Ukunyuka kwexesha lokugqibela , ngezinye izikhathi kuthiwa yi-ejaculation ekhawulezayo, kubakho ukuqhutyelwa kwe-ejaculation phambi kwezimvo zobabini bezesondo. Isizathu, okanye izizathu, aziqondi kakuhle. Iinkcazo ze-ejaculation ezahlukeneyo ukusuka kwi-biological to purely psychological, kanti ezinye zibonisa ukuba ubudlelwane obuyinkimbinkimbi phakathi kwe-biology kunye nengqondo.
Iimeko zengqondo, nangona kunjalo, ziyaziwa ziba zimbi okanye ziye zanciphisa i-ejaculation yexesha elide kungenxa yoko unyango lunokubandakanya ukwelashwa kwengqondo.
Impembelelo yengqondo
Ukunyuka kwexesha lokugqibela kunokunciphisa ukuzithemba, kwenza amadoda anganqikazi ukuqala ubudlelwane obutsha okanye ukukhokelela kwiinkxalabo ukuba iqabane lingasifumana ubudlelane nomnye umntu. Ngaphakathi kobudlelwane, amadoda angaziva engacatshangwanga, ukuba iqabane lawo alingazi ukuba lukhulu kangakanani ukukhungatheka nokuthotywa. Amaqabane abo angabandezeleka ngenxa yokwesaba ukuphazamisa indoda yabo ngokugqithiseleyo okanye inokukhungatheka ngokubonakala kokungafuneki komntu ukulungisa ingxaki.
Iinzuzo zeengqondo
UStanley E. Althof, Ph.D., evela kwiziko leMpilo neMitshato yaseSouth Florida, uhlalutye amandla kunye nokunciphisa ukungenelela kweengqondo ezahlukeneyo ukulungiselela ukuhlaselwa kwangaphambili. Uvakalelwa kukuba i-psychotherapy yedwa ibhetele kubantu okanye kwizibini apho iingxaki ngokucacileyo zengqondo-ngokomzekelo, kubangelwa ukuxinezeleka okanye ukuxhalaba komsebenzi.
Iindlela ezikhoyo zengqondo ye-psychotherapy zigxininisa ukulawulwa kokunyuka kokufunda ngokufunda iindlela ezintsha, ukuzithemba, ukunciphisa uxhalabo nokufunda ungcono.
Psychotherapy ngamnye
Amadoda angatshati angabonxulumene, u-psychotherapy ngamnye unokunceda ukulungisa ukungafuni kwamadoda ukungena kwiintsebenziswano.
Kubantu ababudlelwane, i-psychotherapy ngamnye inokukunceda xa ukubonakala kakubi kubonakala kwimiba yobuntwaneni okanye ukwesaba okugqithisileyo okanye inzondo kubafazi.
I-psychotherapy ngayinye ingabonwa ngokuhlola ukuphuhliswa kobungqina bokungena kwiintsebenziswano, kunye noyiko okanye inzondo kubafazi. Iyakwazi nokuba nokuziphatha, kwaye isakhono esithile singafundwa ekuncedeni ukulawula ukunyuka , ukuphucula ukukhupha, nokulawula uxhala.
Iintlobo zengqondo zengqondo
Izibini, i-psychotherapy edibeneyo inokunceda apho abambini amaqabane abakhuthazwayo ukuba bafune unyango kwaye apho izinto ezibandakanyekayo kwi-ejaculation engaphambi kwexesha zingahlolwa.
Amanyathelo athatywayo angabonwa ngophando, ejongene nemibandela ebuhlotsheni obangela inxaxheba kwimiba yesondo kunye ne-ejaculation engaphambi kwexesha, okanye kunokuziphatha, ukuphonononga ubuchule obuthile malunga nokulawulwa kwe-ejaculatory kunye nokuvusa okusebenzayo ngqo kunye ne sibini ndawonye ("unyango lwezesondo" ).
Psychotherapy With Medication
Ukudibanisa amayeza kunye neengqondo zengqondo, ngokutsho kukaDkt. Althof, unikezela ngezona zimbini zehlabathi. Umphumo wamachiza athile ukulibaziseka ukunyuka kunokunceda ekwakheni ukuzithemba ngaphambi kokuba unyango lwezengqondo lusetyenziswe.
Ekuhambeni kwexesha, loo mntu unokufundiswa ukuba angayesabi ukuvuswa kwakhe kunye nokuya kwezinye iinjongo. Xa sele ifikeleleke, amadoda amaninzi angasuswa kumachiza ngokupheleleyo.
Ngaba i-Psychological Treatment Work?
Izifundo zonyango lwezesondo zihlala zincinci kwaye zingalawulwa. Oku kuhleli kakuhle xa kuqhathaniswa nophando olwenziwe ngophando lwezobugcisa olubandakanya uphando olubanzi olulawulwe ngolu hlobo.
Iziphumo eziphambili zempumelelo yezifundo zesondo ezikhulu ezenziwa nguMasters kunye noJohnson (1970) azizange ziphindwe kwiingxelo ezilandelayo. Zonke iiphononongo zengxelo elandelelanayo yokulandelelana kwendoda yokutyeba ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ngezinga eliphakamileyo elinama-75 ekhulwini, nangona ukwaneliseka ngokwesondo kubonakala kulungile.
Ekulinganiseni, uDkt. Althof ukholelwa ukuba unyango lweengqondo lubalulekile kubo bobabini kunye nezibini, nokuba ngaba ingqondo yengqondo yomzimba isetyenziswa kunye namayeza. Iziphumo, uyakholelwa, ubhekiselele ekuphuculweni ngokubanzi kwintlalo yesini kunye nolonelwane lobuhlobo.
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