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Iingcaphuno ziyakhuthaza abantu ngeendlela ezininzi, ngakumbi xa zijongene nokuxilongwa kwesifo somhlaza. Sekunjalo siyazi ukuba abantu banamaqela amaninzi ahambayo. Siye sakhetha ezinye zeengcaphulo zethu ezizithandayo ezininzi zezinto ezijikelezayo kunye nemingeni, njengokuba sele ufumene unyango, ngelixa uhlaselwa unyango, kunye nehlazo onokujamelana nalo ngenxa yomhlaza wakho kunye nalabo abathandayo ababuhlungu. Siyathemba ukuba bakuzisa amandla, isibindi, ithemba, kwaye bambalwa abamamothekayo endleleni.

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Xa usanda Kuxilongwa

Oku kunokubangela ukwethusa xa usufumana uvavanyo lokuqala. Akukhathali ukuba unomdla wokuqala unyango, okanye umhlaza wesifo se-metastatic, izifundo zisitshela ukuba ukutshatyalaliswa kokuqala nokuphonsa kwi-coaster coaster kuyafana.

Ukuba uvile nje igama elithi "C", kukho iingcinga ezimbalwa ezicinga ukucinga ngazo (ngaphandle kokuzisa ithemba lobuxoki). Kunokukunceda ukuba uqaphele ukuba inani labasindile bomhlaza eMelika nasehlabathini lonke likhula, kwaye baninzi balaba bantu baphila ubomi obuqhamo, obunomdla, kunye novuyo emva kokonyango. Kungaba luncedo ukuba uqaphele ukuba unyango lwawo, kunye namazinga okusinda, ukusuka kwimihlaza enomdla njengomdlavuza wamaphaphu uphucula. Kunokukunceda ukuva ukuba kungekhona kuphela ukuphucula unyango, kodwa sifumana unyango ngeempembelelo ezimbalwa, okanye ubuncinci, unyango olungcono ukulawula iziphumo zecala.

Sekunjalo, ezi zigugu azicingelwa ukugxotha iimvakalelo zakho ezimbi ezifuna ukubonakaliswa. Asinayo nayiphi na isifundo esithi "ukugcina isimo sengqondo esilungileyo" kuphucula ubomi, kodwa sifunde izifundo ezibonisa ukubamba iimvakalelo ezingalunganga.

"I- cancer iyigama, kungekhona isigwebo ." - John Diamond

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Ngexesha loPhulo

Sidla ngokukhawuleza ukugqiba isigaba sonyango somhlaza (kunye nesigaba sokuqala samanomdlavuza), ngokuqinisekileyo ukubeka ubomi kubambe de kube unyango luphelile. Kodwa nangona ngethuba lezona zininzi kunokuba ungayifumana intsingiselo novuyo, kwaye abaninzi abantu babukela emva kwezi ntsuku zonyango, nangona nemiphumo emibi.

Njengengxelo efanelekileyo kule ngcaphulo yokugqibela, ngokuqinisekileyo izifundo zibonise ukuba uxinzelelo lomhlaza (ukunyamezeleka kwengqondo emva koko) kubangela ukuba utshintsho oluhle kulabo abaphila nomhlaza. Ngamanye amazwi, umdlavuza utshintsha abantu ngendlela ezilungileyo !

" Ngaloo mini kuba ubomi, ngokuba ijob sele sele iphupha kwaye ngomso ngumbono nje kuphela. Kodwa namhlanje iphile kakuhle yenza ilanga liphuphe ulonwabo, kwaye yonke imihla ingomso wethemba ." - Umzekeliso weSanskrit

" Ngezinye iintsuku akukho nto ingayi kuba neengoma entliziyweni yakho ." - Emory Austin

" Abantu abahle kakhulu esibaziyo ngabo bawazi ukutshatyalaliswa, ukubandezeleka okuyaziwayo, ukulwa nokulahleka okuwaziwayo, kwaye bafumene indlela yabo yokuphuma ezinzulwini. Aba bantu banombulelo, uvakalelo, nokuqonda ubomi obubazalisayo ngovelwano, ubumnene, kunye nenkxalabo enothando. Abantu abalungileyo abakwenzeki nje. "- U-Elizabeth Kubler-Ross

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Iingcaphuno Ukuba Unosifo

" Kulo lonke isilonda kunobunzima, kwaye inqabileyo ibhekisela ibali. Ibali elithi," Ndasinda! "- uCraig Scott"

Xa ukulungiswa kweJapan kuphuhliwe izinto, ziyakwenza umonakalo ngokuzalisa imifuziselo ngegolide. Bakholelwa ukuba xa kukho into eyonakaliswe yinto kwaye inembali iba yinto enhle. "- UBarbara Bloom

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Ukuphila neCarcer

" Khumbula. Awufi ngenxa yomhlaza ... Uhlala nalo! " - Umthombo ongaziwayo

"Abantu abangaphezu kwezigidi ezili-10 baseMerika bahlala nomhlaza, kwaye babonisa ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba baphila ngaphezu komhlaza. " - USheryl Crow

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Iingcaphuno zabathandekayo bezonyango zomhlaza

Akukho mntu ufumana umhlaza kwisithuba sokuphucula, kwaye kubalulekile ukuba awuvumeli kuphela ukuxhaswa kwabathandekayo, kodwa intlungu yabo. Abadlali abanomdlavuza abanomdla kuphela abanomdla kunye nemingeni yabo, kodwa banokubambana nempilo engafanelekanga ngenxa yoko. Ukuba nguwe lo, khawula umzuzu ukuba ucinge ngendlela onokuzinyamekela ngayo njengomncedisi .

" Xa umntu omnye efumana umhlaza, intsapho yonke iyaba nomhlaza. " - UShirley Corder

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Iingcaphuno zalabo abatshiza

Ukuthotywa kungabetha abantu abathile benomdlavuza, kwaye "ndiyathanda" kwaye "ndimele ndibe". Inkcazo yezinye i-cancer iyakongeza kule nyala. Ukuba ujamelana nale nto, njengomdlavuza wesifo somphunga wesifo somlilo awuyedwa . Kodwa ukuphiliswa okwenyaniso kuthetha ukuvumela ukuba ityala lihambe. Akukho mntu unomdlavuza. Ikhefu. Kwaye asinakuguqula ixesha elidlulileyo. Kodwa sinokuqhubeka phambili ngaphandle kwenhliziyo ecingwe ngumthwalo wento esiyikwazi ukuyitshintsha. Ukulwa nomhlaza kuthatha amandla. Musa ukuvumela izinto ongenakukwazi ukutshintsha ukusuka kwidlulileyo udle amandla akho namhlanje.

" Nangona kungekho namnye ongabuya kwaye enze isiqalo esitsha saloo mntu, ubani unokuqala ukususela ngoku kwaye enze i-brand new ending ." - uCarl Bard

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Iingcaphuno Xa Ubhekene Ne-Stigma ye-Cancer Cancer

Sasichukumisa kwi-stigma ngaphambili, kodwa akusiyo umdlavuza wamaphaphu kuphela ophethe ihlazo. Kubonakala ngathi kukho ukutyekela kuluntu ukufuna ukubeka amaleyibhile kubantu. "Le nto" banomdlavuza. Enyanisweni, yindlela yokukhusela. Akukho namnye kuthi ufuna ukuvuma inyaniso. Ukuba nabani nawuphi na umdala kunye nayiphi na indlela yokuphila unokufumana umhlaza. Kodwa sinako. Impendulo yethu ku-Kathryn Joosten iya kuba, "nabani abaneemiphunga bangakwazi ukufumana umdlavuza wamaphaphu."

"Ndinguye kuphela 'udumo' ukuba uluntu malunga nomhlaza wamaphaphu ." - Kathryn Joosten

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Quotes zenkolo

" Yondla ukholo lwakho kwaye ukwesaba kwakho kuya kufa . " - Umthombo ongaziwayo

" Ndiqinisekile ukuba, ukuba uza kuqala umsebenzi omhle kuwe uza kuwugqiba ngomhla kaYesu Kristu. " - Filipi 1:16.

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Iingcaphuno zeNyango xa unyango luhluleka

" Ukuhlala ezintliziyweni zabathandekayo kukuba singafi ." - Thomas Campbell

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Iingcaphuno Zabo Ababuhlungu

" Ukufa akucimi ukukhanya; kuwukuphela kokukhupha isibane ngenxa yokusa. " - URabindranath Tagore

" Ukubona ukufa njengokuphela kobomi kufana nokubona ukugqithiselwa ekupheleni kolwandle. " - UDavid Searle

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Imithombo:

_{American Cancer Society. Iindaba zeThemba. http://www.cancer.org/treatment/survivorshipduringandaftertreatment/storiesofhope/}

Kusoloko kukhona ithemba

Kungakhathaliseki ukuba uhambo lwakho, okanye yintoni ekuhlambulukisweni kwakho, kukho ukuhlala kusethemba. Kungaba nethemba lonyango olutsha, okanye ityala leklinikhi. Kungaba nethemba lokuba unako ukukhulelwa emva kokonyango. Okanye kungenokuba nethemba lokufa okuhle ekhaya, nethemba lokuphila okuvuyolayo kulabo oshiya ngasemva. "Ithemba liyinto kunye neentsiba-ezo zinto ziphephe emphefumlweni-kwaye zicula iingoma ngaphandle kwamagama-kwaye ungalokothi unqande-nonke ..." - uEmily Dickinson