Udliwano-ndlebe noMdlali wezithulu uMarlee Matlin

Bhekisela kuMarlee Matlin kunoma ubani, osisithulu okanye ukuva, kwaye banokuthi baya kuthi bathe bazi ukuba ngubani. Esi sibonakaliso esinamandla sokuba uphumelele kangakanani umsebenzi wakhe njengomdlali, umlobi kunye nomvelisi. Njengoxakekile njengoko yena, uMatlin wathatha ixesha lokuhlala phantsi ukuze abe nodliwano-ndlebe.

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Njengomzali ongenalwazi wokuva abantwana, Ziziphi ezinye zeMingeni enzima kakhulu?

Ukuba ngumzali ongenisithulu akabonakalisi mingeni engakumbi kunokuba ndiyakuva kuphela ngenxa yokuba andiyivumeli. Le nto yinto yam yokuphila-okokuba "ukukhubazeka" okwenene ukungazithulu akukho endlebeni, kusemqondweni. Kunoko, iimingeni zam ziqinisekisa ukuba zikhuselekile, zinyamekelwa kwaye zininzi zazo zonke ezithandayo. Ngokucacileyo, kukho imingeni kum kuba ndinabantwana abane, kodwa ndinelungelo lokuba ndinomyeni omkhulu kwaye ndandisekela intsapho kwaye sonke siyaxhasana. Le yindlu ethethayo kunye nemimiselo ngoko akukho miqobo.

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Ngaba Ngaba Abantwana Bakho Bafunda Ukusasaza Kwangoko? Ngaba Yenza Ukuba Abazali Bomelele okanye Bomelele?

Intombi yam endala, uSara, "wathetha" uphawu lwakhe lokuqala xa wayeneminyaka engama-6 ubudala - kwakungumqondiso "wocingo." Njengabo bonke abantwana, ngamnye wafunda ukuba "athethe" ngomqondiso kwizigaba ezahlukeneyo, kuxhomekeka xa bekulungele ukufunda kodwa kwimeko nganye, ngaphambi kokuba bakwazi ukuthetha. Kamva ndafumanisa ukuba inyaniso ukuba umntwana uya kuthetha nawe ngomqondiso, ukuba uyafundiswa, ngaphambi kokuba akwazi ukuthetha. Yiyo indlela abantwana abakhula ngayo. Ndicinga ukuba ukutyikitya kuyisisityebi esikhulu sokuthetha nabantwana bakho, ukuva okanye izithulu kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kwenza kube lula ukuba uyazi ukuba umntwana wakho ulambile okanye ufuna okungakumbi kuba bakuxelela ngesayina endaweni yokumemeza okanye ukukhala ngenxa yokuba Unamazwi okuthetha kwaye akuxelele.

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Wena Nomyeni Wakho Uthetha Kanjani Nabantwana Bakho? Ukuthetha okanye ukusayina?

Sisebenzisa zombini umqondiso kunye nentetho. Ndathetha ukususela ekubeni ndi-2 kwaye ndayisayina ukususela kuba ndingu-5. Nangona bethetha ngaphezu kokuba batyikitye kuba umama uthetha kakhulu ekhaya, banako ukufunda iimpawu ezintsha xa ndibafundisa. Umyeni wam usayinela kwaye usebenzisa zombini.

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Ngaba Abantwana Bakho Banemibuzo Yentlalo / Yengqondo Ephathelene Nokuba Nomzali ongenalwazi?

Akukho nto endiyazi ngayo. Kodwa ukuba bekunjalo, ndiza kuhlala nabo kunye nokuthetha ngawo. Ndiya kubakhuthaza ukuba bahlale bekhululekile ukundixelela into eyenzekayo ebomini babo kwaye ukuba kukho ingxaki ababejamelana nayo, sinokuyenza kunye kunye. Konke malunga nokuthetha.

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Ziziphi Iingxaki Ezijamelana Nayo Xa Uthetha Ngomfundisi Wabantwana Bakho?

Ndithetha nabo ngekhompyutha, i-imeyili kunye nevidiyo. Ngomntu, ndithetha. Kukho amaxesha apho sineentlanganiso ezinkulu esikolweni, kwaye ndizisa inguqulelo yolwimi lwezandla kuba ndifuna ukuqonda i-100% yento eyenzekayo, kodwa ngokubanzi akukho mingeni yangempela ekunxibelelaneni nootitshala, abazali bahlobo. I-teknoloji kunye neengqondo ziye zavela kwinqanaba apho kungabikho miqobo.

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Ziziphi iingxaki zokukhulisa abantwana kwi-Limelight?

Siye saqinisekisa ukuba baphakanyiswe ngaphandle kwesikhundla kwaye bakhetha ngenjongo yokuhlala kwisixeko ngaphandle kwe-Hollywood. Umyeni wam kunye nam sinyule ngokucophelela ukuba baninzi abantwana bethu bavelele kuyo nangona singazigcini ngokupheleleyo. Bayazi kakuhle into endiyenzayo ukuze ndiphilise kwaye ndihlala ndihamba ngekhaphethi ebomvu ndize ndifotwe. Kodwa andize ndibahambise kunye nami kumaphephethi. Asiyicingi nje ukuba yindawo yabantwana.

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Ngaba Ubungathi Izingane Zakho Ziziva Ziyingxenye Yehlabathi Lezithulu, Ihlabathi Elivelayo okanye Bobabini?

Ndibavusile ukuba babone ihlabathi njengehlabathi elilodwa elinabantu bonke kulo, abazizithulu kunye nokuva. Kukho ukungalingani kunye nokucwaswa kwabantu abayizithulu nabanzima bokuphulaphula abantu kodwa ndicinga ukuba isinyathelo sokuqala sokulingana nokuhlonipha kukubona ukuba bayingxenye yehlabathi elikhulu kunokuba bajonge "njengathi."

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Unceda njani / Ngaba Uncede Umntwana Wakho Uqonde Imilinganiselo Yakho Yakho?

Ngubani owathi ndinemiqathango? Ndiyakwenza nantoni ngaphandle kokuva. Ewe, andinakuba ngumculi, okanye umqhubi wefowuni okanye i-piano tuner kodwa kukho konke okusemandleni endikwenzayo. Kutheni uhlala "ekukhubazekeni" kwam "okanye" ukusilela "xa ndibabonisa ukuba ubomi buzele amathuba ANONKE.

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Abanye Abantwana Babazali Abangenangqondo Abangenakho Ukuzithemba Kancinci Nokuzimela Kancinci?

Andizange ndibone oko nabantwana bam. Ndiyicinga ukuba ukuba le yimeko, kuya kuba ngumzali ukukhuthaza abantwana ukuba babe neqondo elomeleleyo lokuzithemba nokuzithemba. Umntwana ufunda kuphela oko uzinike ngako ukuba bafuna into nayiphi na indlela, kuya kumzali ukubanceda.

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Kutheni uzimisele ukupapasha i-Autobiography yakho?

Ngexesha elithile ebomini bomntu wonke, sonke sifanele sijongane nenyaniso. Kwaye, kwakuqhuba uchungechunge lweTV olubizwa ngokuthi Ukudansa ngeenkwenkwezi apho ndifumene abantu befuna ukwazi ukuba ndingubani ngaphandle kweMarlee Matlin umdlali we-Oscar owawunqobayo owayekulo " L Word " " IWest Wing ," " Seinfeld "okanye" Abantwana BakaThixo Omncinane . " Ubomi bam obuninzi buye malunga nokuba yiNtsifo kwaye ndifuna abantu bazi oko. Kwakhona, ukuba ndibane nabantwana abane, ndafumana ithuba lokucamngca ebuntwaneni bam kunye nemingcipheko endijamelana nayo kwaye ndifuna ukuhlambuluka ndixelele inyaniso yam kwaye ndabelana ngalo nangona kungekho mntu uphelele, sinokukunqoba izithintelo zaluphi na uhlobo ukuba landela zethu iintliziyo. Ndilapha namhlanje njengomama, umdlali we-actress, u-activist, kunye nombhali ukubonisa.

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Ziziphi iiprojekthi ozenzayo ngoku okanye ufuna ukusebenzela kwixesha elizayo?

Ndisebenza ekuphuhliseni olunye uchungechunge lweTV kwaye ngethemba ukuba kungekudala ungazifunda malunga nayo xa zonke izinto zenzeke! Ndine-biography yami ephuma ngo-2009. Ibizwa ngokuba " Ndiza kukhwaza emva koko ," epapashwa nguSimon noShumbisi.