Kuyintoni ukuHlanganisa / Ukuzihlamba okuMileyo
Ukuqhaqhaqhaqha isithuba sezandla lobugcisa " okomileyo ". Kuchazwe njengomsebenzi wesondo apho abantu bethwala imizimba yabo. Ukufuthwa kungenziwa okanye uhamba okanye umbethe. Inkcazo yokumisa oomileyo kukuthi, ngamanye amagama, ayifani ngokuthe ngqo malunga nenqanaba loqhagamshelwano lolusu lolusu . Kukho ukubandakanyeka komzimba ngomzimba.
(Oko kuxhomekeke kwindlela ovusa ngayo umlingani ngamnye, kunye nendlela abagqoke ngayo iimpahla.) Ngamanye amazwi, ukuxuma okumileyo akunako ukuba "kome". Kodwa ke, ukomile kunokuba ulala nesini okanye ulala!
Ngaba Ukuxhatshazwa NgokweSondo Kukhuselekile?
Xa zenziwe zambethe, i-frottage ifom ekhuselekileyo yokuqhagamshelana ngesondo. (Ewe, ukhuselekile kade kungekho namnye owela phezu kombhede ... okanye embhedeni). Akukho nto ishintshiselwano yamanzi omzimba okanye isikhumba ukunqanda uxhumano. Ngako oko kuphela indlela yokudlulisela i-STD yokumanga . Ngaloo ndlela, abaninzi abantu bayifumana into evuyisayo, umsebenzi wokuqala wesondo kunye neqabane elitsha.
Nangona uhamba nge-naked, kunjalo, ukunqumla kungabandakanywa nomlinganiselo othile wobungozi. Ezinye izifo, ezinjengeengxabano zomzimba , zingadluliselwa kwilinen ukuya esikhwameni ngexesha lomsebenzi omile. Nangona kunjalo, i-frottage isasondeka kakhulu kunezinye iindlela ezininzi zesini. Unokwenza kwakhona ukhuseleko ngokufihla nayiphi na isikhumba esichengeni.
Ngokomzekelo, unokugqoka iingubo zangaphantsi okanye ufake ii-band-aids kwiimvumba ezingabonakaliyo okanye izilonda.
Isenzo esifanayo sesondo, esicatshulwe ngokubanzi kwizantshi , yi-tribadism. Nangona kunjalo, i-tribadism ivame ukuchazwa njengokutshiza i-vulva malunga nomlenze okanye enye inxalenye yomzimba yokuvuselela ngokwesondo. (Oku kunokwenziwa yintokazi engabalingani abangatshatanga.) Ngokwahlukileyo, ukuxubusha akuhlali kubandakanya ukuvuselelwa ngokusemthethweni kwezesondo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo kunokuquka ukukhuthazwa okunjalo. Ichazwe nje nje ngokuba umzimba uphonsa ngokubanzi ngokubanzi.
Ngubani onobungakanani?
Ukuxhoma ngokukhawuleza kuyindlela eqhelekileyo yokubandakanyeka ngokwesondo phakathi kwabaselula kunye nabantu abadala. Yinto into yokuba bonke abantu baqhelanise ngesondo kunye nolwazi lwesini. Ukuxhamla kungenziwa njengomsebenzi onandiphayo kwaye ngokwawo. Ingasetyenziselwa njengendlela ye-foreplay ngaphambi kwezinye iintlobo zesenzo sokubelana ngesondo.
Ukufutha akubandakanyi ukungena okanye, ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuvuselela ngokobulili. Ngako oko, abanye abantu abanokuthi bangabonakali ukuba luhlobo lwesini. Nangona kunjalo, njengoko kunokukhokelela ekunandiseni, ukuvusa, kunye ne-orgasm, ndingavumi ukuvumelani. Oko kuthetha, konke kuxhomekeke kwingcaciso yomntu ngesondo . Akukho ncazelo yendalo yonke eyenziwa yilowo nalowo.
Ukungaxhamli kwempahla
Ukufutha kungasetyenziswa njengendlela yokuhlaselwa ngokwesondo. Umzimba ongafanelanga nokungafunekiyo wokuhlambalaza ngokwesondo unikwe ingxelo njengengxaki kubini ngasese nakwezinye iindawo zoluntu. Abaninzi abasetyhini, ngokukodwa, baye bahlushwa ngale ndlela. Njengaye nezinye iintlobo zokuhlaselwa ngokwesondo, oku kunokukhokelela kwiingxaki zengqondo ezifutshane kunye nexesha elide.
Umnqweno wokungaqhathanisi, okanye i-frotteurism, uhlelwe njenge-paraphilia kwi-Manual Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM).
Ebizwa ngokuba yi-Frotteuristic Disorder kwi-DSM-5, ukuxilongwa kufunekile ukucinga, okanye ukuxubha, umntu ongenamvume. Ngokwahlukileyo, ukunwabalala kokuqhoqhozela ngokuqhelekileyo akuthathwa njengengxaki yengqondo.
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