Ukukhupha iikhoti zeqela kunye nokubeka uluhlu lweendwendwe luyinxalenye elula xa kuziwa ekucwangciseni umcimbi wokuzalwa komntwana wakho. Nangona unomnyaka wokucinga malunga nendlela yokugubha usuku lokuzalwa komntwana wakho, kunokubonakala ngathi akunjalo ixesha elaneleyo. Ukulinganisa into ekufuneka uyenze, yintoni oyenzayo malunga nekhekhe, kunye nazo zonke ezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo kunokuziva zikhulu.
Oku kuyinyani ngokukhethekileyo kumzali womntwana onomdla wokutya.
Imibhiyozo yabantwana abane-Allergies
Buza phantse nawuphi na umntwana owaziyo malunga nendlela abajonga ngayo umcimbi wabo wokuzalwa kwaye baya kugxuma kunye kunye nohlu lweengcamango. Abanye bafuna ikhekhe le-ayisikrimu, abanye bafuna i-pizza, abanye bafuna i-piñata nge-candy, ngelixa abanye bathanda ukupheka nabahlobo babo.
Kwaye kukho ikhekhe. Iifana ezininzi zifuna ikhekhe ehlotshiswe ngomxholo abaye bacinga ngayo ukususela ngomhla wokugqibela wokuzalwa. Akukho ncinane inyane elingazange liphuphe ukubethelela ikhandlela kwikhekhe elimnandi nelihle.
Ngenkwenkwe yokutya, amaphupha ephathi elipheleleyo lokuzalwa ayinakuhluka. Bafuna ukugubha kunye nabahlobo babo, banandipha ukutya kwabo okuthandayo kwaye babone amagama abo ngaphezulu kwekhekhe. Ngaloo mini, inyana yokuzalwa ifuna ukuba njengomntu wonke kwaye ibale ukuba banokutya kokutya, kwanexesha elifutshane.
Kwaye njengomzali, sizama ukwenza konke okusemandleni ethu ukwenza umcimbi wokuzalwa umcimbi ogcwele umonwabo, ukumamatheka kunye neenkumbulo.
Iingcebiso zokuhlela i-Allergan-Free Party
Esikhundleni sokugxininiswa, thatha ixesha lokucwangcisa phambili kwaye uceba iphathi onokuyonwabela wena nomntwana wakho. Ungavumeli ukuba ukutya kokutya kufikelele endleleni yokubhiyozela obalulekileyo.
- Indawo yokuzalwa. Qinisekisa ukuba isibonelelo sinokusingatha iimfuno zesifo sokutya komntwana wakho. Thetha kumphathi ukuba uqiniseke ukuba baye baphatha ukutya okudlulileyo kwixesha elidlulileyo kwaye banokuqinisekisa ukhuseleko lomntwana wakho. Xoxa ngesithuba sokungenisa ukutya ngaphandle kokuba oko kuyakunika imeko yokutya ephephile kumntwana wakho. Iintsapho ezininzi zikhetha ukuba namaqela ekhaya, apho zingaqinisekisa khona indawo engenazo i-allergen. Ngamanye amaxesha, esi sisisombululo esipheleleyo sokuhlangabeza iimfuno zomntwana wakho ngelixa udala ukubhiyozela ngokuzonwabisa. Ukuba neqela ekhaya lakho, umntwana wakho akayi kuba nesidingo sokukhathazeka ngokungcoliswa komnqamlezo. Unokupheka intandokazi yomntwana wakho okanye isitoreji ekutya okuqhelekileyo ukuze umntwana wakho angadla ukutya okufanayo njengeendwendwe, ngaphandle kokukhathazeka malunga nokugula.
- Imenyu. Nomaphi apho unomcimbi, kubalulekile ukucwangcisa imenyu edibana neemfuno zomntwana wakho, kunye nokunikela ukutya okufanelekileyo kumxholo weqela. Zama ukucwangcisa ukutya okuya kwenza umntwana wakho adle okufanayo kunye nabahlobo bawo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntwana wakho akayi-gluten-free, unokukhonza i-tortillas yesikolweni kunye ne-salsa njenge-snack, ukuze wonke umntu anandiphe ukutya. Ukuba umntwana wakho akanalo ubisi-mveliso, mhlawumbi ukhethe icebo elicotyiweyo njengophatha i-ice cream. Mhlawumbi unomsebenzi wokupheka, ukuze wonke umntu alungiselele ukutya kunye, ebonisa ukuba nokuba umntu otywala ukutya unokuba yinxenye yalo. Mhlawumbi unokwenza i-make-own own pizza party kunye ne-gluten-free-crusts, i-cheeses-free-cheeses, okanye iindwangu ezenziwa ngabantu bonke. Okanye mhlawumbi udlale "imfazwe yeentlanzi" kunye neefake zeqanda ezingenayo iqanda ezazilungiselelwe ngomntwana wokuzalwa engqondweni. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yingozi, kunezinto ezininzi zokutya ezibandakanyekayo eziza kunikwa eziza kugcina abantwana becela ngaphezulu.
- Ikhekhe . Akukho phondo eligqibekileyo ngaphandle kwekhekhe lokukhanyisa ikhandlela. Yenza umntwana wakho wokuzalwa anqume ukuba yeyiphi ikhekhe ayithandayo. Ngethamsanqa, kukho iindawo ezininzi zokubhaka ezinokwenza iinqabetho ezingenayo i-allergen. Yenza uphando oluthile kusengaphambili ukwenzela ukuba ufumane enye iyalelwe ngexesha leqela. Ukongezelela, kukho ezininzi iimveliso ezipakishwa ngaphambili ezikhoyo kwiimarike ezinokulungiswa lula ekhaya kwaye zihlotshiswe kweso sihlandlo. Okanye mhlawumbi unokuba ufuna ukubandakanya umntwana wakho kwinkqubo yokubhaka kwaye usebenzise iresiphi engenalo i-allergen ukuyobhaka ekhaya. Kukho iintyatyambo ezingenazo i-gluten, abafakeli beeqanda, ubisi obungabikho ubisi kunye nezinye iindlela zokukhetha xa ubhaka ikhekhe. Yiyiphi indlela enhle yokubambisana nomntwana wakho njengoko ubhaka kwaye uyihobise ikhekhe ukuwabelana nabahlobo babo.
- Iqela liyakuthanda . Xa abantwana becinga malunga neentlobo zothando abahlala becinga nge-candy kuqala. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba ucinge ngebhokisi xa kufikelele kwiqela elincomekayo kumntwana wakho ngokutya kokutya. Kutheni ungacingi ukunika into ngaphandle kweetysi okanye ukutya kwiqela? Ngokomzekelo, unako ukunika iisokisi ezingaqhelekanga, upende okanye amanqaku omatshini, ibhola yebhola yebhola okanye enye into emele iminqweno yomntwana wakho. Ukuba uceba ukunika isikhwama se-goodie se-candy, cingisisa ngeendlela ezingcono eziza kukunceda umntwana wakho. Ukuba umntwana wakho unomdla we-nut, khetha i-candies engenanto, kwaye ukuba umntwana wakho unesifo somzimba, khetha iicandi ezinomsoco kunye ne-gummy kwiintlobo zeetrocolate.
Khawulibala ukugxininisa xa ucwangcisa umcimbi womntwana wakho wokuzalwa kwaye kunoko thabatha ixesha lokucwangcisa phambili kwaye ujabulele. Yenza lo nyaka uphelele ngokutya okukhuselekileyo, ukuzonwabisa okuninzi kunye nokumamatheka ukusuka endlebeni ukuya endlebeni.