Sonke siyazi ukuba ibinzana elithi "abantwana bangabakhohlakele." Ngelixa le nto inokuba yinyani, kwaye abanye banokuthi bayingxenye yokukhula, kusishiya sicinga ukuba umntwana ogulayo unokuhlangabezana njani nokugculelwa kwabo baya kuba namava amaninzi. Ngelishwa, ukuyihoxisa akuyi kuyenza rhoqo. Ukuxhatshazwa kwaba yinto ebalulekileyo kwizikolo kwaye, kubantwana abadala kunye nentsha, kwi-intanethi. Nangona kubalulekile ukufundisa umntwana ukuba angabaxhatshazi abanye, abazali kufuneka bancede nabantwana babo baphendule kubaxhatshazwayo xa baqondiswa ngokwabo okanye nakwezinye.
Ukunika abantwana amandla okulungisa ukuyeka ukugqubutha nokuxhatshazwa kwaye kungavumeli ukuba le micimbi ibathintele ekuhlakuleleni izinga elifanelekileyo lokuzihlonela kubalulekile. Nazi iziphakamiso ezimbalwa zezingane ezinezifo ezikhulayo (IBD) ukukhupha ukukhwaza okungenzeka esikolweni.
Umdlalo wokudlala Ukuhlaziya ekhaya
Izakhono zokuxazulula iingxaki zinokuhlonishwa ngabantu abadala abathembekileyo nabantwana ngaphambi kokuya esikolweni. Sitshintshana kuba "ngumxhaphazi" kunye "nabaxhatshazwayo." Ncedisa umntwana wakho ukuba athole indlela engcono yokujongana namazwi angenabuhlungu. Xa umntwana ekwazi ukujongana noloyiko kwindawo epholileyo kunye nothando, uya kukwazi ukujamelana nabo ngokwenene.
Sebenzisa Ukuzihlaziya Ukuchasa Ukuxhatshazwa
Ukuzihlaziya kuyindlela yokukhubaza i-teaser. Nceda umntwana wakho alungiselele "ukubuyela". Injongo ayiyikuhlehlisa umxhaphazi, kodwa ukuphelisa ukukhwabanisa ngesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo.
Musa ukuphendula ngokukrakra okanye ukwesaba
Umntwana okhwazayo uya kukhuthazwa ngempembelelo enamandla, enjengomsindo okanye ukwesaba. Impendulo eyahlukileyo okanye engalindelekanga iya kudibanisa umntwana oqhubayo.
Sebenzisa uLwimi lweZandla elomeleleyo
Ulwimi luleke kwaye luyakhuthaza, okanye ludikibala, i-teaser. Zama ukutshintsha ulwimi lomzimba ukusuka kwintloni kunye nokwesaba, njengokujonga phantsi okanye ukubalekela ukuzithemba, njengentloko ephakamileyo. Kwezinye iimeko, ukufundisa abantwana abathile ukuzikhusela kunokuba luncedo. Izifundo zobugcisa beMartial zihlala zifundisa izifundo ezinokuthi zikhusele ixesha elifutshane ukuzithemba kwexesha elide kunye neeprogram. Isiphambili kukunceda nokuxhobisa abantwana ukuba baqonde kwaye basebenzise amandla abo okuma ukuxhatshazwa kunye nokukhusela iziganeko ezizayo zokuziphatha kakubi.
Yazi ukuba i-Teaser ingaba ne-Self-Esteem
Umntwana otyhalwayo kufuneka aqonde ukuba abanye abantwana banokuyidambisa njengendlela yokufihla ukungaqiniseki kunye nokwesaba. Abantwana abaxhaphazelayo okanye badibanayo banokuba nexesha elilukhuni ekhaya okanye esikolweni, kwaye loo nto ingaba yimbangela yokungakhuselekanga kwabo. Le ngxaki enzima kubantwana ukuba bayayiqonda, kodwa abantwana abadala kunye nentsha banokuva uvelwano ngunyana oxhaphazelayo ngenxa yokuba engasonwabi ngasese.
Khumbula ukuba abanye abantwana bahlekisa bonke abantu
Ezinye iifana zikhetha wonke umntu, kwaye ukuhlekisa akufanele kuthatyathwe entliziyweni. Ngeveki elandelayo i-teaser ingaqhubela omnye komnye, kwaye isiqephu siza kulibala.