Ngaba wakha wafakaza okanye wafumana le meko?
UMthetho oYilwayo usichitha ngemini emva kokutyelela umhlobo wakhe kwindawo ekhuselekileyo yokugula kwengqondo kwikhilomitha ezintathu ukusuka ekhaya. Uyakhathala kwaye uye wagqiba ixesha lokuba ahambe ekhaya, kodwa uyesabisa isimo esivamekile xa eshiya uSarah. Ngomnene uyamnika ingqungquthela aze amxelele ukuthi uyamthanda aze amkhumbuze ukuba uya kubuya emva kokutya ukuze aphinde abone naye ngaphambi kokulala.
USarah, noko ke, uyacaphuka kwaye athukuthele , efuna ukuba akamthandi kwaye amcela ukuba amthathe naye. Uyambambezela aze amxube kwakhona aze aphunyuke kunye naye ngokumsukela aze aphinde akhala . Uhamba eminyango ekhuselekileyo kwaye emva kwakhe uva iingcango ezikufutshane kwaye uva uSara ecanda emnyango aze amcele ukuba abuyele. Uyasula iinyembezi emehlweni akhe aze aphefumle ngokuphefumula, ekwazi ukuba lo mfanekiso uza kuphinda ubuyekeze kwakhona ngexesha elizayo xa ehamba.
USara unesifo se-Alzheimer , kwaye nangona uBill uyamthanda kakhulu, akakwazi ukunyamekela kwakhe ekhaya. Wayekwazi ukuhlala ixesha elide kodwa oko kwaba yinto eninzi kuye kwaye impilo yakhe yahlaselwa. Ugqirha wakhe wagqibela wamxelela ukuba kufuneka enze into eyahlukileyo ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zakhe kunye naye.
Yintoni uBill kunye nabasebenzi abangayenza ukuze bashiye uSara emva kokumtyelela kancinci, kokubili kuye nangenxa yakhe?
Kuxhomekeke kwimibandela emininzi, kubandakanywa yiphi isigaba se-Alzheimer kunye nobuntu bakhe. Zama ezi 5 zendlela:
1. Gubungela amandla okuphazamiseka
UBill ungadinga ukucela abasebenzi ukuba bamncede ngokuphazamisa uSara xa sekufuneka ukuba ahambe. Injongo ayiyikukhohlisa, kodwa kunokuba inomdla kuSara kwenye into ukwenzela ukuba inqubo yokuhlukanisa ayimonakalisi.
Unokuba nomdla ngexesha lesidlo sasemini, ekudlaleni ipiyano okanye eklasini yokusebenzisa.
2. Hlaziya kwakhona iSara okanye iShedyuli sikaYilwayo
Mhlawumbi uSara udinga ukuthatha i-nap yangaphambili kwaye uBill angashenxisa xa elele. Okanye, mhlawumbi uSara uza kwenza ngcono ngetyelelo lokusa kunye noBill angaya ekhaya xa ixesha lakhe lasemini.
3. Sebenzisa iTeknoloji
Kuthekani ukuba uSara uyaba nomsindo xa efumanisa ukuba uBill ushiye xa elele? Unokuzama ukurekhoda okufutshane okanye ukurekhoda kweBhiliyithi ukuba kufuneka asebenze i-errand kwaye uyamthanda kwaye uza kubuya ngokukhawuleza. Yena (okanye abasebenzi) bangadlala loo myalezo ukuba amqinisekise ukuba ubuya kwakhona.
4. Abathandayo Abasebenzi
Mhlawumbi kukho ilungu elithile lomsebenzi uSara elithandayo kwaye ngubani okwazi ukuzinqabisa nokumqinisekisa. Cwangcisa phambili nangaloo mntu malunga naluphi ixesha kunye neentsuku ezisebenza kakuhle ngotyelelo. Le ngenye yeenzuzo ezininzi zabasebenzi abaqhubekayo ekunyamekeni kwengqondo .
5. Yazi Umntu ngamnye
Le yindlela ebaluleke kakhulu kubasebenzi abasebenza noSara. Kulilungelo kunye nenembopheleleko yokufunda ukwazi ubuntu bakhe, izinto ezithandayo, izinto ezibangele ukukhathazeka, kunye noko kuyathuthuzelayo nokukhuthaza.
Baya kusebenzisana kunye noBill kwaye babuze ngaye ngembali yakhe, umsebenzi wakhe, intsapho yakhe, iitalente zakhe kunye nemihlali yakhe-kwaye basebenzise olu lwazi ukuphuhlisa indlela eyahlukeneyo. Kwaye, xa befumana into esebenza kakuhle, abasebenzi kufuneka bahlanganyele impumelelo kwaye baqinisekise ukuba indlela eyanceda ikwaziswa kwabanye.
Umthombo:
Lippincott Nursing Centre.com. Izibonelelo ezingcono zoKhathalelo olungcono. Iingxaki ezihambisana neDementia. AJN, American Journal of Nursing, Julayi 2005 http://www.nursingcenter.com/lnc/CEArticle?an=00000446-200507000-00028&Journal_ID=54030&Issue_ID=591242