Unenkampani enhle kwizigidi zabantu abasemhlabeni wonke ababelana ngesifo sakho kunye neempawu zakho kunye nokwesaba kwakho. Kubalulekile ukuzama ukufumana inkxaso apho unokukwazi khona.